i’ve had a few nicknames. my oldest and most used one is my parents’ nickname for me, which is beans. beans has been their nickname for me ever since i was born, and they even have a couple of different variations of it for me haha; xara beans and beanies. i don’t mind it, but it’s definitely a nickname only my parents are allowed to call me— i’d feel strange if a friend or significant other called me it lol
a couple of my friends call me xar, which i don’t mind at all! xara is honestly a hard name to make nicknames out of LOL, so the fact i've had any at all makes me happy.
one of my friends in middle school used to call me xara bear. she was the only one who ever did, but i thought it was cute! it was my first nickname given to me by a friend, so it meant a lot.
i honestly really like when people give me nicknames, but of course only if they come from people i know well enough and am close to. i haven’t been close to many people in my life to have many nicknames under my belt, but they make me feel known, loved, and cared about
