I wanted to comment on this because this reminds me of myself.
It is very sad she deals with this health issue, and from what is written here, luckily she doesn't have antibiotic allergies.
I know the freedom to choose to mask or not without a doctors note is a hot topic. And it is the same way with the vaccine. a Or at least in the USA it is because of how our country is and how some of the laws are written. Realistically in the USA the topic is debatable otherwise there wouldn't be so many law cases trying to decide yay or nay and we would have the mask and vaccines actual law and not just a mandate there is a difference.
But at the end of the day, directed towards readers of this thread in general, some food for thought is, if a doctor's note doesn't appease you, it doesn't mean it is bull. And those with a doctor's note aren't the problem to people with health conditions. Those are some of the people with health conditions. The problem lies with the people who feel like a doctor's note isn't enough.
If I was working, luckily I have someone to support me right now, I would HAVE to get a doctor's note regarding masks. The employer would either be forced to allow my time table of wearing a mask to be up (1.5-2 hours a day and no more) or they would severely reduce my hours which wouldn't cover needs. Or they could terminate me, which does happen but does risk a lawsuit....as it should.
To give context, yes I have asthma and yes that plays a role because it constricts airways and increases mucus production which allows for bacteria to grow... but the real reason for the excuse would be because I have multiple allergies to antibiotics and many antibiotics simply don't work on me. I have a history of getting bacterial infections that we almost run out of medication to work. I get chest infections with prolonged use of a mask. On top of it all, I have intestinal bleeding. The reason isn't known still but it isn't pleasant at all some weeks and painful. That doesn't help with preventing or fighting infections. I never had problems with viruses like I do with bacterial infections.
I don't really have a desire to risk my life for a mask. I don't care to have scar tissue built up, and I most certainly won't be able to deal with the medical bills.
My overall comment will be directed at both topics of masks and vaccines.
We don't live in a perfectly operating world. People often don't have the privilege of just staying home or getting some sort of supplemental help that takes care of their needs. Sometimes they still have to go to work and to block them of that with the additional blocks just because of feelings is extremely inhumane. And it isn't good to just separate people as outcasts to a society which I honestly do get concerned about for how many people act regarding the topic, nor is it good to just "do away" with people, nor is it morally right to literally hold people down and force stuff. In history, they ended up being the bad guys and there are reasons why that happens.
I do think people forget that people are people and in the process dehumanize them and when we do that, harm is done. Or that people just want things to be good for everyone and they get so focused on that they end up dehumanizing those who don't fit in that.
And yes I have seen people online that state that a doctor's excuse isn't enough. That is concerning. That is the same as saying your medical file isn't enough to make decisions on but the TV is.
My point was that for people with health conditions and disabilities - those who harm them and prevent them from living their lives the most are anti-maskers and anti-vaxxers, who put them at risk over conspiracy theories and political point scoring.
what has cast doubt on people with these medical issues is that their real complaints have been co-opted, faked, and covered up by people who don’t have legitimate reasons to not mask or think masking is evil or that it is some secret trick. They created a cottage industry in fake doctor’s notes and fake health conditions which have complicated what should be straightforward processes. These people trivialize the issue to the point where to some it does all begin to look fake - and this exactly suits their needs, which are served by making all the facts look subjective. They don’t care about the rights of people like my coworker to not wear a mask, they only care about their own imaginary issues, and in fact undermine both her rights and her safety.
finally I will just say that for my coworker the issue was not that she could not get exempted. It would have been straightforward. But given the greater risk to her health from catching covid (much much worse than the risk and discomfort from masks - sometimes there are not good options only the weighing of the least bad choices) she continues to wear one. The risk to her was increased by individuals who refused to mask for non-fact based reason, and masking continues to drag on and on because of people who refuse to take the pandemic seriously.
so even though there may be some out there who may be rude or misinformed about health conditions and disabilities that make wearing a mask hard, or which may make it impossible to be vaccinated, far far more harm is done to these people by anti-maskers and anti-vaxxers, who have made their day to day lives much worse and more dangerous. I don’t know how someone with disabilities can even live life in a state like some in the US where they declare ‘victory’ with among the highest death rates in the country and their public policy treats anyone less than perfectly health as fully expendable.
you’ll be fine as long as you are young and healthy’ is actually a horrifying statement (aside from also not being true).
TL;DR If you are looking for people who are excluding people or ‘doing away with’ people look no further than the anti-vaccine/ anti-mask/ covid non-believing culture. Their view is that ‘normal’ people feeling slightly uncomfortable is more important than the health, safety, and freedom of those who will be in danger of death or long term incapacitation if they get covid.
Just like you, I feel very very concerned when I see how many people think the sick, disabled, and elderly are expendable and don’t deserve to benefit from society.
I think there are basic responsibilities people need to take as part of the social contract if they choose to be part of a society - and this has always been the case - just like laws banning drunk driving, requiring people to obey traffic lights, requiring people to wear clothing, requiring buildings be made accessible, etc.
Edit to say - I am sorry for your struggles. In a perfect world I think some people currently wearing masks would not need to be masked (though I cannot say for sure, not being an epidemiologist), and I wish this world was more like that one. I don’t know where you live but I hope you are able to stay safe.