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tsundere said:
yeah i had a friend of mine clear that up for me. ive heard people say ___romantic is for asexual people so i got really confused

is there like..a word for people who like the idea of poly and mono relationships?? if im polyamorous can i still date in mono relationships?? idk. ive been thinking about it for a while because im cool with both but ?i dont know if i will ever meet people irl who would be okay with a poly relationship.
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My ex-boyfriend was like that. Like he was a super cool guy, he just wasn't interested in only me. It was weird and I wasn't comfortable with it, so we broke up or whatever. I don't know. He said he wanted an "open relationship" and I'm like... no.

So yeah, you're not the only one I guess.
 
I love and respect anyone/everyone that does the same for me. I live in the bay area of CA and I have friends that are all, gay, lesbian, bi-sexual and trans. For me... I can't hate on a man who likes another man, a woman who likes another woman, a man that dresses as a female, or a female that dresses like a man because I have no reason to judge anyone without knowing them first. I see people as actual people and as corny as it sounds, we're all the same inside.
 
I love the Bay Area, I was just in SF this weekend it's so lovely c:

And as far as open relationships go they seem really tough, personally I don't think I could be in one because it would make me really uncomfortable but I admire people that can have a healthy open relationship that functions well and makes the people in them happy!
 
Reizo said:
My ex-boyfriend was like that. Like he was a super cool guy, he just wasn't interested in only me. It was weird and I wasn't comfortable with it, so we broke up or whatever. I don't know. He said he wanted an "open relationship" and I'm like... no.

So yeah, you're not the only one I guess.
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i dont think i would suddenly tell my partner if i was in a mono relationship that all of a sudden i wanted more people though
i feel like if i say im polyamorous that would make people think im not interested in mono relationships? and like i totally am up for it but at the same time im still interested in polyamorous relationships. (probably not more than 4 people though)

ive been learning about a lot of stuff and like... sometimes i worry that im just going through a phase?? i mean ive felt like i was nb since i was a child (back then i didnt know what the word for it though) but i just worry about it sooo much. ive always felt different and i hated the idea of being a girl and like.... i dont think its a phase but it doesnt really help when everyone says its a phase. idk if anyone else feels the same tho
 
tsundere said:
ive been learning about a lot of stuff and like... sometimes i worry that im just going through a phase?? i mean ive felt like i was nb since i was a child (back then i didnt know what the word for it though) but i just worry about it sooo much. ive always felt different and i hated the idea of being a girl and like.... i dont think its a phase but it doesnt really help when everyone says its a phase. idk if anyone else feels the same tho
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you're only like 12 or 13, right? you still have a lot of time to discover yourself and learn about yourself, so don't worry. you will go through some phases and stuff, but everyone does, it's part of growing up. if you've really felt non-binary your whole life, wow. that's not a phase at all then, don't worry about that.
 
There were a few of people in my high school that did day of silence (I did it for 2 years) and it was really terrible because they'd get bullied for it even if they were just allies. (Some were bullied by actual LGBTQA people which I was confused at the time) But, now that I'm older I do agree with Tsundere cause being quiet doesn't really do anything, really.
 
Reizo said:
you're only like 12 or 13, right? you still have a lot of time to discover yourself and learn about yourself, so don't worry. you will go through some phases and stuff, but everyone does, it's part of growing up. if you've really felt non-binary your whole life, wow. that's not a phase at all then, don't worry about that.
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yeah im 13. its just that so many people think that people are pretending to be trans and stuff because its "trendy" im like?? its the same thing they did when they thought people were bisexual to be "trendy" and it just makes me so upset

keepitshay said:
There were a few of people in my high school that did day of silence (I did it for 2 years) and it was really terrible because they'd get bullied for it even if they were just allies. (Some were bullied by actual LGBTQA people which I was confused at the time) But, now that I'm older I do agree with Tsundere cause being quiet doesn't really do anything, really.
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ew why would they get bullied?? thats so pathetic. omg.

Gizmodo said:
I'm having such a bad dysphoric day today i just want to curl up and die omg
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im so sorry about that ): i get those days too where i just want to rip myself out of my body.. try to get your mind off it? watch something cute, play some games, try not to worry about it! just try to think about something else yeah..sorry im not too great with advice
 
keepitshay said:
There were a few of people in my high school that did day of silence (I did it for 2 years) and it was really terrible because they'd get bullied for it even if they were just allies. (Some were bullied by actual LGBTQA people which I was confused at the time) But, now that I'm older I do agree with Tsundere cause being quiet doesn't really do anything, really.
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They got bullied by actual LGBTQA people because a good portion of the community hates allies.
 
I just have to keep telling myself im lucky, im only small, no facial hair, no deep voice etc
im much luckier than others, i just need to get myself through this
 
analytic said:
The day of silence is absolutely terrible. Don't be silent. Be loud. Yell, scream, get angry. Don't be quiet while people are homophobic, transphobic bigots. They don't deserve silence from us.
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^^^^^^^^^^^
We've been silent and remain with our heads down. Don't be quiet. Scream at everyone you pass by. Yell at anyone who you see about the dangers we face everyday. We are silent all the time- the day of silence is absolutely useless.

- - - Post Merge - - -

Gizmodo said:
I just have to keep telling myself im lucky, im only small, no facial hair, no deep voice etc
im much luckier than others, i just need to get myself through this
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It'll be okay ♥ Lmk if you need anything, but you will get through this
 
Gizmodo said:
I just have to keep telling myself im lucky, im only small, no facial hair, no deep voice etc
im much luckier than others, i just need to get myself through this
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I wish I had the gift of hairy legs, but alas, I have nothing there.
 
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