True that! I'm a girly girl, but my sexuality is always called into question. It makes me sad too, because most of the lesbians I know lean towards more butch not because they enjoy it, but because they get tired of people always questioning them. It's really rather sad that they have to feel that way.
I have nothing against butch girls, don't get me wrong. Everyone should just have the right to dress and act how they want without being questioned.
And I wish romantic and attraction were talked about differently. I'm actually a pretty romantic person (somewhat secretly) but since many of the lesbians in my area aren't my type, I never get to be romantic. I hope that when I do find a girl, she's a fan of romantic gestures, because there is going to be a lot of them.
There was this hyper-masculine gay guy who went to my school and he had this huge beef with me being effeminate and androgynous. Because apparently I was "acting gay", and pretending and being attention seeking and I made "normal" gays like him look bad. And being a feminine queer dude i am instantly tagged with being loud, rude and immature.
i ended up headbutting him because when talking to a princess talk smack get smacked ya feel
B'yeah and Im also kind of sick of white breeder girls making sweeping assumptions about me. Like they was aghast at the idea that I can find trans guys and some tomboys attractive. Because apparently vagina's are gay-vampire garlic or something. And then asking me deeply personal questions like im a side-show attraction.