My boyfriend (now ex) broke up with me on New Years morning. It's been five days, and I'm still in shock. We're doing the whole 'no-contact' thing. In other words, I lost my boyfriend and best friend all in one day.
*Hugs*
I remember from previous posts of yours that things had been rough in your relationship. Wishing the best for you<33
Lots of people here that are more than willing to be a shoulder to cry (or scream, or whine, or whatever) on, including myself
What is bothering me?
My collectibles. It's petty, but why won't you arrange the way I want? Argh.
my friend comitted suicide and... I just don't know why. I found out at school and just been crying the whole day. It bothering me that I wasn't a good enough friend that they didn't talk to me which lead to this.
When a person gets into that mindset, it doesn't matter how wonderful the people around them are. I have a few people I can talk to about things, but sometimes just choose not to. A lot of the time I feel like I should be able to deal with things by myself, but even then the feeling of wanting to do something to myself to disappear creeps up.my friend comitted suicide and... I just don't know why. I found out at school and just been crying the whole day. It bothering me that I wasn't a good enough friend that they didn't talk to me which lead to this.
thanks. it was just really sudden for me.When a person gets into that mindset, it doesn't matter how wonderful the people around them are. I have a few people I can talk to about things, but sometimes just choose not to. A lot of the time I feel like I should be able to deal with things by myself, but even then the feeling of wanting to do something to myself to disappear creeps up.
I'm not them, obviously, but people deal with their depression in different ways. Some talk about it, others would rather keep it to themselves. They feel they're bothering the world enough as it is.
Do not blame yourself for their decision. Just remember them as they were, and be supportive of others affected by this situation.
I'm terribly sorry for your loss.