Clara Oswald
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Are you still talking about wether I can safely say I'm asexual or not just because I'm 14?
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All right, so, I've been labelling myself as bisexual for quite a long time now, and, I was wondering if that was right. You see, I am perfectly capable of having both romantic and sexual feelings in relation to men, but, I find it hard to like women sexually. I love women, but, don't love them in a sexual way. So, is it right for me to refer to myself as bisexual?
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I think you can use the word heteroromantic bisexual I think?? It means you're interested in dating women but not sexually, but you're still okay with dating men. I think that's the term. It's something like that.
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I think it'd be biromantic heterosexual since they like women romantically but not sexually.
I thought Bowie was a dude though. So it would make him a heteromantic bisexual because he loves women but only romantically, but is still bi because he's interested in men sexually and romantically?? idk
Idk my friend said you could also be a biromantic homosexual
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Haha whoops I didn't know Bowie was a guy. Idk either way's right like your friend said
I think that means you're sexually interested in the opposite sex, but, not romantically. I'm the opposite of that. I can love women, but, not sexually. I can love men both romantically and sexually.
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I'm really confused because i thought ___romantic words meant you're attracted to them romantically but not sexually
I don't know anymore.
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No, you're right.
is there any dysphoric AFAB trans people here :<
also i found out theres a trans boy at my school, cool. people got really mad at him though for getting into the boys line..for a game. like not even the bathroom. it was just a game. they wouldnt shut up about it dear god. one of the kids who were really pissed off about it heard i was bi/pan and was like "omg how can i be friends with that person ??" im like bruh no one said we were ever friends
idk if what i have is dypshoria sometimes cuz like..sometimes im really sad and i hate my chest a lot but sometimes i feel okay???? idk????????????? i dont really have bottom dysphoria but my top bothers me a lot and i cant get a binder so i dunno. i was gonna make one but my parents would stop me so. idk my question is do i have dysphoria or?? like i thought i did but i dont really have bottom dysphoria soooo
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the people at your school seem like ****ty people
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People are so stupid omg
There's a trans girl in my marching band and some people are really crappy to her because she changes with the other girls at competitions. They say it's bad bc she's not "actually a girl yet" but like
First of all, who cares if she doesn't use hormones or hasn't had surgery, she's still a girl lmao
Second of all, "changing" is literally putting on your uniform it's not like anyone's getting naked you're just putting more clothes on get over yourself
Also, I'm not trans, so I can't really relate. :c I will say that I used to have some dysphoria growing up but??? That probably doesn't help you, sorry.
There's a trans girl in my marching band and some people are really crappy to her because she changes with the other girls at competitions. They say it's bad bc she's not "actually a girl yet" but like
First of all, who cares if she doesn't use hormones or hasn't had surgery, she's still a girl lmao
Second of all, "changing" is literally putting on your uniform it's not like anyone's getting naked you're just putting more clothes on get over yourself
Also, I'm not trans, so I can't really relate. :c I will say that I used to have some dysphoria growing up but??? That probably doesn't help you, sorry.
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yeah. honestly when people change its not like they strip naked?? not here anyway because we dont use the showers yet. but like no one is going to strip naked. i mean some people do and they walk around the locker room and im like ok, but i dont really care. most people have a tanktop and underwear?? its funny that people think that trans girls will prey on girls in the bathrooms and locker rooms, because there's never been an incident where a trans girl peaked on a girl or harassed a girl. it's always cis girls attacking trans girls in the restrooms. like this trans girl never used the bathroom but a bunch of these families got really concerned and kept attacking her and said they were praying for "him" im like lmao wtf
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I think we have a really unhealthy view of naked bodies, and hide them far too much while overly exposing "perfect" ones. But that's a whole different topic.
I never really come out to people they just pick up on it after a while because I don't hide it. Well, I do when I am with people I know won't understand. It's not worth the headache to me.
I never really come out to people they just pick up on it after a while because I don't hide it. Well, I do when I am with people I know won't understand. It's not worth the headache to me.
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Ye I don't understand what the big deal is with hating on trans girls. I guess people just feel threatened by the fact that someone who was "born as a man" didn't actually want to be a man? Idk if I explained that the best but it's this feeling I get
There's also a trans boy at our school and while it seems most people accept him, there's this girl who claims to be his best friend that said "even if she gets surgery to become a guy, she's still going to be [birth name] to me, not [chosen name]". When she said that I gave her a weird look because I thought her logic was backwards, but she thought that I thought she was a bigot because she said "oh, I don't judge".
Idk I really think she doesn't judge but at the same time she's erasing his identity so it's just as bad? It seems like a lot of the people who call themselves allies at my school are more harmful than they are helpful, and they don't realize it.
There's also a trans boy at our school and while it seems most people accept him, there's this girl who claims to be his best friend that said "even if she gets surgery to become a guy, she's still going to be [birth name] to me, not [chosen name]". When she said that I gave her a weird look because I thought her logic was backwards, but she thought that I thought she was a bigot because she said "oh, I don't judge".
Idk I really think she doesn't judge but at the same time she's erasing his identity so it's just as bad? It seems like a lot of the people who call themselves allies at my school are more harmful than they are helpful, and they don't realize it.
Trans girls have always received hate over like the smallest crap. Trans men are more likely to be accepted imo because people don't see them as a threat.
Umm what she said was bad. She's basically saying "I know they're trans and all and don't go with that name, but they're always going to be a girl to me".
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Out of curiosity, how accepting would you guys say that your areas are? My area's fairly accepting (when I filled out a firm to allow my school newspaper to print one of my articles, they had an option where you could pick your pronouns from he, she, they, or other), but like I said above, they're kind of clueless and can be more harmful than they intend to be.
Awww I wish my school was like that
For the most part, people here are clueless yeah, but they try to support. Gay marriage is legal here so most people are supportive. Though not 100% if you know what I mean. They're more like the "i support but i dont agree" with it type I suppose. People here are very transphobic though.
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Eh, fairly accepting but there are some bigots. They're also pretty ignorant overall and judgmental. Even the allies tend to have narrow definitions. They were very tolerant of gay kids in school, though. For the most part.
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