LGBTQA - Discussion and support.

[Penguin ^-^]

What I want to know is how many more men would actually identify as bisexual if there wasn't a stigma against bi men. I don't know why, but I do feel like women are "allowed" (for lack of a better term) in society's eyes to experiment more without a stigma.

I've definitely notice that to be true, at least in my experience. I have a handful of male friends and acquaintances who are bisexual, and they get a lot of negative comments from people, even in the LGBTQ+ community. Most of them get told that they're gay, and just are unwilling to fully "come out of the closet". While many bisexual women I know have the same experiences, for the bisexual men it seems to be much more frequent and aggressive.

 

[Dreamy Luigi]

I hate not knowing ANYONE else that is also gay at my school, like I don't know of a single person that's also gay, not sure I'll ever find someone to even talk to let alone someone to start seeing.

 

[boujee]

Your school doesn't have a lgbat club?
Mines does which is run by a transsexual male who loves fashion(but it's not the best in my opinion) and my old 9th grade literature teacher who's a lesbian and also pregnant(she's so small it's adorable tbh).

I'm more of a ally though
If I told the people what my sexuality was I'll be targeted with confessions

 

[The Sundae]

If I told the people what my sexuality was I'll be targeted with confessions

CONFESS YOUR SINS, GAMZEE. CONFESS 'EM. lol no, it's fine. You don't have to tell us.

I hate not knowing ANYONE else that is also gay at my school, like I don't know of a single person that's also gay, not sure I'll ever find someone to even talk to let alone someone to start seeing.

Anyway, even if there isn't an LGBTQA club at your school, shouldn't there be one in the neighborhood? Like a center or something? Or maybe at a nearby college? I think you don't have to be a student to hang around there. You can also go to conventions, if you have the money and into that, and try your luck there.

I also remember reading somewhere that more LGBT-friendly cafes and the like are being built more often. Because, y'know, gay bars and night clubs aren't exactly the best places to go looking for dates/friends unless they have a really nice and clean crowd. So try keeping an eye out for those in the area.

 

[radical6]

I hate not knowing ANYONE else that is also gay at my school, like I don't know of a single person that's also gay, not sure I'll ever find someone to even talk to let alone someone to start seeing.

if ur a lesbian just wear a lot of flannel trust me all the lesbians in the area will kno

 

[oath2order]

if ur a lesbian just wear a lot of flannel trust me all the lesbians in the area will kno

can confirm happens to me all the time

 

[tumut]

I hate not knowing ANYONE else that is also gay at my school, like I don't know of a single person that's also gay, not sure I'll ever find someone to even talk to let alone someone to start seeing.

There is one gay person in my entire high school and they're a soulless ginger so I feel you

 

[Ashtot]

guys im a metrosexual and its hard because ppl think im gay but they dont understand

 

[pafupafu]

There is one gay person in my entire high school and they're a soulless ginger so I feel you

my girlfriend is a ginger and i can confirm she's soulless

if ur a lesbian just wear a lot of flannel trust me all the lesbians in the area will kno

good advice! will do this and form a secret lesbian gang in my neighbourhood.

 

[oath2order]

my girlfriend is a ginger and i can confirm she's soulless



good advice! will do this and form a secret lesbian gang in my neighbourhood.

Can i join the gang

 

[Bowie]

I always joke that I'm so gay I could be lesbian.

 

[Jarrad]

I always joke that I'm so gay I could be lesbian.

I always joke that I'm black so I could be racist and ignorant.

 

[chillv]

You guys probably would never even imagine me being on this thread ever, but the truth is, all this time I'm gay. It's just when I was homophobic, I was denying it

One of my problems I have been having is people making comments towards my gender identity (masculine). All my life people have at time seem to find something to tell me that they percieve as "girly" or me "acting like a girl", or making jokes about it. It could be from peers or even actual family members. I take very much offense to them and they can get me pretty heated up. Although at the same time, these comments also make me insecure about it as well.

 

[Shimmer]

Well dang, so my coworker looks like Emma Roberts and it's like... you're kinda hot girlfriend.
She has a boyfriend. Gods... what am I even doing now.

I'll just shut my mouth before I freak her out.

 

[Ashtot]

You guys probably would never even imagine me being on this thread ever, but the truth is, all this time I'm gay. It's just when I was homophobic, I was denying it

One of my problems I have been having is people making comments towards my gender identity (masculine). All my life people have at time seem to find something to tell me that they percieve as "girly" or me "acting like a girl", or making jokes about it. It could be from peers or even actual family members. I take very much offense to them and they can get me pretty heated up. Although at the same time, these comments also make me insecure about it as well.

i act girly but im not gay im just metro

 

[radical6]

also, theres a lesbian dating app i forgot to mention called Her.

you shouldnt have to worry about guys sneaking onto the app pretending to be women coz they verify your social media acc (to check if its not a spam bot, and i mean some ppl could fake one too, but thats a lot of work) or **** idk

its 18+ tho jsyk

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also they accept trans women/gnc women as well so thats nice

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guys im a metrosexual and its hard because ppl think im gay but they dont understand

dudes thats prety gay

 

[Frances-Simoun]

So, yesterday at college I was in Spanish class and we we're learning about the culture that goes behind music of the genre "Salsa", (idk what that had to do with spanish stuff but okay) so anyway at some point our Professor starts talking about pick-up lines and the boys of the classroom started saying a few of theirs and so on, then he asked what we first see on a person, blah blah, so he asked the girls what they see in MEN..

Well, I'm a lesbian so it was pretty awkward for me since I haven't done this whole coming out business because i just don't care about it, but when he asked me I kinda had to think for a little bit and the first thing that came out was " Eerrh , they aren't of my interest" and the room fell into silence, it was awkward as hell but hilarious at the same time, it shows how stupid people are when it comes to acknowledging that LGBTQA+ people exist. And yeah, just felt like sharing my awkward "coming out" in Spanish class moment.

 

[visibleghost]

So, yesterday at college I was in Spanish class and we we're learning about the culture that goes behind music of the genre "Salsa", (idk what that had to do with spanish stuff but okay) so anyway at some point our Professor starts talking about pick-up lines and the boys of the classroom started saying a few of theirs and so on, then he asked what we first see on a person, blah blah, so he asked the girls what they see in MEN..

Well, I'm a lesbian so it was pretty awkward for me since I haven't done this whole coming out business because i just don't care about it, but when he asked me I kinda had to think for a little bit and the first thing that came out was " Eerrh , they aren't of my interest" and the room fell into silence, it was awkward as hell but hilarious at the same time, it shows how stupid people are when it comes to acknowledging that LGBTQA+ people exist. And yeah, just felt like sharing my awkward "coming out" in Spanish class moment.

omg people who do that are so annoying... it's good that you felt like you could say that you don't have any interest in men, lol...

 

[oath2order]

also, theres a lesbian dating app i forgot to mention called Her.

you shouldnt have to worry about guys sneaking onto the app pretending to be women coz they verify your social media acc (to check if its not a spam bot, and i mean some ppl could fake one too, but thats a lot of work) or **** idk

its 18+ tho jsyk

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also they accept trans women/gnc women as well so thats nice

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dudes thats prety gay

Sorry, what's gnc? Can't say I've heard that before.

I wish they'd do what they did with Her on the gay male apps tho

 

[Frances-Simoun]

omg people who do that are so annoying... it's good that you felt like you could say that you don't have any interest in men, lol...

Yep it's very annoying, not for the fact of being "forced" to "come out" but because they have the strict stereotype of girls are for boys and boys are for girls y'know and that bothers me, either way I still had to answer but he rephrased the question like this " Then what do you first see in a PERSON" I mean, couldn't he just say girls? women? ladies? xD