What's Bothering You?

[spawnpoint]

B r u h
one of my friends told one of my other "friends" about what happened to my leg (My knee dislocated and I had to go to the hospital in an ambulance and now I have a cast thing on my leg and I have to walk with crutches) and he said it was karma

KARMA FOR WHAT???

 

[Chris]

B r u h
one of my friends told one of my other "friends" about what happened to my leg (My knee dislocated and I had to go to the hospital in an ambulance and now I have a cast thing on my leg and I have to walk with crutches) and he said it was karma

KARMA FOR WHAT???

This person isn't a real friend. No one who actually cares for you would actually want for you—or think you deserved—to get hurt. Best thing to do would be to drop contact with this person. You shouldn't keep toxic people like this in your life.

Praying for a quick recovery.

 

[spawnpoint]

This person isn't a real friend. No one who actually cares for you would actually want for you—or think you deserved—to get hurt. Best thing to do would be to drop contact with this person. You shouldn't keep toxic people like this in your life.

Praying for a quick recovery.

Exactly, I'm never talking to them again because they were a jerk before this anyway

And thank you :')

 

[_Rainy_]

I haven’t heard from a friend in awhile and it’s not usually like them. I hope I didn’t do anything to upset them because it wasn’t on purpose

 

[beehumcrossing]

there’s someone i need to get out of my life but my mom won’t let me. kinda odd considering that i have other friends that acted the same and she didn’t care that i dropped contact with them?

maybe it’s because the moms are friends, but does that really matter honestly

 

[Xara]

i can’t even begin to explain how i feel right now. im so angry. im so sad. this isn’t much of a family at all and i don’t think it ever was. this always ends the same way; me crying in my bedroom and them going on about their business. they apologize for upsetting me only to repeat the cycle the next day. i just wanted to do my schoolwork but now i’ve been shoved into that dark corner of my mind again and i know i can’t go to my lesson like this. i just want to go to sleep and never wake up. anything would feel better than this

 

[xSuperMario64x]

B r u h
one of my friends told one of my other "friends" about what happened to my leg (My knee dislocated and I had to go to the hospital in an ambulance and now I have a cast thing on my leg and I have to walk with crutches) and he said it was karma

KARMA FOR WHAT???

bruh what

I had a very similar injury back in late Dec 2017 where I dislocated my patella on my left knee, and I had to wear a brace and walk on crutches. that was probably one of the hardest things I've been through. I'll be praying for your recovery! ♡

but fr though thats just terrible. people like that dont deserve to be "friends" with you.

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I'm so tired of dealing with all this ESA paperwork bull****. so tired of it. just let me bring my dog to my dorm. why does it have to be this damn hard.

 

[Dracule]

i can’t even begin to explain how i feel right now. im so angry. im so sad. this isn’t much of a family at all and i don’t think it ever was. this always ends the same way; me crying in my bedroom and them going on about their business. they apologize for upsetting me only to repeat the cycle the next day. i just wanted to do my schoolwork but now i’ve been shoved into that dark corner of my mind again and i know i can’t go to my lesson like this. i just want to go to sleep and never wake up. anything would feel better than this

I’m so sorry your family, instead of building you up, is tearing you down . You’re not alone when you’re on the forum, bby. Just know there are people who can encourage and support you, who can be your family when your own family can’t.

My mom is very similar—she’ll say rude and hurtful things, then either apologize or go into self-pity mode where she complains that she can never do anything right. It’s draining and I can’t wait until my bf and I are married and I’m moved out of my house.

When times like this happen to you, I want to encourage you to read some poetry or fiction, or maybe sketch while listening to music. Don’t try to focus on school or homework right away if it’s stressing you out after having to deal with familial issues. Go back to it when you can and spend some time—even if it’s only 30 minutes—working on it. You’ll feel a little better that you progressed somewhat despite your situation. And remember, there are people who love you and are more than happy to talk or listen.

 

[_Rainy_]

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Sorry you’re going through this. You’re such a kind person on the forum. Can’t think of any other way to cheer you up other than to send you virtual bunny hugs. (Ignore the fact that I’m in my pjs. Online classes lol)

 

[Alienfish]

Was supposed to have a phone meeting with the job agency here so I can apply for unemployment money and get some help hopefully... I ticked the 3-4 pm box when they should call me. They close phone meetings at 5 pm and guess what I sat and waited 2 hours for nothing, they didn't call and didn't bother to like, send me a message they were busy or stuff. Wow, kms.

 

[DarkDesertFox]

Tired of covering for my coworker's mistakes and laziness. Stuff that should be done in 2 days hasn't been addressed sometimes in weekly increments. I really want to avoid getting people in trouble, but it's gotten to a point I might have to say something. All this extra work and trying to cover for her is too much on top of my existing stuff. I think she's gotten a bit too comfortable working from home and doesn't do her work like she should.

 

[Midoriya]

i can’t even begin to explain how i feel right now. im so angry. im so sad. this isn’t much of a family at all and i don’t think it ever was. this always ends the same way; me crying in my bedroom and them going on about their business. they apologize for upsetting me only to repeat the cycle the next day. i just wanted to do my schoolwork but now i’ve been shoved into that dark corner of my mind again and i know i can’t go to my lesson like this. i just want to go to sleep and never wake up. anything would feel better than this

Hey there, Xara. I’m sorry you’re having to go through this and it seems really difficult. I can kind of relate with having some issues with my family right now. Like others have said already, we here at TBT are here for you and want only the best for you. I know I want you to be happy, so when this happens it breaks my heart too. If you ever need someone to rely on or someone to vent to, just ask any of us here. I’m sure we would be happy to listen.

 

[oak]

I paid all my bills on time with spending money to spare and I'm still anxious for some reason. What more do you want from me anxiety? I'm being a responsible adult gawd.

Last year during fall whenever I felt anxious I would buy a carving pumpkin from the store and it would make me feel better (don't judge me pls lmao) and we ended up with over a dozen pumpkins on the steps out front of the house. Is the same thing gonna happen this year? I already saw them for sale at the store lmao

 

[Dunquixote]

B r u h
one of my friends told one of my other "friends" about what happened to my leg (My knee dislocated and I had to go to the hospital in an ambulance and now I have a cast thing on my leg and I have to walk with crutches) and he said it was karma

KARMA FOR WHAT???

Wow! I’m so sorry that that happened. I’ve stopped talking to one person who used to be my friend partially because when I told him about one of my cats dying, he said she never came out anyways when he visited. And i’ve told him how many times I had anxiety and warned him when I was snippy (like a few months after my aunt was murdered and I was anxious about leaving home to go to funeral and about leaving home to go to my sister’s for christmas) and then he acts like I have the problem when I snapped at him because he didn’t listen? yeah... I thought this was bad, but wow, seriously, that is the worst. You deserve better than that. I hope you have a speedy recovery. Sending you many well wishes your way.

 

[Lothitine]

i think im giving myself ear damage by listening to music so much
i already cant hear out of one ear and music is like the one thing that makes me relaxed

 

[Chris]

i think im giving myself ear damage by listening to music so much
i already cant hear out of one ear and music is like the one thing that makes me relaxed

If you don't want to cut down on music then lower the volume. It'll help in the long-term.

 

[Dunquixote]

I paid all my bills on time with spending money to spare and I'm still anxious for some reason. What more do you want from me anxiety? I'm being a responsible adult gawd.

Last year during fall whenever I felt anxious I would buy a carving pumpkin from the store and it would make me feel better (don't judge me pls lmao) and we ended up with over a dozen pumpkins on the steps out front of the house. Is the same thing gonna happen this year? I already saw them for sale at the store lmao

Aw. Anxiety is not easy. That is really an interesting way to cope ; nothing to be embarrassed about (and I wouldn’t judge you anyways). Hang in there. Anxiety is not easy and even with medicine, there are times I feel like there is a limit to how much something can help me cope. If you ever want to chat when you’re feeling anxious, feel free to dm me . I have anxiety too so I can relate and would be happy to help you (and even if I didn’t have anxiety, I’d still be here if you need me).

i can’t even begin to explain how i feel right now. im so angry. im so sad. this isn’t much of a family at all and i don’t think it ever was. this always ends the same way; me crying in my bedroom and them going on about their business. they apologize for upsetting me only to repeat the cycle the next day. i just wanted to do my schoolwork but now i’ve been shoved into that dark corner of my mind again and i know i can’t go to my lesson like this. i just want to go to sleep and never wake up. anything would feel better than this

I’m sorry. Please though don’t wish to never wake up; I can relate to that feeling though. Still, that makes me extremely sad since you are seriously a super nice, cool, wonderful person. Even if your family doesn’t see the positives in you, a lot of us do on TBT. I know I do and I know there are people that you’ll meet some day that will say the same thing. I wish I could help you cope with that situation better.

Here’s a picture of one of my cats; she and I send you lots of positive vibes and well wishes towards your way:

 

[spawnpoint]

Wow! I’m so sorry that that happened. I’ve stopped talking to one person who used to be my friend partially because when I told him about one of my cats dying, he said she never came out anyways when he visited. And i’ve told him how many times I had anxiety and warned him when I was snippy (like a few months after my aunt was murdered and I was anxious about leaving home to go to funeral and about leaving home to go to my sister’s for christmas) and then he acts like I have the problem when I snapped at him because he didn’t listen? yeah... I thought this was bad, but wow, seriously, that is the worst. You deserve better than that. I hope you have a speedy recovery. Sending you many well wishes your way.

man that sounds terrible.. sucks how awful people can be sometimes
and thank you ;;

 

[Dunquixote]

I haven’t heard from a friend in awhile and it’s not usually like them. I hope I didn’t do anything to upset them because it wasn’t on purpose

I hope you hear from them soon. I have a friend who used to talk to me every day but has stopped and that made me worry awhile too. Now I realize he’s too busy playing video games lol or watching anime, and since we’re just friends, he doesn’t feel the need to talk all the time.

I’m sure you did nothing wrong, but I worry all the time the same thing that you’re worrying about and it’s not easy convincing yourself that you did nothing wrong. I hope you can reach them somehow or they contact you soon. I’m really sorry that you’re experiencing this anxiety .

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I had a good idea for a GIF avatar but every time I try to upload it it gets all messed up, I don't have any other avatar ideas so now idk what to do
(I found one with some boos, this will do for now)

also homework is literally the worst. can't I just go to bed and not worry about it?