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(Too much too quote, this is in response to Leela.)
That ring looks like it could be loosely based off the Aven triangle. But I don't know. I've not seen an ace ring like that before.

All of the questions you listed really get on my nerves. Particularly "you just haven't met the right person".
I don't get "you're probably just a lesbian in the closet" often though. I openly have a romantic preference for feminine people.

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so are you guys gray-aces, sex-neutral or sex-repulsed? I'm sex-neutral.

I'm not sex-repulsed in that I can tolerate things to do with sex and such, and I don't mind talking about it. However the thought of personally engaging in the act is gross to me. If that makes sense?
 
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I'm not sex-repulsed in that I can tolerate things to do with sex and such, and I don't mind talking about it. However the thought of personally engaging in the act is gross to me. If that makes sense?

It made sense to me. I was going to say the same about myself.

I forgot to mention something I've had said to me. "You're asexual? I can change that" *creepy wink* Just, no. I know if you say this you're probably joking, but it makes me very uncomfortable. Besides, I don't think I need 'changing'. I'm fine the way I am.
 
I forgot to mention something I've had said to me. "You're asexual? I can change that" *creepy wink* Just, no. I know if you say this you're probably joking, but it makes me very uncomfortable. Besides, I don't think I need 'changing'. I'm fine the way I am.

That's really gross. I'm sorry someone said that to you. :/
And yeah, you're right. No one can change who you are when it comes to sexuality.

Also I hate how some people have the mindset that we're 'broken' and need fixing. I mean some people aren't even joking when they say stuff about 'converting' aces.
 
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idk what i am
im not sex repulsed i just dont like the idea of me doing it
i dont want to date anybody at all
like ye friends/platonically sure but not romantic stuff
idk what to categorise as

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idk what i am
im not sex repulsed i just dont like the idea of me doing it
i dont want to date anybody at all
like ye friends/platonically sure but not romantic stuff
idk what to categorise as
 
idk what i am
im not sex repulsed i just dont like the idea of me doing it
i dont want to date anybody at all
like ye friends/platonically sure but not romantic stuff
idk what to categorise as

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idk what i am
im not sex repulsed i just dont like the idea of me doing it
i dont want to date anybody at all
like ye friends/platonically sure but not romantic stuff
idk what to categorise as
if I'm correct im pretty sure that's [aromanticism], when you feel little to none romantic attraction.
 
idk what i am
im not sex repulsed i just dont like the idea of me doing it
i dont want to date anybody at all
like ye friends/platonically sure but not romantic stuff
idk what to categorise as

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idk what i am
im not sex repulsed i just dont like the idea of me doing it
i dont want to date anybody at all
like ye friends/platonically sure but not romantic stuff
idk what to categorise as

I do know one person IRL who identifies as asexual and aromantic... they don't have any interest in sex or romance whatsoever. That sounds like a good category for you, maybe. Personally I don't try to fit myself in categories but it's still useful to have something to tell people (ie I'm a heteroromantic asexual) if they ask.
 
idk what i am
im not sex repulsed i just dont like the idea of me doing it
i dont want to date anybody at all
like ye friends/platonically sure but not romantic stuff
idk what to categorise as

Well, only you'd be able to know for sure. But perhaps you're an aromantic asexual? (Meaning no sexual attraction and no romantic attraction.)

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Just noticed others posted the same thing before me. I'm a slow typer. ^^;
 
hueheuh
so
aro/ace agender kid
always thought of myself as aroace but i dont really feel like saying 'oh im aroace'
im just. nothing. lmao

off topic but does anyone hav fantasy life? is it worth getting/any fun? im thinking bout buying it but idk. if not, i may get aa trilogy/3rd acnl
 
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Is their an oreientation where you wouldn't do it like with a male, but like with other genders? Thanks in advance.
 
When does tumblr shut up about monosexual privilege

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If u believe monosexual privilege is real then I will laugh at you forever ..and this is coming from a pan person lmaoo.

of course ive been called lesbian because im dating a girl atm but lmao wtf
 
idk its hard being in utah and being hell i dont even know in a lesbian relationship??
bi?? I guess?
Man are nice, women are nice. But only to look at??
Romance is cool, but eh I'm not feeling the intimacy thing unless I want babies that day?
I know im not lesbian b/c men are tight but idk
genitals are so weird to me and i dont like them very much tbh.

im sorry im ranting so much tonight just feel weird and idk sad but like more empty than anything
 
idk its hard being in utah and being hell i dont even know in a lesbian relationship??
bi?? I guess?
Man are nice, women are nice. But only to look at??
Romance is cool, but eh I'm not feeling the intimacy thing unless I want babies that day?
I know im not lesbian b/c men are tight but idk
genitals are so weird to me and i dont like them very much tbh.

im sorry im ranting so much tonight just feel weird and idk sad but like more empty than anything

Do you think you could be biromantic asexual ?
I hope you feel better soon! ;_; Have a hot drink and try to relax for a while :blush:
 
since when did everybody start assigning themselves titles in order to define their sexual orientation?

wouldnt the world be a better place if people were just left to love whomever
i mean it's not really anybody's business but your own
 
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since when did everybody start assigning themselves titles in order to define their sexual orientation?

wouldnt the world be a better place if people were just left to love whomever
i mean it's not really anybody's business but your own

It would be, but unfortunately that's not the way things are. Titles provide an identity, it's comforting for someone to know 'oh this is an actual thing, and there are other people out there like me!' rather than feeling alone, and like you don't fit into anything.
 
It would be, but unfortunately that's not the way things are. Titles provide an identity, it's comforting for someone to know 'oh this is an actual thing, and there are other people out there like me!' rather than feeling alone, and like you don't fit into anything.

but your sexual orientation shouldn't be part of your identity lol it's a preference, not part of your personality
 
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