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Idk i just think if you're not trans you dont get to decide what is acceptable or not ikd
every trans person i has spoke to about this me included, is deeply offended over this label and does think it reduces us to some kink and fetish
but whatever oh well i doubt its going to gain much popularity and be used in every day life, only on tumblr so
every trans person i has spoke to about this me included, is deeply offended over this label and does think it reduces us to some kink and fetish
but whatever oh well i doubt its going to gain much popularity and be used in every day life, only on tumblr so
trans people have the right to only date trans people because they can be goddamn terrified of cis people. im personally fine with dating cis people but i have no problem with trans people only dating trans people because cis people can do some pretty terrible things to them. so can trans people but they know its less likely that they'll be hearing transphobia from a trans person (unless you know they're truscum)
cis people on the other hand have no reason.
because you're writing off millions of people who all look different all because of skin color???
its ok
Too many people with rose-tinted glasses who think we live in a utopia where everyone should love each other unequivocally and you shouldn't express any sort of preference towards certain features or characteristics.
Good luck with that. We as a race and as intelligent, independent sentient beings are predisposed to be prejudiced. It's a form of common sense and a defence mechanism. This is not a bad thing. The only way to stop that is if by stripping away our individuality. There are too many do-gooder social engineers who have no grounding in reality.
(on the plus side some cis guy called me pretty today and said ppl will never know lol, so yay to that cis man.. i wish every single trans person on tumblr had an experience like that, im not afraid.. if a crimes going to happen it is i suppose, just gotta live life each day at a time)
Yes. I also write off millions of people with other characteristics that I don't find desirable. Are you going to deny doing the same yourself?
ok so like
say, for example, you are a straight male
you are sexually attracted to females
does that mean you like females just because they are females? no, they all tend to have certain similar qualities/appearances; granted, you may not like females who look/act masculine, or who have features that are generally unattractive to you.
is it impossible for you to be attracted to a male who absolutely epitomizes everything about what femininity is to you? no, you could see past it and be attracted either way, or you might not even know
now say you are a skoliosexual person
you are sexually attracted to trans people
does that mean you like trans people just because they're trans? no
etc.
it's a preference. if i say that i prefer my sexual partners to be women with long hair, it doesn't mean i have a fetish for their hair, and i'm not dehumanizing them. have you ever liked something and not known necessarily why?
Sorry but if a person wanted to date you and they were everything you wanted in a partner but you didn't date them because of their ethnicity that is racism, but this isn't what this board is about, you can have your prejudices but don't pretend that they're okay or acceptable please.
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Not going to lie i have preferences everyone does, definitely doesnt make me racist..
I just find it different with that trans label because Literally i just dont see how its possible to group us all together? when ones have had surgery, ones look more like a natal sex and pass 100% others dont etc, idk im just so confused i just feel by a guy saying he likes t girls, or a girl saying it ,we are not being treated as girls/guys like we are wanting to, we are being subdivided into a little group idk its weird
whilst with preferneces, i prefer dark hair, its not as detrimental to someone with blonde hair if i have that preference thna if people use this trans label
Im not making any sense but i just think its a whole different problem this trans label than someone having a preference to race or something
idk im confused now
Replace ethnicity with height. Or red hair. Or freckly. Or any other feature.
But whats the sexual difference between the girl and t girl?
Lets say the t girl looks identical to the girl completely
So hes attracted to her bc of what shes been through as a t girl? and because she used to have a penis, or doesnt have a womb or something?
i just dont get it?? whats the difference between them to have that preference? how can he make that division, what makes her more attrracted i dont get it?
I can see ones who have the kink for those who used to have a penis BUT when a t girl has a vagina functions like any other natal girl whats the difference?
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specify? i don't get why my cissexuality should disqualify me from logically debating
except race has been used against people to institutionally oppress them? people of color have been enslaved and stripped of their humanity for centuries but that hasn't happened to people with freckles specifically. race is not just another physical feature. race is part of identity and power structure. and that's what makes it racist.
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Exactly, their not even on par with race those are just features.
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hahaha you guys are so stupid with all your dehumanization terms
Anything that is being made by humans that isn't taking away their basic human nature can't be considered dehumanizing. In WWII, at places like Auschwitz and other concentration camps, people were dehumanized by separation of family, removal of beliefs and hopes, etc. You can't define dehumanization by being looked at differently because some people are attracted to a certain thing in that way. Stop trying to make sexual preference that big of a deal. Your craving for attention is leaking everywhere.
Anything that is being made by humans that isn't taking away their basic human nature can't be considered dehumanizing. In WWII, at places like Auschwitz and other concentration camps, people were dehumanized by separation of family, removal of beliefs and hopes, etc. You can't define dehumanization by being looked at differently because some people are attracted to a certain thing in that way. Stop trying to make sexual preference that big of a deal. Your craving for attention is leaking everywhere.
I just feel most trans people me included in a relationship just want:
to be viewed identical to the gender we are
I would want a guy to date me because i am a girl, i wouldnt want me being trans to play any factor at all into it, he likes me because i'm a girl, just like he would date a girl who was infertile..
me being trans literally would not be a factor involved.. Skoliosexuality makes the trans person that defining factor and does segregate them and i dont like that
literally though on tumblr ive seen like 10 posts so it cant be that big
to be viewed identical to the gender we are
I would want a guy to date me because i am a girl, i wouldnt want me being trans to play any factor at all into it, he likes me because i'm a girl, just like he would date a girl who was infertile..
me being trans literally would not be a factor involved.. Skoliosexuality makes the trans person that defining factor and does segregate them and i dont like that
literally though on tumblr ive seen like 10 posts so it cant be that big
But that doesn't mean it's right to openly express that prejudice. That is "common sense".
Are you saying that women in particular shouldn't be found attractive because they've been oppressed? I'm confused...
But you're making up random variables of stories without real backing? thats why
you need experience from actual trans people imo, to get their viewpoint on the label, and also we need a skoliosexual to explain fully really..
the debates pretty pointless when i think about it, its all just based on what if's and no solid proof or evidence
so its not a logical debate, yes there may be some people who are ok with the skoliosexuality label but on the whole i just really dont tink its something that should be openly used, as it breaks down the barriers of trans women being viewed as completely equal to normal women, thats how i feel, and i genuinely dont think it will be
Your Cissexuality means you honestly have no idea how it feels to constantly have to hear all these fetishes of people only wanting to talk to you, due to your backstory, they dont care whatsoever about other interests, you previously having or still having a **** is the sole talking point and its offensive
this skoliosexuality Label puts that as the main focus
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