LGBTQA - Discussion and support.

[KarlaKGB]

except race has been used against people to institutionally oppress them? people of color have been enslaved and stripped of their humanity for centuries but that hasn't happened to people with freckles specifically. race is not just another physical feature. race is part of identity and power structure.

Oh great, this argument. Why am I obliged to owe something to a group that has been historically oppressed? How is this even relevant? I'm not passing a law discriminating against black people. I just want to find a mate. What gives anyone the right to say my set of standards less acceptable than their set of standards?

 

[oath2order]

having a prefernce to a race is bad as well wtf. you cant write off all races as the same and say "well i like asian girls the best bc theyre quiet and hot" because all asian girls are different. or "i dont date black people because theyre all loud and ugly" because all black people look different ??
its the same for trans people?? why are they attracted to the fact that we're trans?? it doesnt change who we are. they are not attracted to our gender, theyre attracted to the fact that we're trans.

and no it cant be about genitals . because trans women and men can get surgery.

i hate whoever came up with this sexuality tbh. and now its becoming more popular more people are going to use it. the only reason someone should use this is that they were trans themselves.

@gizmodo theres a specific sexuality just for nonbinary people tho. pansexual means you like all genders.

No it's not bad. You can be sexually attracted to the color of one's skin. It's hysterical how hypocritical you are of differing sexualities. It's pretty much the same as liking people with a certain hair color, or being turned on by other physical attributes.

why are they attracted to the fact that we're trans??

Why are gay men attracted to men? Why are straight men attracted to women? It's just what they're into.

 

[KarlaKGB]

The people who criticise me for not being into people of a certain race treat it as if it's an unacceptable mental disorder that can be corrected. Sound familiar?

 

[oak]

I just feel most trans people me included in a relationship just want:
to be viewed identical to the gender we are

Definitely feel the same way. I don't wanna be known for being trans, or have someone drawn to me because I was trans. Being known as a trans man makes people treat me different, I just want to be a regular guy. If someone was like "I think you being trans is hot" i'd be like uhhhhhgross get away from me. I think maybe it would be okay if a trans person only wanted to date other trans people for safety reasons or they understood them on a personnal level?

 

[EpicGamer12]

I only find white people attractive. Consider me racist!!

 

[Marii]

But you're making up random variables of stories without real backing? thats why
you need experience from actual trans people imo, to get their viewpoint on the label, and also we need a skoliosexual to explain fully really..
the debates pretty pointless when i think about it, its all just based on what if's and no solid proof or evidence
so its not a logical debate, yes there may be some people who are ok with the skoliosexuality label but on the whole i just really dont tink its something that should be openly used, as it breaks down the barriers of trans women being viewed as completely equal to normal women, thats how i feel, and i genuinely dont think it will be
Your Cissexuality means you honestly have no idea how it feels to constantly have to hear all these fetishes of people only wanting to talk to you, due to your backstory, they dont care whatsoever about other interests, you previously having or still having a **** is the sole talking point and its offensive
this skoliosexuality Label puts that as the main focus

i'm stating things that are definitely possible, why should i need backing?
how do you know the extent of my experience and knowledge? my best friend is trans and she isn't nearly as easily offended as some of the people on here are
i may not have been through the same situation but i have had people make sexual advances on me simply for being an asian girl
i have been through a SIMILAR situation at least
you don't know what i've been through either, so i kinda don't think you have the right to say that i am incapable of empathizing with you or understanding this specific situation, even though i've been through similar things

 

[Gizmodo]

Definitely feel the same way. I don't wanna be known for being trans, or have someone drawn to me because I was trans. Being known as a trans man makes people treat me different, I just want to be a regular guy. If someone was like "I think you being trans is hot" i'd be like uhhhhhgross get away from me. I think maybe it would be okay if a trans person only wanted to date other trans people for safety reasons or they understood them on a person level?

THIS THIS THIS <3
i want a guy to start to like me and LOVE ME FOR ME.. and then find out im trans during this period, and then if he still likes me thats perfect.
I want them to be attracted to me first off, and not the fact im trans!
Like i dont want being trans to be the defining point of me.. i will be able to live life without people knowing and hopefully that means that wont be the case

 

[ghostbab]

I only find white people attractive. Consider me racist!!

You got it!!

 

[yosugay]

You got it!!

he just wants attention

 

[radical6]

man i shouldve never brought up the skoliosexual thing in the first place smh
and i never called any of you racist wtf

Yes. I also write off millions of people with other characteristics that I don't find desirable. Are you going to deny doing the same yourself?

asian people dont have the same features?? all black people dont have the same features?? i dont get how someone can say they would never date a race because of features. how do you know what all of them look like???

Are you saying that women in particular shouldn't be found attractive because they've been oppressed? I'm confused...

they never mentioned women?

No it's not bad. You can be sexually attracted to the color of one's skin. It's hysterical how hypocritical you are of differing sexualities. It's pretty much the same as liking people with a certain hair color, or being turned on by other physical attributes.

Why are gay men attracted to men? Why are straight men attracted to women? It's just what they're into.

uh no but race is something people cant control. if someone didnt like glasses, that person with glasses could take them off. they could dye their hair if they didnt like redheads. but you cant take race off. you're stuck with it.

ok but gay men are attracted to men. theyre attracted to a gender. skoliosexuality is not the same. its not one gender or a gender at all. theyre just attracted to the fact that people are trans???

this thread isnt about race though i was simply using that to compare with the other sexuality so idk why this is even an issue

 

[oak]

THIS THIS THIS <3
i want a guy to start to like me and LOVE ME FOR ME.. and then find out im trans during this period, and then if he still likes me thats perfect.
I want them to be attracted to me first off, and not the fact im trans!
Like i dont want being trans to be the defining point of me.. i will be able to live life without people knowing and hopefully that means that wont be the case

Ikr! Living stealth is the best way for me. It's like when people find out i'm trans in real life, they forget their manners & bombard me with uncomfortable questions.

 

[EpicGamer12]

You got it!!

racist - a person who believes that a particular race is superior to another.
I don't believe either is superior. I'm just only attracted to white people. It's a preference. I still think all races are equal. Not racist, you're just a ******.

 

[oath2order]

uh no but race is something people cant control. if someone didnt like glasses, that person with glasses could take them off. they could dye their hair if they didnt like redheads. but you cant take race off. you're stuck with it.

ok but gay men are attracted to men. theyre attracted to a gender. skoliosexuality is not the same. its not one gender or a gender at all. theyre just attracted to the fact that people are trans???

this thread isnt about race though i was simply using that to compare with the other sexuality so idk why this is even an issue

hair color isn't something you can control. Sure you can dye it but it goes back to the previous color eventually.

You're a hypocrite. I thought you were open minded to other sexualities. Turns out, guess not.

 

[mccorgi]

can we please drop racism in this thread? this is meant for lgbtqa+ topics and i would like to stop arguing now.

 

[Gizmodo]

Ikr! Living stealth is the best way for me. It's like when people find out i'm trans in real life, they forget their manners & bombard me with uncomfortable questions.

Exactly<3 i plan to live in stealth completely
just this whole label goes back to our whole preoccupation being on surgery and how we are and just grr
god i hope i can find a guy who accepts trans as part of me, but sees me as a girl as the whole me, and it just isnt that big of a consideration
PM me btw ^^

 

[ghostbab]

racist - a person who believes that a particular race is superior to another.
I don't believe either is superior. I'm just only attracted to white people. It's a preference. I still think all races are equal. Not racist, you're just a ******.

Racist and ableist nice dude, I'm done talking to you because you're set in your ways there's no point.


Yes let's please move on and stay on topic! ^-^

 

[KarlaKGB]

asian people dont have the same features?? all black people dont have the same features?? i dont get how someone can say they would never date a race because of features. how do you know what all of them look like???

Ok let me put it another way. I have been attracted to very very few asian girls in my life. I don't consciously go 'oh they're asian, NOPE', but empirically, over a significant sample size throughout my life, I can quite safely say that I am not attracted to asian girls. It's just the way I am. Everyone has their preferences. You have no control over it. Ask a gay man why he likes ****. Beyond any superficial answers, deep down, they don't know. Same for me, I can't give any specific reason for why I prefer the things I do.

 

[Zeiro]

racist - a person who believes that a particular race is superior to another.
I don't believe either is superior. I'm just only attracted to white people. It's a preference. I still think all races are equal. Not racist, you're just a ******.

racism is institutionalized in our society. put the dictionary down little boy.

can we please drop racism in this thread? this is meant for lgbtqa+ topics and i would like to stop arguing now.

exactly, and it is meant to be a support thread as well. everyone needs to just stop, we don't care what races you're attracted to and what races you're not attracted to. this is NOT the place to discuss this.

 

[EpicGamer12]

[21:23] <Reizo> oh, it's just the lil white boy
[21:23] <Reizo> figures

Your leader, Reizo, is racist

 

[Gizmodo]

"Your Leader"
sorry but i disagree with Tsundere, Reizo etc on this whole race subject, so just because we are under this thread, we certainly dont agree and have a leader lol