do you think glasses are attractive?

It isn't something I think about. I do feel like glasses are alot more common to see now than before. I know some people wear them for style rather than need.
Mine are pretty thick and do make the eyes look a little smaller which I don't care for, but at least I can see. Without them, the world is distorted blobs of colors, and I wouldn't be able to do alot of things safely.
 
i wear glasses because i need to. my boyfriend wears glasses because he's completely blind in one eye and needs it for corrective use, he is very uncapable of seeing without them. it's not something i think about as ugly/attractive because it's a necessary thing for people to have and in most cases, to survive. i don't see it any differently than someone needing knee braces or a cane.
 
Ehh, i don’t think it’s like an attractive quality like someone isn’t more attractive to me because they wear glasses. I also don’t mind either. Like if you’re attractive and you have glasses cool, you aren’t any more or less attractive with them or without them.

I do tend to be more into peoples eyes, so glasses may get in the way of that.
 
Meh. I don't think they are attractive nor do I think they are ugly, it's just a thing. Wearing or not wearing them, if the person normally does, does change their look but I don't think anythin of the object itself. Maybe cause I wear glasses, idk.
 
Glasses aren't a deal breaker for me by any means - whenever I used to think about my future partner when I was little I wasn't like, "and they'll have glasses!". They've always just been a thing that some people have or some people don't. When I was little I had glasses and absolutely hated wearing them and felt uglier with them on.

With that being said @Saylor has glasses and they are so very cute 😌 definitely a big fan. But she is also very cute without the glasses, so. 🤷‍♀️
 
I'm gray/demi ace so attraction isn't really about physical appearance for me, but in an aesthetic sense I LOVE GLASSES. My fiance wears the cutest glasses and I think they look so nice... embarrassing story, when I was in the second grade I convinced myself I needed glasses by getting into the habit at blurring my eyes when I looked at things... I still feel bad my mom spent so much money on glasses I didn't need! The thing is... before long I probably will need glasses seeing as I stare at screens in badly lit rooms all day 😆 oops
 
There’s a difference between what I would say is attractive and what I’m attracted to. I think they can look attractive and be a boost on most people if you find the right style but I think I ultimately prefer people without glasses. Heck if you have bad eyesight and sometimes don’t wear them and stumble around with me it can be cute.

OTOH I am cursed with awful eyesight. I wear glasses. My partner (who also has glasses, they look nice, my partner is pretty cute)… loves how I look in glasses. They wouldn’t be upset at me but I think I’d rather get LASIK some day. I used to wear contacts as much as possible, quit doing that since 2020…

As for why I prefer no glasses- that just shows off face shape unabashedly. Also, seeing someone with glasses… in the very very back of my mind reminds me of my own need for glasses. I don’t care if I look good in them, I hate needing glasses and it doesn’t help my dysphoria/depersonalisation. I hate that I need an accessory just to be able to use my eyes properly. Seeing someone else with glasses isn’t triggering or something, I didn’t even think about it, but looking back on it now I guess I can feel that.

Now I don’t find them unattractive or a turn-off. I really don’t think about it actively. There’s nothing gross or wrong about using glasses or anything and I have them myself (I hate that I need them because I find them uncomfortable to keep wearing, there’s enough of my body I can’t change, at least I can see properly even if I need an accessory I guess). However if you made me say what I’m more attracted to, I’d say no-glasses, but it isn’t a huge difference anyway. Aside from that, having them as an option is very nice. I’d like to see my partner with glasses sometimes, but not other times. The same way I might wear a necklace sometimes, not other times.

For the record though… This is coming from someone very very rarely physically attracted to men; women are a bit of a different story, but men where I live wear the most awful messy clothes and/or treat their hair horribly, which is extremely unattractive. I haven’t really been able to explore what I like in men properly. So to be honest, it’s hard for me to know what I’m attracted to in men. Maybe if you have a sharp business suit paired with the glasses or something. I love business suits very much.
 
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I do not think about it. My man have glasses and I never thought about it like a thing. So I think I am neutral on the subject. Right pair of sunglasses thou is hot!
 
Depends on the frames. Some frames are ugly and kind of ruin a person's appearance, while some frames can make them look really good.
 
It depends of the glasses. When I look back my old glasses when I was a child or a teenager, like rectancle, small or bigger ones, no I don't find them attractive and I don't find rectancle (you know, the small ones) glasses attractive at all, but round or other, yes, definitely. I bought three pairs of glasses two years ago and I'm pretty happy with them. It depends of the frame.
 
I always have, for the most part. They’re so cute and aesthetically pleasing. In fact, I loved glasses so much when I was like 3 years old my aunt made me a book of me and my loved ones with glasses edited on, including my family’s cat Grusha XD
 
as someone who wears glasses myself occasionally,

i am inclined to say yes.
 
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i think some people look better with glasses but i don’t think it’s a make or break thing in regards to their attractiveness. if you get frames that match your face then that’ll definitely do something.
 
Back when I hated how my own glasses looked on me, I found it to be an unattractive quality in others.

Now that I've accepted how I look and actually think glasses look cute on me, I think I find glasses-wearers to be more attractive than non, lol. I like how they draw attention to people's eyes. :]
 
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