LGBTQA - Discussion and support.
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GOD I'm so tired of people like this.
You don't want to be bisexual. You don't want to be gay or lesbian or trans or ace. You want a fun, ~quirky and different~ label for yourself so you can stand out from the crowd but you don't want any of the struggles that come with it. You don't want your family and friends leaving you. You don't want to be told "it's just a phase", or that you'll get over it, or that it's not real for your whole life. You don't want to be told someone "doesn't believe" in your sexuality or gender identity. You don't want to be sick of all the heteronormative media. You don't want the panic attacks when people mislabel you. Regarding bisexuality specifically, you don't want potential LG partners to tell you they're uninterested in you because they only date "real gays".
Go away. You aren't LGBTA+ and your want to wear our identities as cute quirky labels isn't welcome here.
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And as a sidenote the definition of "bisexual" is "same and other genders" not "two genders"
You don't want to be bisexual. You don't want to be gay or lesbian or trans or ace. You want a fun, ~quirky and different~ label for yourself so you can stand out from the crowd but you don't want any of the struggles that come with it. You don't want your family and friends leaving you. You don't want to be told "it's just a phase", or that you'll get over it, or that it's not real for your whole life. You don't want to be told someone "doesn't believe" in your sexuality or gender identity. You don't want to be sick of all the heteronormative media. You don't want the panic attacks when people mislabel you. Regarding bisexuality specifically, you don't want potential LG partners to tell you they're uninterested in you because they only date "real gays".
Go away. You aren't LGBTA+ and your want to wear our identities as cute quirky labels isn't welcome here.
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And as a sidenote the definition of "bisexual" is "same and other genders" not "two genders"
Nightmares
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You're just assuming all this stuff lmao
Sorry for offending you though, I was just asking a question and didn't realise people would get upset about this ;-;
I apologise
Sexuality is relative. Not everybody needs a label slapped on them. Just be yourself and if you feel attracted to somebody, then go with it. Labels, to me, are just for convenience. You shouldn't really have one just to fit in or feel part of something. If you don't know what you are yet, just don't go by one. It doesn't have to be a huge deal.
Am I wrong to assume you don't want any of the bullcrap I listed along with your desire for bisexuality?
Of course people are going to be upset. People have been through hell because of their identity and it's really insulting when people who aren't a part of it waltz in all "Omg I wish I were ____!" when they have no idea.
I can't make myself like girls though
And haha I'm not exactly "fascinated" by it
where is the truth
Nightmares
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Honestly, I don't know anyone who wouldn't accept me being LGBT+, but obviously I couldn't prove that.
And yeah, I understand, I guess I should've worded my original post in a different way
But I was only asking if it was weird, I wasn't coming in here announcing that "being bi is soo cool omgg I wish I was bi!!1!" xD
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How do I show you the truuth
yes
You might not know people now but you're what, 14? 15? You're gonna meet plenty of other people in your life and chances are, not all of them are going to be welcoming. Not to mention you don't even need to know people personally. Just seeing anti-lgbta+ protests and posts on social media is hurtful and terrifying, even if you have never seen these people in your life.
Nightmares
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Yeah, I see.... ;-;
Well you are a kid so I guess we should take that into consideration. I remember my questioning phase when I honestly thought I was something base off reading it off the internet. I remember saying I was pan, then bi, then gay, and so fourth and so on. I came to realize I was Herero since I really had no attraction to the same sex. I dated one girl but then went downhill. I actually came to liking a real close friend of mines so I came here asking for questions. I recalled saying I hardly had any attraction for females period but for someone reason I had attraction for her so I'm bi-curious in a way. You're just exploring yourself which is no biggie. You learn and grown.
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EpicGamer12
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Oh no not at all, I simply meant that with human instinct originally coming from the need to survive, a female would see a male as another, but a female would have seen a female as one of the same. that's how the original gender roles happened. also, men were originally quite a bit stronger built than women which happens a lot in nature (and sometimes it's even the other way around). I myself support just referring to everyone as people, rather than specific genders.
My original point was just saying human instinct at first was simply to procreate, I wasn't trying to mention anything about what you said. I was just mentioning how the original split happened. Sorry to cause the confusion.
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It's okay. You just kinda crossed into a territory a lot of people get angry about because you wish you could help and empathize with everyone but people don't like that because of the way you put it. You'll learn better how to express your feelings as you age.
I may be reading this incorrectly but if you seriously read anyone's posts as people getting mad about empathy then you really need to go over it all again.
Nightmares
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Pineapples are cool too
EpicGamer12
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No, I never said you were mad about empathy. I just said you didn't like the way they put it. They stated their feelings in a way that wasn't a very good way of putting it, and you were rightfully upset about it. How they said it made it sound like they wanted to be in a worse position than they are now, but in reality they just wanted to accommodate more people in life, which I am quite certain I'm correct in saying because Nightmares liked my post.
EpicGamer12
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Haha, I totally agree with you Bowie. People love making themselves the victim of a situation. I've even done it myself plenty of times, regrettably.
That Zephyr Guy
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And you've apparently had a fun trend to get offended at what other people get offended by.
He's doing it too. Right now.
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