LGBTQA - Discussion and support.

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OK so I got him a box of Quality Streets and a lil mini chocolate bear and card and I ran off after saying "no takebacks" and he seemed really happy but regretful and maybe it's just my mind persuading me but whatever. Considering he was treating me like I didnt exist for seven or so months and I made him smile at the least and actually spoke to me. His birthday isn't for another nine months so I don't have an excuse to buy him a present and god knows if we'll talk again so I'll be stuck being confused and angry and ugh?

I don't know if this is relevant or anything but my ex-girlfriend (please don't judge that i had a girlfriend when I was nine till I was almost 12) may be my new neighbour. I moved house and my mum saw her mum go to into a house
 
OK so I got him a box of Quality Streets and a lil mini chocolate bear and card and I ran off after saying "no takebacks" and he seemed really happy but regretful and maybe it's just my mind persuading me but whatever. Considering he was treating me like I didnt exist for seven or so months and I made him smile at the least and actually spoke to me. His birthday isn't for another nine months so I don't have an excuse to buy him a present and god knows if we'll talk again so I'll be stuck being confused and angry and ugh?

I don't know if this is relevant or anything but my ex-girlfriend (please don't judge that i had a girlfriend when I was nine till I was almost 12) may be my new neighbour. I moved house and my mum saw her mum go to into a house

Seems positive, but I still think you should talk to him and clear the air. These things don't just disappear without some sort of communication. Gifts are nice, really nice, but they don't take the place of a good conversation.
 
OK so I got him a box of Quality Streets and a lil mini chocolate bear and card and I ran off after saying "no takebacks" and he seemed really happy but regretful and maybe it's just my mind persuading me but whatever. Considering he was treating me like I didnt exist for seven or so months and I made him smile at the least and actually spoke to me. His birthday isn't for another nine months so I don't have an excuse to buy him a present and god knows if we'll talk again so I'll be stuck being confused and angry and ugh?

I don't know if this is relevant or anything but my ex-girlfriend (please don't judge that i had a girlfriend when I was nine till I was almost 12) may be my new neighbour. I moved house and my mum saw her mum go to into a house

Next time don't run. Can you like text him? Sometimes it's easier to do confrontation over the phone.
 
I find it intolerable that the Supreme Court thinks that it has the right to decide on marriage. Actually, I find it disturbing that any court thinks it has that right. We were "endowed with certain inalienable rights...life liberty and the pursuit of happiness". Also, nowhere in the Constitution does it allow the government to dictate marriage. I believe that it should be up to the people to decide how to live their lives. That's my opinion at least. I have my opinion that homosexuality is wrong. But, "while I disagree with what you have to say, I will fight for your right to say it". So, in other words, I believe that we have freedom to do what we want. I shouldn't be allowed to decide how you live and neither should anyone else. It's up to you. People should be able to be free to live their livers (as long as their freedom does not infringe upon the lives of anyone else). As far as I'm concerned, you being homosexual doesn't affect my life. It's not restricting my freedom, so you have the freedom to do what you will.

tl;dr: I don't agree with it, but it's your life. You live it how you want to.
 
OK so I got him a box of Quality Streets and a lil mini chocolate bear and card and I ran off after saying "no takebacks" and he seemed really happy but regretful and maybe it's just my mind persuading me but whatever. Considering he was treating me like I didnt exist for seven or so months and I made him smile at the least and actually spoke to me. His birthday isn't for another nine months so I don't have an excuse to buy him a present and god knows if we'll talk again so I'll be stuck being confused and angry and ugh?

I don't know if this is relevant or anything but my ex-girlfriend (please don't judge that i had a girlfriend when I was nine till I was almost 12) may be my new neighbour. I moved house and my mum saw her mum go to into a house

How do you even have a girlfriend at that age? Like what can you even do at that age that would show you're in a relationship?
 
Can we all just take a moment to remember something our dear old friend Morgan Freeman said once?

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Can we all just take a moment to remember something our dear old friend Morgan Freeman said once?

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Not trying to be a buzz kill, but morgan freeman doesn't have twitter, that tweet came from an unofficial parody account.
 
^i believe that is a true statement, regardless of whether he said it or not. how is it harsh, exactly?
anyway, on to my original post... anyone going home to an not-so-supportive family for the holidays? i am... v_v
 
^i believe that is a true statement, regardless of whether he said it or not. how is it harsh, exactly?
anyway, on to my original post... anyone going home to an not-so-supportive family for the holidays? i am... v_v

Yup, it's the one thing that I'm stressing over for Christmas.
My close friend (more like a sister though) told my parents for me that I was pansexual, I had already come out to my friends, a lot of whom were bisexual, gay, lesbian, etc. They were all really supportive and said it wouldn't change anything, I thought it's be easier coming out to my parents, they were a little less understanding seeing as I'm the first non-straight person in the family for like 7 generations, but they still said that they understood. My grandparents and some great aunts and uncles however are extremely old fashioned and thought I was joking about not being straight. It's the first time I'm seeing them since telling them, so I'm not sure how it's going to go.
Oh well, at least I'm getting presents and pigs in blankets ^_^
 
Ah, yes. I have no grandparents, etc. still alive, but my parents and I just don't speak about it (I'm a lesbian). My siblings, however, choose to make their fabulous remarks... To which I reply wittily, but it still hurts. People are people, I suppose. I haven't been to a family xmas in years, so this will be... different. lol
 
^i believe that is a true statement, regardless of whether he said it or not. how is it harsh, exactly?
anyway, on to my original post... anyone going home to an not-so-supportive family for the holidays? i am... v_v

Oh gosh, I feel for you. :c I'm sorry.

I'm very lucky to have a mom and sister who support me! They're who I'm spending my holiday with.
The rest of my family, however, I'm not sure if they know about me or not. I visited them in spring and they seemed to have dropped some hints about knowing about me being a lesbian, but I was too scared to bring it up. I don't really mind if they know or not, though. Well, I don't mind if my family in North Dakota does, anyway. Even though they might not get it, they seem like they might not mind.

My dad in Georgia, on the other hand, is EXTREMELY homophobic. I don't have him added on facebook, but when I creep on him, he seems to post a lot of anti-gay things. My mom also tells me that he was once good friends with this one guy while he was in the Air Force. But once the guy came out to my dad, he flipped out and actually got him discharged or whatever.

Anyway, my North Dakota family wanted me to visit them for Christmas, but my sister and I really wanted to be with our mom instead.
 
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