LGBTQA - Discussion and support.

[ZoeZoe]

You prefer she/her pronouns? ^u^

 

[Sir Takoya]

You prefer she/her pronouns? ^u^

It actually wouldn't matter. It works too. xD

 

[Gizmodo]

im happy for you jenna! good luck (jenna is a cute name!!)

i thought about changing my name but i felt like it wasnt that feminine so yeah. (its kallie idk ive met boys with the name kallie so i think ill be okay)

Thanks ) its an unusual name where i live (noone in my town has it) but its still simple enough, and its close to my original name which makes it easier for family

 

[ZoeZoe]

It actually wouldn't matter. It works too. xD

Whoops I was actually trying to reply to Jenna but that's good to know too omg ^u^
I'm p sure I'm a demigirl, like- I'm not really a boy or a girl, but I'm fine w/ presenting as either but prefer xie or ahe pronouns genders weird yo

 

[Gizmodo]

You prefer she/her pronouns? ^u^

Well yeah aha

 

[ZoeZoe]

Well yeah aha

just double checking omg ^u^

 

[Sir Takoya]

Whoops I was actually trying to reply to Jenna but that's good to know too omg ^u^
I'm p sure I'm a demigirl, like- I'm not really a boy or a girl, but I'm fine w/ presenting as either but prefer xie or ahe pronouns genders weird yo

I looked it up. It's wierd.
It's like: Zhe, Zhimself....ugh what...

 

[Gizmodo]

How do you pronounce Xie and ahe? btw?
and how are these other pronouns decided, like ive seen soo many on tumblr, like lots of different ones, like how do you know which one fitted better for you?

 

[radical6]

How do you pronounce Xie and ahe? btw?
and how are these other pronouns decided, like ive seen soo many on tumblr, like lots of different ones, like how do you know which one fitted better for you?

its whatever one feels the best and natural to you. there are lots of different pronouns out there. im not too sure about pronunciation though for some of them

personally i felt like they/them fit the best for me. there are other pronouns that i like that im fine with people using for me but i feel like they/them is easier for people to use and im fine with them so yeah

i guess the only thing that i worry about if i use different pronouns for myself is for people who dont speak english that well. i cant imagine how confusing it can be for them. (especially when you have the noun pronouns like fae. i think theyre cool and cute but i worry for all the non traditional pronouns because i dont want to make someones life more harder but ive seen posts with visual aid for people so hopefully it helps them!)

 

[Sir Takoya]

How do you pronounce Xie and ahe? btw?
and how are these other pronouns decided, like ive seen soo many on tumblr, like lots of different ones, like how do you know which one fitted better for you?

Although using 'it' sounds a little mean, it's a lot easier to understand.

 

[Gizmodo]

I know but i just wonder how did all the different pronouns even originate? like how can you suddenly just think of one?
i understand they/them since thats obviously in the English Language, but i just wonder where all these other pronouns came from?

 

[ghostbab]

Although using 'it' sounds a little mean, it's a lot easier to understand.

Some people prefer to go by it/itself though! I have always been curious how zhe/ahe was pronounced since I've only ever read them being used.

 

[radical6]

I know but i just wonder how did all the different pronouns even originate? like how can you suddenly just think of one?
i understand they/them since thats obviously in the English Language, but i just wonder where all these other pronouns came from?

idk people just came up with them. xe pronouns seem the most popular out of the non traditional ones though. the noun pronouns (fae, pup, bun, etc) started a while ago on tumblr. people criticized them a lot and called them childish and i felt that was really rude. why do you care about what pronouns people use? theyre not hard to adjust to and people felt like it was making a mockery out of "real nonbinary people". the "real nonbinary people" used more traditional like pronouns (xie, ve, xir etc) and its like been a war ever since with them.

but yeah the noun pronouns you see basically came from tumblr. people were trying out new things and im all for people exploring their gender. so props to them if they feel great using cute pronouns

 

[Gizmodo]

Who would want to be known as IT?
it is so offensive imo, it implies non human.. like freak idk it implies not deserving of a title, idk i just despise that word since so many people use it as a slur for trans people

 

[Sir Takoya]

Who would want to be known as IT?
it is so offensive imo, it implies non human.. like freak idk it implies not deserving of a title, idk i just despise that word since so many people use it as a slur for trans people

Why would you want to be human if they make fun of LGBTQA?

 

[radical6]

Who would want to be known as IT?
it is so offensive imo, it implies non human.. like freak idk it implies not deserving of a title, idk i just despise that word since so many people use it as a slur for trans people

i think if you use it pronouns for people who DONT want to be called it is degrading and rude. though im fine with people using it pronouns for people who really do like it pronouns. there are people here who use it pronouns so yeah. but i see how you dislike it, but i feel like its rude to not use it pronouns for them even if you think its offensive to them

 

[Gizmodo]

Noo id use it for them, i just find it odd how someone would want to use it


"Why would you want to be human if they make fun of LGBTQA? "
What? but us LGBTQA are human lol.. so i want to be human

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Also i was speaking to a transotherkin today..
possibly the weirdest conversation ive ever had, but interesting at the same time
Never heard of them until today

 

[radical6]

Also i was speaking to a transotherkin today..
possibly the weirdest conversation ive ever had, but interesting at the same time
Never heard of them until today

i know a lot of otherkin who are trans actually
im a bit confused because they say some pronouns like the fae pronouns are otherkin only and i was like huh...well okay. im not really sure which pronouns are for otherkin only or which pronouns are open for everyone to use

 

[Sir Takoya]

i think if you use it pronouns for people who DONT want to be called it is degrading and rude. though im fine with people using it pronouns for people who really do like it pronouns. there are people here who use it pronouns so yeah. but i see how you dislike it, but i feel like its rude to not use it pronouns for them even if you think its offensive to them

You just made me think to add that to my signature. I've been called he before I put the character there and now I was getting called she. -.- No...just no....

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Noo id use it for them, i just find it odd how someone would want to use it


"Why would you want to be human if they make fun of LGBTQA? "
What? but us LGBTQA are human lol.. so i want to be human

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Also i was speaking to a transotherkin today..
possibly the weirdest conversation ive ever had, but interesting at the same time
Never heard of them until today

Come on, don't you see what they say about us all the time

 

[ghostbab]

When I first saw 'it' pronouns I was a little cautious because it definitely could be found as offensive, or even nonhuman, but when I actually saw that people preferred that I got use to it pretty quickly, but I can definitely see the hesitation.
I would definitely like to learn more about otherkin as well, I'm not too familiar with them!