KiloPatches
Senior Member
i just feel like what you're going through is going to happen to me some day and i cannot stand to see anyone suffer like this ):
I hope you don't wind up in my position. My father is stubborn, and my mother's death only hardened him. His drinking doesn't help either.
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I understand how you feel. My mother and father have been divorced for about 12 years and he doesn't pay my mother any child support and she is finally taking him to court. He doesn't care if I have school clothes, which my mother's boyfriend paid for since she couldn't afford to buy 2 girls clothes. He never talks to us, he's on our health care which MY MOTHER pays for, he doesn't even pay for our cell phones so we have no way to communicate with anybody if we were in trouble. I've never done drugs and everything, he used to be there for us but now it's like he doesn't exist. He's so selfish.
I am sorry to hear that. My Dad is fairly well off. He has a supped up car and a half-million dollar house. He has a girlfriend that he spends all his money on and he has made it perfectly clear that he has room for only one woman in his life and he chose her over me. Probably because he gets nothing out of loving me. Because he is selfish. At least loving her gets him something in return. Me, I am just an expense. A cost. Before he started dating, him and I started to bond a bit. He used to tell me he loved me. His girlfriend has the same name as me, so since he started dating her he stopped saying "I love you" to me because saying it to both of us sounds weird.