I can't say I have but if Budweiser tastes like cleaning solution to me I would hate to know what IPA tastes like to me lmao
ty Vris and sheila for the bday wishes!!
I was talking a bit out of frustration, I don't really have any intention to change my appearance drastically more than I have. some of my biggest giveaways that make it hard to pass are the fact that I like wearing colorful studded earrings and I also like wearing colorful/tie-dye shirts. heck today I wore a rainbow tie-dye shirt. I personally don't think that clothes should dictate gender identity but it seems like a lot of people think that way, especially where I live and in my family. I don't care enough about what others think to really change how I look for them, but it does get annoying when people still assume I go by she/her even though I'm trying to get away from being overtly feminine. I think today I'll make my own pronoun sticker/pin so that I can wear it if I go out and about
I think I will start correcting people. I told my mom two months ago and she still refers to me by my old pronouns. she doesn't even pardon herself when she does so unless I bring it up. it's possible that she just forgets, maybe if I remind her a lot it would help. though she's kinda hard to deal with cause when I correct her she's like "you gotta give me time to get used to it" but like bruh you can't get used to it if you're not actively practicing/trying lol
my friend also keeps using my old name/pronouns, prob also bc she forgets after knowing the old me for like 13 years lol. I'll just remind her if it comes up again.
thank you!!
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I really need to tell my dad about me being nb so I can start opening up to people more, I'm just so terrified cause I've taken so much verbal abuse from him over the years and I don't want to put myself in that situation on purpose. but I gotta say when he uses my deadname/pronouns I just feel so invalidated. he really needs to know.
it's kinda funny how oblivious he is though, I changed my name on FB to my preferred name, I have my pronouns listed on my profile (he tryna play stupid and be like "what's that for" like how tf do you not know), and I HAVE A WHOLE *** NB FLAG ON MY WALL. part of me wonders if he's in denial. that would be pretty unfortunate.