LGBTQA - Discussion and support.

[Nerd]

That's my school "omg your gay wtf is wrong with you"
That's what someone said to my best friend Avi. I beat the **** out of them. Avi was crying..God. It's awful how bad people can be.

Wow, that's really horrible :C
It's one thing to not being open to homosexuality, but when you're disrespectful..now that's just plain absurd.

There are things I'm sort of, against I guess? Or just not open to? But I respect people nonetheless that are involved in it.
Unless it's morally wrong (like incest), then I know I have no right to tell people that they can't do/be it. (off topic, but there's a boy in my school who thinks incest is okay as long as it's not between a girl and a boy...ugh)

 

[Mercedes]

Wow, that's really horrible :C
It's one thing to not being open to homosexuality, but when you're disrespectful..now that's just plain absurd.

There are things I'm sort of, against I guess? Or just not open to? But I respect people nonetheless that are involved in it.

Yeah. I know. Then I went to the office to file a "bully report" they were like. You just beat someone up. I'm sure your freinds fine it was just a comment. But I got suspended but my mom told me I did the right thing. It just upsets me. Why is everyone so rude in this world? Why cant we just accept each other for who we are?

 

[radical6]

I'm glad I live in Washington that is like liberal (sadly) as **** but at least like gay ppl... except instead of getting beaten up everyone wants a Gay Bestfriend! It's weird as **** and I do get little micro aggressions but no one actually insulted me for ever being gay. Hope it gets better for you.

 

[Nerd]

I'm glad I live in Washington that is like liberal (sadly) as **** but at least like gay ppl... except instead of getting beaten up everyone wants a Gay Bestfriend! It's weird as **** and I do get little micro aggressions but no one actually insulted me for ever being gay. Hope it gets better for you.

Ugh, those girls who are like "I want a gay bestfriend hAHAAhahAHA!" they sadly exist.
seriously, chill out -.- we're not like, trophies to show off to your friends.

Yeah. I know. Then I went to the office to file a "bully report" they were like. You just beat someone up. I'm sure your freinds fine it was just a comment. But I got suspended but my mom told me I did the right thing. It just upsets me. Why is everyone so rude in this world? Why cant we just accept each other for who we are?

I think you did the right thing. Schools are always really stupid about that stuff. A similar thing happened when my friend's boyfriend beat a guy up because the guy was saying nasty things about my friend. Her boyfriend got in trouble, but the guy saying mean things didn't.
Words really CAN hurt you...don't listen to that stupid cliche saying >.>

In their defense, I guess they can never tell whether what was said was said is 100% truth, but they can see marks from getting beaten up...it's quite corrupt.

 

[unintentional]

Ugh, those girls who are like "I want a gay bestfriend hAHAAhahAHA!" they sadly exist.
seriously, chill out -.- we're not like, trophies to show off to your friends.

Fun story: My and one of my friends (who no longer talks to me v~v) were talking about that. I was like "My uncle (who's gay) doesn't like shopping, he finds it boring." and she says "he isn't a real homosexual then" I then told her that he and his boyfriend would be married if it were legal where he lived. She still said all gays like shopping, it's in their blood. She's also one who's like "omg, i want a gay bestfriend so we can talk about how hot [insert boy's name] is."

 

[Lady Timpani]

Fun story: My and one of my friends (who no longer talks to me v~v) were talking about that. I was like "My uncle (who's gay) doesn't like shopping, he finds it boring." and she says "he isn't a real homosexual then" I then told her that he and his boyfriend would be married if it were legal where he lived. She still said all gays like shopping, it's in their blood. She's also one who's like "omg, i want a gay bestfriend so we can talk about how hot [insert boy's name] is."

?????

People like that are so baffling lmao. When I came out to one of my friends, she was accepting, but she asked me (completely seriously) if I and other gay people should use the bathroom of the opposite gender because it "would be improper" or whatever. Like??? What?????? Gay people (and for that matter, trans people using the bathroom of the gender they identify with) aren't going to go in and sexually assault people or whatever she thought we were going to do. I'm sure many of them who are out just want to use the bathroom in peace and get out.

 

[Nerd]

Omg...I can't believe people think that way...it's unreal

 

[oath2order]

If a girl comes to me and finds out I'm gay and is like "lets be friends" I have no problem with that -_-

 

[unintentional]

If a girl comes to me and finds out I'm gay and is like "lets be friends" I have no problem with that -_-

Good for you? It gets annoying when girls come up to me, just because my uncle is gay, and is like "can u give me his number so I can call him?" Not everyone is okay with it.

 

[oath2order]

Good for you? It gets annoying when girls come up to me, just because my uncle is gay, and is like "can u give me his number so I can call him?" Not everyone is okay with it.

How do they know your uncle is gay?

 

[unintentional]

How do they know your uncle is gay?

we were talking about sexuality in our familes.

 

[Jas0n]

I think we should all get into the ~Magic Position~ with Mr. Wolf

 

[Jarrad]

so trans* is being used as an umbrella term?

why not just use the actual term instead of using something vague and confusing lol?

 

[oath2order]

we were talking about sexuality in our familes.

So ignore it then? It just seems like you're looking for reasons to complain about something.

 

[Misuzurin]

Does anyone else hate sterotypical gay guys? It seems like I can only fall for straight men and it sucks. I'm like lovesick all the time as a result of things never working out. I don't even need someone masculine, just normal. Do these normal gays not exist? Everyone I know that is gay irl is, ahem for lack of better term, faggier than me and I am trans for christ's sake.

Sorry for the rant. Does anyone else experience this much hardship in finding a suitable partner?

- - - Post Merge - - -

In a year I probably won't have to worry due to my transition. But I really don't want to be alone for the next 8-12 months.

 

[oath2order]

I don't even need someone masculine, just normal. Do these normal gays not exist?

Wow thanks for the ****ty implication that they're not normal.

 

[Jarrad]

Does anyone else hate sterotypical gay guys? It seems like I can only fall for straight men and it sucks. I'm like lovesick all the time as a result of things never working out. I don't even need someone masculine, just normal. Do these normal gays not exist? Everyone I know that is gay irl is, ahem for lack of better term, faggier than me and I am trans for christ's sake.

Sorry for the rant. Does anyone else experience this much hardship in finding a suitable partner?

- - - Post Merge - - -

In a year I probably won't have to worry due to my transition. But I really don't want to be alone for the next 8-12 months.

"faggier"...

I think you mean feminine.
But yes, I completely agree with you. Although I am bisexual, I am not at all attracted to feminine gays, and to be honest I don't really like them. I'm sure that lots of them are very nice people, but I just find a lot of the things they do and how they speak to be a bit annoying. I used to be good friends with a guy who was very feminine, so it's not like that I am completely "anti-fem gays"

 

[Misuzurin]

I really don't want to make a big deal about how I feel about feminine gays. Sorry if any offense is taken, but my preference is my preference. I'm sure other people feel the same way.

 

[Brackets]

Does anyone else hate sterotypical gay guys? It seems like I can only fall for straight men and it sucks. I'm like lovesick all the time as a result of things never working out. I don't even need someone masculine, just normal. Do these normal gays not exist?

that's actually... quite rude.
But yes more 'masculine' gay men do exist

 

[oath2order]

that's actually... quite rude.
But yes more 'masculine' gay men do exist

Way to stereotype.