i’ve had a few nicknames. my oldest and most used one is my parents’ nickname for me, which is beans. beans has been their nickname for me ever since i was born, and they even have a couple of different variations of it for me haha; xara beans and beanies. i don’t mind it, but it’s definitely a nickname only my parents are allowed to call me— i’d feel strange if a friend or significant other called me it lol
a couple of my friends call me xar, which i don’t mind at all! i honestly thought my nickname days were over once i changed my name to xara, so xar was a pleasant surprise and honestly makes me feel very loved and cared about
one of my friends in middle school used to call me “-my birth name- bear”. she was the only one who ever did, and obviously no one’s calling me that now that i go by xara, but i thought it was cute! it was my first nickname given to me by a friend, so it meant a lot.
i honestly really like when people give me nicknames, but of course only if they come from people i know well enough and am close to. i haven’t been close to many people in my life to have many nicknames under my belt, but they make me feel known, loved, and cared about