I hate how gender is a big deal too. Why is it that only females "can" wear makeup? What makes things for "boys" or "girls?" It bothers me. Why can't we all just wear whatever and have everything be gender neutral?
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I hate how gender is a big deal too. Why is it that only females "can" wear makeup? What makes things for "boys" or "girls?" It bothers me. Why can't we all just wear whatever and have everything be gender neutral?
Because the society is constantly implemented with norms and ideas that everyone should follow, probably most noticeable if you look around in magazines and whatnot. Yes, it's one of the stupidest ideas to ever enter this world, and I've seen people go very much like "wtf" when I say they can wear a dress if they want (yeah some think I'm way too open-minded about things...).
Also we probably can't because people tend to have bs opinions on everything that is not norm and think they have the freedom to hack on people not following it. Yes it's stupid as hell.
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actually, it more follows original human instinct based on who can procreate with who, but I get what you're saying that nowadays it is just society
i love the **** out of makeup and i'll wear it and be the prettiest boy i can be. :') <3
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im gonna go through a trans evaluation thing in like half a year or something and im not rly looking forward to it because it feels like i will have to sit there nd prove that im male by being like "um i never wear makeip and also i love cars" ahdiskf im dying
well i mean i'm a trans male and i wear makeup so i don't see how you saying "i never wear makeup" makes you male or not. but o k.
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I think thats kinda his point tho - it's a stupid reason to try and gender somebody off of that but he still has to "prove" to people that he's a dude somehow and how exactly do you do that without like, sucking up to people's idea of what gender is
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which is really really dumb if you ask me.
because do you know how many cis-men out there wear makeup? lots. lots and lots of cis-gender men wear more makeup than me. and they kill it. <3
That Zephyr Guy
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lol nobody kills it more than u tho
so if a woman sees a man wearing a dress, she can't procreate with him? well alright then, trundle.
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yeah i know, that's what i mean. but people at those places are doctors and basically to get to transition i need to get a diagnosis of "gender dysphoria", and basically they will tell if you are trans or not based upon some interviews. and while i actually haven't been to one yet i feel incredibly anxious about having to go there, because to me, in my head, it feels like they will be like "um unless you do these stereotypically male things you cannot be male", or at least it will make them doubt me. that's what i mean.
and it sucks lmao. i think u kinda missed my point
nah man i know what you meant. i'm just saying i agree yeah. it's stupid that someone get's to assess if you're trans enough. which is troubling because i'm almost certain the person who will interview you will be someone who is cis-gender.
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oh alright haha sorry ^^
a d yeah!!! that sucks. like, i am my gender because i say i am, not because i wear certain clothes, have a certain hairstyle or certain interests etc... yuck
There's someone like that in my area, I forget his name but one of the common questions he asks is "Did you play with Barbies as a child?"
Research the absolute **** out of someone before going to them. If you have a tumblr I'd recommend following foryourhealthandsafety too. They tag all their posts by location so it's easy to find people to avoid or to look into.
I'll always view it as "questioning". There's no need for an umbrella term (and one that's a slur at that) to be part of an acronym which is an umbrella term for the same group of people.
I figured. I was just browsing a site and seen people saying Q meant queer. I need to take a break.
Nightmares
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People often act weird when I say I want to be bisexual.... is that weird?
A lot of the time, their replies are: "well be bi then." like what
A lot of the time, their replies are: "well be bi then." like what
People often act weird when I say I want to be bisexual.... is that weird?
A lot of the time, their replies are: "well be bi then." like what
i mean, do you just wish you were bisexual, or are you actually bisexual?
i think it's kind of weird to hear someone say they want to be bisexual.
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Nightmares
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No, I'm straight >.<
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