Hey sorry i wasnt able to reply asap!! but thank you so much for seeing things from my point of view, your message actually pushed me to talk with this person again and really clarify my feelings and boundaries with our relationship. As much as she‘s been toxic, I still do really love her and want the best for her, I know she’s been through a lot and I want to support her but I also want her to know that I‘m simply not an emotional sponge to soak up her rants and troubles all the time. Hopefully she understands me well this time around and we can still keep being really good friends; more than anything I don’t want to lose her.
Thank you so much, truly.
It means a lot.