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Unfortunately I think I may be aromantic as well, but I'm crossing my fingers and hoping not. Gender is irrelevant to me, I'm attracted to personality. Though I've noticed that with video game characters I do really like the strong, female types...
Unfortunately I think I may be aromantic as well, but I'm crossing my fingers and hoping not. Gender is irrelevant to me, I'm attracted to personality. Though I've noticed that with video game characters I do really like the strong, female types...
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I half live at my parents house (closer to work) & half live with my boyfriend Elliott's family (mom + 9 year old brother). I learned a few days ago that Elliott's dad (who lives else where) is gonna try & take custody of his little brother cause he thinks it's a bad environment to be around me & my boyfriend. Me & my boyfriend are ftm transgender (we live stealth, meaning we usually do not tell people we are trans) and his dad somehow thinks we're gonna corrupt his young mind & make him gay? Idk. I couldn't believe the story when I heard it. He plans to take my boyfriend's mom to court, all because he doesn't think a young kid should be raised around "our kind of people".
I know no judge in their right mind would grant him custody, but I feel guilty cause if I just lived at home fully, there wouldn't be this issue. I don't wanna cause issues for my boyfriend's family, but then I don't want his dad to win. He hates when I come over & sleep in the same bed as Elliott. When we first started dating, he was like "YOU GUYS CAN'T HUG OR KISS IN FRONT OF YOUR LITTLE BROTHER, THAT'S JUST WRONG". Gah I just, idk why he's so filled with anger towards us.
I feel like bawling my eyes out every time I think about the situation??
I know no judge in their right mind would grant him custody, but I feel guilty cause if I just lived at home fully, there wouldn't be this issue. I don't wanna cause issues for my boyfriend's family, but then I don't want his dad to win. He hates when I come over & sleep in the same bed as Elliott. When we first started dating, he was like "YOU GUYS CAN'T HUG OR KISS IN FRONT OF YOUR LITTLE BROTHER, THAT'S JUST WRONG". Gah I just, idk why he's so filled with anger towards us.
I feel like bawling my eyes out every time I think about the situation??
Sir Takoya
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Wow. Someone finally responds to what I say. xD
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wth. What a homophob.
omg thats terrible im so sorry ):
i hope that he doesnt win..this is silly. and what if the kid decides hes not straight? who cares? its so silly how people think that kids will grow up to be one of "them" if they hang out with queer people. theyre fine with pushing labels on their kids and say they must be straight and cis, and then react terribly to the idea of their child being queer. or even having queer friends. i hope this kid stays with you guys because this is terrible. you two arent doing anything to him...
ugh i remember seeing a case where these grandparents took their daughters child with them because she was married to a trans guy. it was terrible.
i signed the first one but yeah it failed
though ive changed my mind on it a bit. i mean yeah im nb and i should be all excited about it but after reading some posts from other nb people ive kinda learned the downsides of it. i cant really sum it up well but they basically said that if the government knew we were nb we would probably just face more hardships?? idk. i mean its cool if other nb people wanna sign it but its mostly irrelevant to me because i dont really have an ID for anything
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All that Tumblr post reads to me is: Are these Tumblr nb people ever going to be happy? Like, seriously, it looks like they're trying to constantly find something else to complain about. First it's "the government won't recognize us." Now that people are taking steps to get the government to recognize them, they don't want it???
I'm honestly so over people who do stuff like that. Imo you should just keeping half-living with your boyfriend because then his little brother can actually grow up being MORE educated about the topic instead of being corrupted that anyone who isn't straight is unholy and disgusting. Haters are gonna hate, but whats most important is what you want and think
idk im split on it because like..even if there was an option i wouldnt be able to use it? and other nb people like they said wouldnt use it anyway because that could put them in more trouble
and most of nb people want it. its just that some dont like it. its very few that are against it
like idk . some dont like government and some do. i think the ones against it want more awareness of nb people, but they dont want it like this basically? because they dont trust the government for good reasons. theres more posts about it on their blog buuut yeah.
I seriously can't believe my eyes right now... I'm talking to my friend who doesn't believe in NB gender, and she's a MTF trans... I can't believe she can't understand how NB people feel. NB and trans are practically in the same boat, anyway... (non-cis)
She thinks NB is just "a bunch of teenagers who think they're some sort of special gender/sexuality", and that "people just need to live their lives and stop being insulted by EVERYTHING, and trying to change official rules to suit them"
I really am having a hard time even typing this right now
I just
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She thinks NB is just "a bunch of teenagers who think they're some sort of special gender/sexuality", and that "people just need to live their lives and stop being insulted by EVERYTHING, and trying to change official rules to suit them"
I really am having a hard time even typing this right now
I just
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awww. i dont know trans women who act like that because its mostly trans men who think non binary people are "special snowflakes" so theyre usually called truscum.
but nonbinary people have existed for ages and its sad to see other trans people pushing us down. i do get sad whenever i see truscum put down other trans people. ive seen trans men attack other (and usually younger) trans men because they dont "look trans". its really a shame :/ these people think they can dictate other peoples genders and say that theyre not trans and that theyre just confused or theyre doing it for attention. trans people shouldnt be putting each other down, they should stand together. but yeah your friend is pretty rude
Tbh i dont think Trans and Nonbinary are similar whatsoever really..
Personally, i plan to live in stealth as i should be able to pass without anyone ever knowing, therefore i fit into societies gender binary just fine, with no questions asked
I'm trans, and completely understanding of Nonbinary people but i still need so many terms explaining to me, as im just ignorant on the topic and know nothing, so dont really understand it? id love to be more informed
Also my assessment report came it said im 100% DSRM 5 lol, and i need to get my tests done asap
Your friend is ridiculous though, passing judgement when we face so much
Personally, i plan to live in stealth as i should be able to pass without anyone ever knowing, therefore i fit into societies gender binary just fine, with no questions asked
I'm trans, and completely understanding of Nonbinary people but i still need so many terms explaining to me, as im just ignorant on the topic and know nothing, so dont really understand it? id love to be more informed
Also my assessment report came it said im 100% DSRM 5 lol, and i need to get my tests done asap
Your friend is ridiculous though, passing judgement when we face so much
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1. they're pretty much just both non-cis, so that's what I meant by being in the same boat
2. "we"? my friend is trans as well
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what is DSRM 5 o.o
We? was implying your friend, i was saying she should understand as we all (the trans community) face judgement
I know what you mean, but i think in a way especially for trans people who pass, its easier to integrate into society as ill just live as a straight woman, whilst non binary people are always going to have that difficulty of not fully fitting in, asi ts just not understanded, and they cant live in stealth
And its like the highest classification of feeling Trans.. bit silly but still it helps me get treatment much quicker so whatever
Sir Takoya
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Tbh i dont think Trans and Nonbinary are similar whatsoever really..
Personally, i plan to live in stealth as i should be able to pass without anyone ever knowing, therefore i fit into societies gender binary just fine, with no questions asked
I'm trans, and completely understanding of Nonbinary people but i still need so many terms explaining to me, as im just ignorant on the topic and know nothing, so dont really understand it? id love to be more informed
Also my assessment report came it said im 100% DSRM 5 lol, and i need to get my tests done asap
Your friend is ridiculous though, passing judgement when we face so much
Wait...did you go chick or bro? I'm going to assume you went chick.
I've always been female...I think everyone thought I was male in this thread until I uploaded the chibi...hehe.
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I'm only 16, and only 5"5, and my voice hasnt broken or anything, so im doing gooood
Sir Takoya
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