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you dont need to have your sexuality figured out so early ok its ok
Yes.I feel lost at times..it's very hard..and if I am "biosexual" I could never tell my bffs...they'd think I have crush's on them ;-; so....yeah...
 
You, yourself may feel happy being l, g, t or b, but the society will look down on you for being that way. I, personally don't mind if someone is l, g, t or b although I do understand how some people would find it a bit weird.
For those that are confused and are worried about how your family/friends will react, it might be the best if you tell them what you are going through and how you feel.
My school has a programme which helps support these people and help them if they are confused.

okay now I feel kind of guilty for me liking yaoi ;__;
 
You, yourself may feel happy being l, g, t or b, but the society will look down on you for being that way. I, personally don't mind if someone is l, g, t or b although I do understand how some people would find it a bit weird.
For those that are confused and are worried about how your family/friends will react, it might be the best if you tell them what you are going through and how you feel.
My school has a programme which helps support these people and help them if they are confused.

okay now I feel kind of guilty for me liking yaoi ;__;
It's ok if you like yaoi. I just am scared of what people would say and such.. T^T... Their are biosexual girls in my school..one of them being my friend Margert. She is the only one who know's about my secret. I am myself here. People accept me! :D I feel happy, And this is hard for me.. I have panic attacks, a lot so I go to school and go home. I don't like leaving town. But...I am happy here. And if I am biosexual. Let me be. It's between me and god. ;-; I think I am scared of my dad the most. My parents split up four years ago. I was really happy, (this is another story for another time.) He hates homosexual people..He says it's a sin, I believe that..if you are homosexual..you are be happy no one should judge you. It's your life! You live it the way you want! My mom is the same way sadly...she accepts homosexuals but thinks it's wrong, I know she would love me still though...I never talk to my dad...I fear him though...I better stop chattering..
 
It's ok if you like yaoi. I just am scared of what people would say and such.. T^T... Their are biosexual girls in my school..one of them being my friend Margert. She is the only one who know's about my secret. I am myself here. People accept me! :D I feel happy, And this is hard for me.. I have panic attacks, a lot so I go to school and go home. I don't like leaving town. But...I am happy here. And if I am biosexual. Let me be. It's between me and god. ;-; I think I am scared of my dad the most. My parents split up four years ago. I was really happy, (this is another story for another time.) He hates homosexual people..He says it's a sin, I believe that..if you are homosexual..you are be happy no one should judge you. It's your life! You live it the way you want! My mom is the same way sadly...she accepts homosexuals but thinks it's wrong, I know she would love me still though...I never talk to my dad...I fear him though...I better stop chattering..

Well, according to the Bible, homosexuality is a sin, in most Christians opinions. Despite that, it doesn't mean you're less of a Christian than anyone else. Guess what else is a sin? Divorce, lust, and having anger. Just because you have sin in your life doesn't mean anyone else has the right to judge (judging is also a sin). If you are like that, and your parents are Christian (assuming because you said they think it's a sin, and who would really care if they weren't other than for spiteful purposes), then they should accept you and not treat you any differently than you already are. As a Christian, I treat everyone the same, regardless of how they live their life. That's what the Bible calls Christians to do.
 
*slow clap* I am not a fan of Christianity, but you, sir, you have given me hope.
 
Well, according to the Bible, homosexuality is a sin, in most Christians opinions. Despite that, it doesn't mean you're less of a Christian than anyone else. Guess what else is a sin? Divorce, lust, and having anger. Just because you have sin in your life doesn't mean anyone else has the right to judge (judging is also a sin). If you are like that, and your parents are Christian (assuming because you said they think it's a sin, and who would really care if they weren't other than for spiteful purposes), then they should accept you and not treat you any differently than you already are. As a Christian, I treat everyone the same, regardless of how they live their life. That's what the Bible calls Christians to do.
Thank you..I just feel alone, ;3; it's kinda hard at times, But all the kindness makes me feel a bit better.. :)
 
*slow clap* I am not a fan of Christianity, but you, sir, you have given me hope.

That's basically how a lot of non Roman Catholic Christians are. For some reason there tends to be a large difference between most Roman Catholic Christians and other (I'm nondenominational) Christians, which is probably because most people who go to Roman Catholic churches just go due to feeling guilty or because their family did. I don't even understand why Roman Catholics have confessions (especially paying for them) because that's entirely between a person and God, and has nothing to do with the pastor/priest. A lot about Roman Catholicism just bugs me in general. (But they're Christians too, anyways haha)
 
It's ok if you like yaoi. I just am scared of what people would say and such.. T^T... Their are biosexual girls in my school..one of them being my friend Margert. She is the only one who know's about my secret. I am myself here. People accept me! :D I feel happy, And this is hard for me.. I have panic attacks, a lot so I go to school and go home. I don't like leaving town. But...I am happy here. And if I am biosexual. Let me be. It's between me and god. ;-; I think I am scared of my dad the most. My parents split up four years ago. I was really happy, (this is another story for another time.) He hates homosexual people..He says it's a sin, I believe that..if you are homosexual..you are be happy no one should judge you. It's your life! You live it the way you want! My mom is the same way sadly...she accepts homosexuals but thinks it's wrong, I know she would love me still though...I never talk to my dad...I fear him though...I better stop chattering..

Confessing this to your parents would be the hardest, imo.
Since they would've liked you to marry someone the opposite gender and thus the next generation.
I'd say that your mother is very understanding, and she accepts the way you are :)
But once again, it is the SOCIETY that will judge you
 
I'm happy theres something like this on the forums :)

im a lesbian who's half in the closet. As in, I only say if i'm really close friends with someone or if it's anomynous, since I have no idea how family would react (apart from my mom, she's cool with it) and I would never come out with it in public, especially at college since it's pretty homophobic.

There's my little piece, yo guys :)

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If that passed, we've gone backwards in morality ._.
 
the bill was shot down i remember seeing something about it being denied yesterday i think

coming out is scary man i feel you. do whatever you feel is safe. tbh i probably couldnt stand living in a very homophobic place. i would end up ripping my hair out.

im pretty much out online. irl i kinda am out to like 2 friends?? they forget my pronouns though but they didn't react badly when i told them. i tried once coming out to my parents and they shot it down right away. as long as my friends dont talk about it with my parents i think im okay.

kinda upset that my online friends who know lots of stuff about LGBTQIA+ still misgender me. i mean if its a mistake fine but when i correct you dont get snappy with me and go "jeez fine whatever". idk most of them are cis and i guess they don't really understand how annoying it is to me when they misgender me? because you know they don't really have problems with it. i dont think they do it on purpose but its been a while and they still dont have it glued in their heads. its a bit better now because they're beginning to use my pronouns for me but eh
 
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the bill was shot down i remember seeing something about it being denied yesterday i think

coming out is scary man i feel you. do whatever you feel is safe. tbh i probably couldnt stand living in a very homophobic place. i would end up ripping my hair out.

im pretty much out online. irl i kinda am out to like 2 friends?? they forget my pronouns though but they didn't react badly when i told them. i tried once coming out to my parents and they shot it down right away. as long as my friends dont talk about it with my parents i think im okay.

kinda upset that my online friends who know lots of stuff about LGBTQIA+ still misgender me. i mean if its a mistake fine but when i correct you dont get snappy with me and go "jeez fine whatever". idk most of them are cis and i guess they don't really understand how annoying it is to me when they misgender me? because you know they don't really have problems with it. i dont think they do it on purpose but its been a while and they still dont have it glued in their heads. its a bit better now because they're beginning to use my pronouns for me but eh

But people who use the wrong gender pronouns on purpose tho </3
ergh

And pretty much my only friend at the time (who, fyi, stole from me/treated me like absolute crap/lied about me..etc) told everyone without my permission (I was pretty much the only person in my year/the years above and below us to be out) and essentially made sure everyone thought I was an absolute freak (especially the guy who I was absolutely in love with at the time, who asked her out at least 5 times, and one of those times, she told me to say no to him for her cc :) /gossiped about me behind my back.

Now all the girls wonder why I get changed in the toilets not around them? Because at the time, they all assumed I was attracted to each and every one of them (r u ok, I'm pansexual, by the way) and are literally the most spiteful and horrible groups of people I've ever come across.

I actually hate my own gender sometimes, because of them. I'm not even joking.

But my parents didn't care at all. I don't think they believe me, though.
 
A lot of people think I'm gay. But it's not true. I like a lot of girls, and I even asked one out last week (which, of course failed.) But I do somewhat consider myself bi at times.
 
A lot of people think I'm gay. But it's not true. I like a lot of girls, and I even asked one out last week (which, of course failed.) But I do somewhat consider myself bi at times.

Sorry, but how do you "consider yourself bisexual at times"? You either like a sex, or you don't. There's no "Ehh, I feel like being bisexual today. Straight tomorrow." Just be true to yourself - you'll gain absolutely nothing from lying to yourself.

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fair enough if you're confused about your sexuality* - should of included this in my reply
 
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Eurgh anyone who can talk to me privately about some issues im facing would be sooo appreciative, its pretty serious and i dont really trust many people but still >.<
 
the bill was shot down i remember seeing something about it being denied yesterday i think
the arizona one was passed though and my friend sent me a picture of this store that had a sign that said "no fags allowed" in the window

someone get me out of this awful state please
 
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