Yeah I'm agreeing with you. It'll be a good day when heterosexuality is no longer considered the automatic default.
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Yeah I'm agreeing with you. It'll be a good day when heterosexuality is no longer considered the automatic default.
depends on the mormon but probably yes
EpicGamer12
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apparently hes relaxed about it and i researched it a bit apparently they dont hate us but Want to Correct us and Love us before we go to hell or something
i talked to him a lot about my ex gf idk if he knows im trans tho. i dont think he would mind too much if we were dating but his parents are another story since theyre like those mormons who install those monitoring services that watch every single thing your kid does online and bans sites like youtube lmao
I'm mtf trans and pansexual, and jeez is dating hard after coming out, although part of it is probably due to how I'm weird about my sexuality. 90% of the people I get that hit on me are just really creepy dudes that are probably just fetishists, which sucks.
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Eh, fetishism isn't creepy unless its completely consuming that person in my opinion or entirely physically focused (which yes, I know alot that are only into transwomen because of their bits which is ew), but among those fetishists there still can be found a few that are attracted to both the physical and mental and frankly, as a transgirl and someone that hasn't had many people in her life over the past 5 years due to chronic illness, I'd probably take those 5% of that 90% anyday solely for the company.
I understand that isn't you in your case but I just felt it worthy to mention not all of those so called 'fetishists' are bad. as someone in the kink community predating transition I've seen the world from both sides so to speak and know just like everything else in the world, it all depends who it is.
I myself consider myself still pansexual too but after alot of experiences with guys and none with cisgirls (only other transgirls) I'm pretty turned off by alot of males typical personality cliches (lack of emotional response, selfishness and not much effort to make sure both parties are happy) at this point so mostly am starting to find my attraction to other females (cis or not) growing.
and I definitely know a bit about the weird about your sexuality part....it's gotten even more specific in the year I've been on mones than before...there are some things that still are great though, like just cuddles :3
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I know right? but I guess still a majority of the planet has been trained to treat anything different than the majority as bad. the world has a long way to go to be untrained from past ways of things.
Wittle_Munchkin
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Okay, peeps. Sooooo I'm only physically attracted to men, and I'm only emotionally attracted to women. What the heck is up with me? >_> I'm only attracted to model-status dudes; not average ones. So it's still hard for me to find men attractive. (Is it because many of them don't tend to put as much effort into fashion/looking good like women?)
As for the emotional attraction towards women, I'm easily attracted to them. Especially when we're good friends and they identify as bisexual or lesbian. When it comes to physical attraction towards women, I find them beautiful and easy to look at, but it's never sexual. At all.
If I start dating again, I'm going to be confused as heck. I don't know what the flip I want.
As for the emotional attraction towards women, I'm easily attracted to them. Especially when we're good friends and they identify as bisexual or lesbian. When it comes to physical attraction towards women, I find them beautiful and easy to look at, but it's never sexual. At all.
If I start dating again, I'm going to be confused as heck. I don't know what the flip I want.
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OreoTerror
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Good luck with school! I'm sure it will go fine, usually that generation typically doesn't care as much as you think. At least that's how it was when I was in school.
Depends where you live tbh
Like I have never been worried about being out as trans or gay since everyones really liberal around here. But my friends down south still get ****, and they're terrified to be out so yeah. (Talking about the US lol)
Other countries idk, I would assume Canada is more relaxed about it than the US.
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Canada is just as varied, and there are always going to be bigots everywhere, even in cities with large presences of LGB + T communities, stuff happens.
OreoTerror
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I live in Australia and places do vary but typically people are pretty open here, even in places where I think they wouldn't be. There are always going to be those horrible people making life difficult, though.
I got a nice, vintage floral shirt today. It's pretty darn feminine, and It's the closest I can really get to cross-dressing, right now. I intend to wear it out, so it'll be fun to see people even more confused than they were before about my sex.
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floral is pretty hard to pull off...you could try different cut clothing (like most of the summer I've been wearing female cut tops, mind you I've started to get the boobs for it the past year on hormones) and no one would probably bat an eye.
on a random offnote: everytime I see your signature I keep imagining David Bowie as the next Doctor for Doctor Who...I feel like he would have been way more charming than the current (12) one, Capaladi (sp?) for sure <.<
I'm not sure how old you are, but I remember having similar confusion when I was about 18-19. All of a sudden I was in university and an environment where you could be openly whatever and I felt like I needed to figure out "what I was" or at least somehow fit my feelings into a neat little box. Now that I'm older I've realized that it's best (at least for me) to just not overthink it and not try to predict who I'll want to be with in the future. I've been really surprised many times by who I end up being attracted to, so now I think of things more in terms of just being attracted to the person because of who they are rather than their gender. Also relationships are all different, so having a relationship that's more physical with one person and more emotional with another is totally normal in my opinion.
That may be a good idea, yes. I already look pretty feminine with my long hair, though, so the floral look goes surprisingly well.
Also, yes. I've always thought Bowie would have been better.
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