Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
My mother. She's something else.
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LottieandSoul
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my acne omlllllllllll
xSuperMario64x
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I need to work on writing this paper and instead I keep watching hilarious variations of the DK Rap lmao
Dawnpiplup
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I went to the kitchen to applogize for what I did tonight. I threw a temper tantrum, and I could definitely have handled the situation better. When I did, I just got yelled at and criticized by my mother about how awful my hair is. I did apologize to my mother and grandmother for my actions, but my mom just kept on directing the conversation to my hair. I just left the room.
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MelloDimensions
Fine like whine
Work tomorrow resulting in only 2 beers tonight.
Dawnpiplup
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What the hell. So my mother said that in our culture, we don't apologize, but we just learn from our mistakes so we don't repeat them in the future. Just... she's just saying that I need to take care of my appearance. I need to eat more so my hair will look better. She's mad at me for not eating. I went to the kitchen to apologize for throwing a temper tantrum, and I did - but my mom was mad at me for not eating. It's because if I don't eat, my hair won't grow - she's screaming right now, about how awful my hair is. "Don't let me look at you! I've raised you and you had beautiful hair back then, and now this! Americans who give birth are stupid people! Stupid! Stupid! Stupid! You look like a crazy woman!"
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My mother really picks on my appearance. She certainly makes it seem like an awfully important aspect of me, to the point where it's just ridiculous. My looks seem far more important than anything else, it seems. She doesn't ask how my academics are, nor does she ask how I feel - although, I try and do that for her... she makes it seem like I'm so ugly and hideous due to my hair. Apparently, I'm losing a lot of it. These comments and opinions stated by my mother - they really do take a toll of my self-esteem. I don't think I'm pretty. There'd be times when I'd look in the mirror and feel awful afterwards. I remember wearing bright red lipstick once. I caught my mother looking at me, and she had some sort of a proud or admiring look on her face. I just... these things make me feel worthless.
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My mother really picks on my appearance. She certainly makes it seem like an awfully important aspect of me, to the point where it's just ridiculous. My looks seem far more important than anything else, it seems. She doesn't ask how my academics are, nor does she ask how I feel - although, I try and do that for her... she makes it seem like I'm so ugly and hideous due to my hair. Apparently, I'm losing a lot of it. These comments and opinions stated by my mother - they really do take a toll of my self-esteem. I don't think I'm pretty. There'd be times when I'd look in the mirror and feel awful afterwards. I remember wearing bright red lipstick once. I caught my mother looking at me, and she had some sort of a proud or admiring look on her face. I just... these things make me feel worthless.
Reginald Fairfield
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I want to know where an octopuss's butt is. Also how to show possession on that noun.
ali.di.magix
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Kind of torn up about something that doesn?t really matter. I?m tired of feeling lonely. No one here IRL really knows what I?m going through. I wish someone would just say they care and give me a hug
legit same @ being torn up about stuff that doesn't matter though
That is quite honestly disgusting behaviour </3 She does realise hair loss can be related to stress/trauma right?? I'm 100% you look beautiful, no matter what your mother says. Both inside and out
Princess Mipha
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Oh wow, that really sounds horrible.
I'm pretty sure you are looking very good and anyways. YOU have to like how you look, no one else.
And don't do things to please someone else, you have to do all that for you, as it's your life afterall.
My mother for example, she has commented multiple times how awful she things my pink hair are
and that I shouldn't have them, which hit me quite hard after all my self-esteem is one of the lowest
in the entire planet, lol. But yet I still have pink hair. Why? Because I like them, I feel more myself
and why would I not do something that makes me happy, just because my mother disagrees with it?
I know when you are living with her it's really though and all, but honestly you should just focus on
what you like, what makes you happy. Want idk, green hair? Then go ahead and do it, even if you mother
will hate on it. It makes you happy, so she has to respect that, and if she doesn't then why would you care?
Just be yourself and don't let her put you down like that. One day she'll eventually stop, once she realises
that it doesn't bring anything and even if she doesn't, there is always the option to break up contact,
which can be heartbreaking, but sometimes things like that are needed to make yourself feel better.
Hope everything is gonna turn out good for you. <3
Princess Mipha
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The new screen I've ordered for my bf got cancelled now.
Really nice.. I better get my 111€ back or I'll really riot.
Really nice.. I better get my 111€ back or I'll really riot.
Man, you need to stop apologizing to her every single time, otherwise she will keep thinking it's okay to mentally abuse you like that.
Also those large ass jars of sauces and stuff with their child-safe lid :/
Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
Thank you. I really appreciate you all, and I'm glad that my emotions were validated. Means a lot to me. <3
legit same @ being torn up about stuff that doesn't matter though
No no, Nessa. You’re not a joke to me, XD. I love you and all my other friends from here more than I can put into words. Without first you and MapleSilver last year, and then NoUsernameHere, Excalibur, and Krefails, and others, I don’t know where I would be right now.
I hope you feel better soon as well. <3 <3 <3
Reginald Fairfield
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There are vegetable rights activists now?
MelloDimensions
Fine like whine
Same thing that shoots out both ink, and water for swimming.
I've spoiled myself with breakfast twice now, so with that I now am hungry earlier.
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