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In a way I kinda feel gay (attracted to guys), since I am mentally a guy myself. It feels odd, but normal at the same time. My parents don't even know if I'm straight or les because I've never been on a date. I think they may think I'm les, boy are they in for a shock when they find out I'm gay!

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Honestly i got mistaken as a girl sometimes when i had short hair and dressed completely boy mode xDD

Ummm...they didn't see the no boobs? Come on. Everyone looks down...
 
In a way I kinda feel gay (attracted to guys), since I am mentally a guy myself. It feels odd, but normal at the same time. My parents don't even know if I'm straight or les because I've never been on a date. I think they may think I'm les, boy are they in for a shock when they find out I'm gay!

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Ummm...they didn't see the no boobs? Come on. Everyone looks down...

Well when i was like 11 (when i had short hair) must dont have boobs then anyway LOL
 
Well when i was like 11 (when i had short hair) must dont have boobs then anyway LOL

I did. They're a pain to hide, even with a sports bra.

"Mom, what's happening to my chest?"
o.o
 
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I'm honestly so over people who do stuff like that. Imo you should just keeping half-living with your boyfriend because then his little brother can actually grow up being MORE educated about the topic instead of being corrupted that anyone who isn't straight is unholy and disgusting. Haters are gonna hate, but whats most important is what you want and think;)
My boyfriend's little brother is very accepting luckily. He's never struggled with the idea of transgender or being gay. But you're right, I should keep staying at my boyfriend's house just to piss his dad off heheh. I'm kinda thinking he's just threatening the family, he must know the judge would never side with him.
 
just as a heads up just in case you guys are confused about nonbinary genders, we fall under the trans label! trans is an umbrella term, if you want to be specific meaning you want to talk about binary trans people (trans men and trans women) then you go ahead and say trans man and trans woman. so you dont need to say non-cis when referring to us.

my therapist was going to give me antidepressants but she really doesnt want to. i told her i was nb and she said that if i started to transition and come out it would help with my depression? so she said were gonna try that first before the meds. im pretty excited because shes gonna help me with everything and yeah
 
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Also people take the mockery out of non binary people soo badly...
Like that example Mari showed
i really hope they will get recognition and acceptance, but i just doubt it atm.. i really do.. theres no awareness, i havent heard of a high profile person, ive heard the issue mentioned like twice in my life and people are just like wtf
It's sad
 
i really like that new gender option on facebook

you can even select which pronouns you prefer
 
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Also people take the mockery out of non binary people soo badly...
Like that example Mari showed
i really hope they will get recognition and acceptance, but i just doubt it atm.. i really do.. theres no awareness, i havent heard of a high profile person, ive heard the issue mentioned like twice in my life and people are just like wtf
It's sad

i think the highest recognition we got was when facebook allowed us to put nonbinary options for our gender. then fox news did a report on it and mocked us on air soooooo

and yeah ive never heard of a famous nb person :/ and people kinda understand what binary trans people are but when i mention a gender outside the binary? nope. they cant begin to understand the concept. like its not hard to accept that there are more than 2 genders! wow!
 
Also people take the mockery out of non binary people soo badly...
Like that example Mari showed
i really hope they will get recognition and acceptance, but i just doubt it atm.. i really do.. theres no awareness, i havent heard of a high profile person, ive heard the issue mentioned like twice in my life and people are just like wtf
It's sad

Ohhhhhh so now I know what to call myself. (Sorta). I'd probably fall with in the androgynous category since I won't change my gender.
I've never had that many problems before. I usually stick to all black and occasional blue jeans during the wintertime and I think that scares most people off. I think I look tough. I did have some people in my class walk by and say. "*** I like your hair." "Yeah, you look really pretty." I have short hair and I know it wasn't a compliment. I should have pulled a false lesbian on them or something, instead I just said they had nice a**, even though I'm not attracted to girls.
 
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Um yeah i saw so many facebook rants about it
and honestly ill face discrimination but a lot of people are being so supportive of me, but if i said i didnt fit into either gender i can guarantee everyone would say wtf no just stop, eventhough all my family is so open.. on nearly every issue
Also i dont get why the pronouns bother people, is it really that hard to use a different pronoun that makes someone comfortable? its not like non binary people are that big of the population.. if you have to change your usage a few times, so what, just do it!
 
Um yeah i saw so many facebook rants about it
and honestly ill face discrimination but a lot of people are being so supportive of me, but if i said i didnt fit into either gender i can guarantee everyone would say wtf no just stop, eventhough all my family is so open.. on nearly every issue
Also i dont get why the pronouns bother people, is it really that hard to use a different pronoun that makes someone comfortable? its not like non binary people are that big of the population.. if you have to change your usage a few times, so what, just do it!

dont understand why people would rant about it if it doesnt effect them smh
people just have such a hard time using pronouns for people. heck they have a hard time even using they/them for people! if you cant get our pronouns right then you might as well avoid pronouns all together and just use our name whenever you speak. also i dont understand people who go (s)he or whatever. because it sounds like theyre saying "ok you're either a girl or a boy" just use they/them?? people would go (s)he for me im like ummmm they/them is so much easier for me use that instead please. its not hard to remember peoples pronouns. i still get misgendered on the forums even though my sig says they/them but i dont like making a fuss about it but it does annoy me so much. it annoys me even more when my friends misgender me. and just?? ive known them for a while and they have known about my pronouns and they STILL mess up. they messed up last night when we were on a skype call. they usually dont mess up when typing but i guess it flies through their heads when we're talking and just. it makes me so upset /endrant
 
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an update:
my friend told a bunch of people i'm a lesbian, no longer friends and i hate them
 
an update:
my friend told a bunch of people i'm a lesbian, no longer friends and i hate them

awwwww im so sorry ):
why are people outing people nowadays???? why do they think its okay???
i remember seeing a tumblr post with this girl who outted her gay friends because it was "funny" and "THEY MIGHTVE HAD SEX TOGETHER1!11!!" and it had like 100k+ notes and i was so angry
 
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i just got a text from the same kid and they said that i should change my gender because gays/lesbians aren't good and that it's a set rule that boys have to date girls.
 
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i just got a text from the same kid and they said that i should change my gender because gays/lesbians aren't good and that it's a set rule that boys have to date girls.

jesus christ thats so sick. if i were you i probably wouldve punched them if i saw them... homophobes are nasty. did you know they were homophobic? i would hate it if one of my friends turned out to be transphobic out of no where. it would hurt a lot because like..the whole time they thought you were wrong and bad and ugh
 
ugh... @ that kid... show me these "rules" of yours, and if you say the Bible, I'm going to flip -_-
I seriously can't understand some people, lol...
 
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