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Three things:

1) You have my condolences and I am giving you all the strength I can send.

2) Unfollowing spree. There are no loyalties other than to yourself.

3) I suggest doing the best angst relieving activity you feel is the most effective.
 
Three things:

1) You have my condolences and I am giving you all the strength I can send.

2) Unfollowing spree. There are no loyalties other than to yourself.

3) I suggest doing the best angst relieving activity you feel is the most effective.

You are such a cool cat.
Thank you dude!
;v;
 
So there are these annoying boys on my bus and they also use the word "gay" in the wrong situations and it's so offensive and annoying. For example some person will be like "I got this good candy on Easter" and then this idiot (now I feel bad) will be like "Dude that's so gay" like what?! It's the most annoying thing they use it so incorrectly and I just think it's really annoying when they do this! Even if someone said like "Dude that girl is cute" then THAT SAME IDIOT (I feel horrible) GOES LIKE "DUDE THAT'S SO GAY" LIKE OH MY GOODNESS WHYYY?!?

It annoys me greatly.
Goodbye~
(No hearts this time.)​

I have a funny story. Before I came out to my brother, he would always say everything I did was so gay, in a negative sense. Like, if we were playing something and I wanted to quit, he'd tell me to stop being so gay. Eventually I got angry at him and asked him why it made me gay to quit something, and then he told me it was just a word, to stop being so gay about it.

Now, it's funny cuz he knows I'm gay and when he's going to tell me to stop being so gay, he immediately stops. Now I get to tell him how gay he's being.
 
Religion causes so much trouble for me. Nobody I know is very religious at all, but when I do meet somebody religious and the subject of religion comes up and I mention I'm an atheist, they go nuts and one even said admitting a problem is the first step to fixing it, and it's just so ridiculous. Religion is holding us back, I think. We've got gays being brutally attacked in Russia and we've got terrorists throwing them off cliffs. It has to stop. Religious freedom is important, and I do love Buddhism a lot, but some of these religious nuts are just going too far.

I remember somebody here calling transgender is a birth defect a long time ago, and it just gets on my nerves. I think there should be a ban on certain religious actions. People should not be allowed to influence other people with religion unless it is wanted, I think. I mean, when I studied Buddhism the most noticeable thing about them was that they were always smiling, and they wouldn't hurt a fly. They are beautiful people and they care about this world and those on it, and that's how everyone should be.

If your religion does not teach you to be a loving, accepting and overall good person, it simply shouldn't exist. I know it sounds harsh, and disrespecting other people's religious beliefs is not a very nice thing to do, but I think that if certain religions didn't exist, there'd be less harm done in the world. I respect the Buddhists for never being this way and treating everyone equally.
 
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Life is going great atm, a recent pic of me ahh. So much better than before, finally who i was meant to be ...
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I was going to post something here... but I do not know where to start? Because I am way too tired to try and figure out what everybody's on about at this point in time.
 
I was going to post something here... but I do not know where to start? Because I am way too tired to try and figure out what everybody's on about at this point in time.

this is just a general LGBTQA thread. talk about anything.
 
I have recently realized I identify as asexual, and came out to a couple of my friends yesterday. It went very well. I am also going to tell my mom soon, maybe my sister, but not my dad. My dad's view on LGBT is as long as you dont shove it in my face, you are fine. However, I dont know how he will react to no sexual attraction at all.
 
Not related to the above, but it seems like a lot of the time when someone says "don't shove it in my face", what they really mean is "don't talk about it or let it be around me. Just pretend it doesn't exist so my heterosexuality doesn't have to feel threatened by anything homo, k?"
 
Not related to the above, but it seems like a lot of the time when someone says "don't shove it in my face", what they really mean is "don't talk about it or let it be around me. Just pretend it doesn't exist so my heterosexuality doesn't have to feel threatened by anything homo, k?"

Well, the thing is, he doesnt care if someone is gay, but he doesnt want to see them make out or whatever, which I think is stupid regardless.
 
So there are these annoying boys on my bus and they also use the word "gay" in the wrong situations and it's so offensive and annoying. For example some person will be like "I got this good candy on Easter" and then this idiot (now I feel bad) will be like "Dude that's so gay" like what?! It's the most annoying thing they use it so incorrectly and I just think it's really annoying when they do this! Even if someone said like "Dude that girl is cute" then THAT SAME IDIOT (I feel horrible) GOES LIKE "DUDE THAT'S SO GAY" LIKE OH MY GOODNESS WHYYY?!?

It annoys me greatly.
Goodbye~
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Yeah, that kind of sucks. But you're a middle schooler, right? You'll be happy to know that not as many kids still do that in high school. It's kind of an "eighth grade boys" thing, haha

To be honest, I don't fight over microaggressions (like ppl using gay as an insult) anymore. That and I'm really, really, really hard to offend. Actually, my friend jokes with me about "becoming trans" and I just don't fight him about it because honestly one thing I've learned over time is that if you're lgbt and you don't learn to just pick your battles, straight people will be super uncomfortable around you at all times

Which isn't really a good thing like at all it's just a thing :/
 
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Life is going great atm, a recent pic of me ahh. So much better than before, finally who i was meant to be ...
11116722_878044105585766_1401719716_n.jpg

Damn. I remember we used to talk a lot and play ACNL together when we both first joined TBT. Quite obviously, you're very different now to what I would have imagined when we first started talking. :eek:

You're beautiful. <3
 
I have recently realized I identify as asexual, and came out to a couple of my friends yesterday. It went very well. I am also going to tell my mom soon, maybe my sister, but not my dad. My dad's view on LGBT is as long as you dont shove it in my face, you are fine. However, I dont know how he will react to no sexual attraction at all.

If your a girl, he'll probably be delighted tbh. It's a dad thing
 
I have recently realized I identify as asexual, and came out to a couple of my friends yesterday. It went very well. I am also going to tell my mom soon, maybe my sister, but not my dad. My dad's view on LGBT is as long as you dont shove it in my face, you are fine. However, I dont know how he will react to no sexual attraction at all.

If your a girl, he'll probably be delighted tbh. It's a dad thing
 
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