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LGBTQA - Discussion and support.

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I find that any of these people get bullied and gay is a term of something stupid these days. I'm not sure what I am, but I know that I'm not normal.i prefer being around guys, than girls, so am I trans? I like boys more, and I only look like I do cos of stereotypes, but I wanna look like a guy, like how I feel inside...
ARGH
 
I find that any of these people get bullied and gay is a term of something stupid these days. I'm not sure what I am, but I know that I'm not normal.i prefer being around guys, than girls, so am I trans? I like boys more, and I only look like I do cos of stereotypes, but I wanna look like a guy, like how I feel inside...
ARGH
Just wanting to hang around the opposite sex doesn't make you trans. You could even wanna appear very masculine & not be a transman. There's lots of manly woman & that's okay too! Only you can tell yourself if you're trans! No one else can look inside you & see how you feel. If you're feeling serious about this, maybe try talking to a counselor or gender therapist? Or a LBGTQA+ support group could be a small first step. They can help you sort out these feelings. I know doubting your gender can be very hard & confusing, so if you need someone to PM, feel free to message me!
 
Just wanting to hang around the opposite sex doesn't make you trans. You could even wanna appear very masculine & not be a transman. There's lots of manly woman & that's okay too! Only you can tell yourself if you're trans! No one else can look inside you & see how you feel. If you're feeling serious about this, maybe try talking to a counselor or gender therapist? Or a LBGTQA+ support group could be a small first step. They can help you sort out these feelings. I know doubting your gender can be very hard & confusing, so if you need someone to PM, feel free to message me!

Thanks. I'm not sure what I am, or what I'm going to do or be. It's kinda stressful, and I'm unsure what to do. Also, there are girls that I fancy, so am I just lesbian? I think that's what it is. I don't know. *cries*
 
Thanks. I'm not sure what I am, or what I'm going to do or be. It's kinda stressful, and I'm unsure what to do. Also, there are girls that I fancy, so am I just lesbian? I think that's what it is. I don't know. *cries*
You won't be able to figure yourself out in one day, it's been 3 years for me and i'm still unsure exactly who I am! Just try and follow what you feel, you don't need to slap a label on yourself so quick. Maybe try dating a little bit, see how you feel.
 
please don't use statistics to generalise people. generalising leads to issues like homophobia and racism sexism etc with the defense that "it's technically fact" because of statistics. generalising people is never okay and is harmful to that group of people.

anyways, im g and t. closeted in both irl, sort of.
 
There are exceptions, people shouldn't be generalized.
Was I generalising? I was stating that males on average tend to be faster and stronger. I wasn't saying all males are faster and stronger.

please don't use statistics to generalise people. generalising leads to issues like homophobia and racism sexism etc with the defense that "it's technically fact" because of statistics. generalising people is never okay and is harmful to that group of people.

anyways, im g and t. closeted in both irl, sort of.
Oh piss off with that attitude. That's the sort of wishywashy PC brigade argument that I detest. Someone says something you disagree with and you throw out the racism/homophobia/sexism card instead of having a proper discussion.
 
ooooh. what a lovely thread ; w ;

i identify as panromantic grey-asexual. i do consider myself to be a girl, but i do still go through bouts of extreme gender / sexuality identity crises. it can be difficult on occasion, because my girlfriend is bisexual, and it's really hard for sexuals to understand aces sometimes (a lot of the time -.-)
 
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