LGBTQA - Discussion and support.

[Sir Takoya]

Errr tbh I don't like my hair because it's long I want like this

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And I don't like girly clothes... Is there somethings errr wrong with me? haha

There's nothing wrong with that. Girly clothes are disgustingly ugly. If I were you, I would run off with my own money and get the haircut myself.

 

[Gizmodo]

There's nothing wrong with that. Girly clothes are disgustingly ugly. If I were you, I would run off with my own money and get the haircut myself.

NO! boy clothes are uglyy
Girl clothes <333
lol

 

[Sir Takoya]

NO! boy clothes are uglyy
Girl clothes <333
lol

I hope you realize this means war.

 

[radical6]

i would just like to say, bi erasure is real and we need to combat it. go bisexuals! rid our society of bi erasure!

i agree!

i typically like feminine clothes but i dont want to wear them bc ppl will call me a "transtrender" or something sooo

 

[Sir Takoya]

i agree!

i typically like feminine clothes but i dont want to wear them bc ppl will call me a "transtrender" or something sooo

Oh, you're a guy then?

 

[radical6]

Oh, you're a guy then?

um..no?
transtrender means you're faking being trans. idk how you can fake being trans because why would anyone ever want to lie about their identity.. i never liked people who used this word because they probably think bisexuals are lying too.

 

[Zeiro]

i'm not brave enough to wear more feminine clothing

 

[Blockmayus]

Wow, "transtrender" is an actual word people use?!? Seriously?

I mean because it both asumes that "Transgeder people MUST wear the clothes that fit the gender role of the gender they identify with" (Because its not like trans people can live in situations in which just wearing one piece of clothing, not even hinting on the fact that they might be trans, would be enough to put them in danger.) and "Cisgender people who decide to wear clothes that go outside of their gender roles and expectations are just pretending to be trans" and thats just backwards thinking... dang.

Also tbh, if I wasnt so insecure (And terrfied of people realizing Im gay because of the backlash, specialy here in Mexico where I live) Id probably wear from jeans to skirts to dresses to literaly just anything possible and just go from black to blue to pink and all possible combinations in general, I just think clothes are really cool in general!

...

But that aint happening any time soon.

 

[radical6]

Wow, "transtrender" is an actual word people use?!? Seriously?

I mean because it both asumes that "Transgeder people MUST wear the clothes that fit the gender role of the gender they identify with" (Because its not like trans people can live in situations in which just wearing one piece of clothing, not even hinting on the fact that they might be trans, would be enough to put them in danger.) and "Cisgender people who decide to wear clothes that go outside of their gender roles and expectations are just pretending to be trans" and thats just backwards thinking... dang.

Also tbh, if I wasnt so insecure (And terrfied of people realizing Im gay because of the backlash, specialy here in Mexico where I live) Id probably wear from jeans to skirts to dresses to literaly just anything possible and just go from black to blue to pink and all possible combinations in general, I just think clothes are really cool in general!

...

But that aint happening any time soon.

i dont understand why anyone would fake being trans. why do these people think we want to do it for attention? no one wants to face transphobia for no reason. no one wants to lie about their identity so they can be hip and cool. just because some trans people don't fit in your little box of qualifications doesn't mean they're faking it ugh. i see trans men yell at younger trans men for being feminine, and TERFs accuse trans women lying about being women so they can date lesbians.. just how can you determine if someone is really trans?

im not scared about being open about my sexuality but im not sure how my state (i live in washington where gay marriage is legal) feels about gender.. i see kids at my school talk about gay rights all the time but they're still transphobic. im sorry that its homophobic over there.

 

[Blockmayus]

i dont understand why anyone would fake being trans. why do these people think we want to do it for attention? no one wants to face transphobia for no reason. no one wants to lie about their identity so they can be hip and cool. just because some trans people don't fit in your little box of qualifications doesn't mean they're faking it ugh. i see trans men yell at younger trans men for being feminine, and TERFs accuse trans women lying about being women so they can date lesbians.. just how can you determine if someone is really trans?

im not scared about being open about my sexuality but im not sure how my state (i live in washington where gay marriage is legal) feels about gender.. i see kids at my school talk about gay rights all the time but they're still transphobic. im sorry that its homophobic over there.

It all probably just goes back to the mindset some people have about anything that goes outside "Gender=Sex. There are straight people and gay-lesbian people. Bisexuals are just confused, everything else is just people trying to get attention, such special snowflakes they want to be!.". Just good ol hetero and cisnormativity that will sometimes aknowledge "Some weird blokes are into their own gender, whats up with them" without really caring too much and refuses to think any further than that.

Well, the cool thing is that at least I have enough friends around the internet who know all that stuff about me (And my best friend from here too) so its not like I have to hide it from everyone, I guess Im just "getting out of the closet" one lil step at a time as long as it feels safe to do. Hopefuly it will get better soon?

 

[Gizmodo]

I hope you realize this means war.

Yes, yes it does

 

[unravel]

There's nothing wrong with that. Girly clothes are disgustingly ugly. If I were you, I would run off with my own money and get the haircut myself.

So true and I think my parents and the school won't allow that kind of hairstyle which is sucks bro.

 

[Sir Takoya]

So true and I think my parents and the school won't allow that kind of hairstyle which is sucks bro.

School should allow that hair. There's nothing wrong with your own style.

 

[Gizmodo]

Telling more friends tomorroww yayy

 

[Princess Weeb]

NO! boy clothes are uglyy
Girl clothes <333
lol

yes
erryday
dressing up like a princess for life all the yes <3

actually I'm kinda torn because guys clothes are super comfy/girls clothes are fabulous
what do

 

[radical6]

my teacher called one of the (cis) boys a girl because he was standing in the girls line and some girls laughed and said "hey its a transexual!" and "its a (t slur here)" and i was just..so shocked. i mean why did you have to say that in front of me out of all the other places. they dont know im trans but i was pretty pissed off. im usually a very quiet kid but they kept saying it and i guess i just told them to shut the f up. of course they respond with "its just a joke!" and like... ugh. people didnt really expect that from me because im usually not that angry irl but i was pretty pissed off already when i heard it.

my friends looked at me and asked why i was upset. i just said it was transphobic but they didnt understand what that meant. the boy didnt say anything because well he didnt get it either. (i hope he doesnt think i said that because i wanted to defend him tho..i used to like him for a bit but that was pretty embarrassing)

 

[radical6]

hahahahaha i just came out to my mom hhhhhhhhhhh kill me
i hate everything so much WHY did my therapist think this was a good idea **** **** **** ****

 

[Zeiro]

hahahahaha i just came out to my mom hhhhhhhhhhh kill me
i hate everything so much WHY did my therapist think this was a good idea **** **** **** ****

oh my gosh, did everything go ok? are you ok?

 

[radical6]

oh my gosh, did everything go ok? are you ok?

my mom was crying when i told her during our therapist meeting im like why the **** are you crying ??? then after we left she locked me in my room and kept bugging me and asking me questions and kept saying **** like "in my mind..you will always be my daughter........ur not seriously like this right.....this is just hormones....." and then i got really fed up and we started arguing and now its ok i guess cuz shes like "i just want you to be a kid" im like ok ok whatever please stop talking to me about it now because that was a terrible idea. like she says she still needs time to accept it im like why is it soo hard to accept?? idk i regret telling her @_@

 

[Gnome]

...and i was just..so shocked. i mean why did you have to say that in front of me out of all the other places...

...because they didn't know you were transexual? Also they're in high school, so transphobia's not exactly high on their list of things to take note of.