What's Bothering You?

[tae]

Sending positive vibes your way, lovely. <3 I felt the same way and am a total wuss about confrontation as well as possible rejection; thankfully my partner is impatient and straightforward otherwise we might not be together today bc shyness x shyness aaaah. x:

its just so damn hard to get a good hint out of them.
they're so well rounded and like, i don't know. i assume everyone is just being nice to me when they flirt but i think they're genuinely just being nice. its my dumb brain that wants to know its more than that. haha D:

 

[jiny]

man i really don’t wanna go back to school especially where i live. good thing i’m moving after freshman year :/ i’m so tired of the people at my school including my friends bc im 99% sure they don’t even really like me lol

 

[Zane]

feets is cold

 

[rianne]

its just so damn hard to get a good hint out of them.
they're so well rounded and like, i don't know. i assume everyone is just being nice to me when they flirt but i think they're genuinely just being nice. its my dumb brain that wants to know its more than that. haha D:

Owwie it's even worse when they're that type of person. ;_____; I mean yeah being well rounded and nice n all is a positive trait but in my experience, both firsthand and secondhand, it is indeed difficult to tell any ""out of the ordinary"" nicey-nice stuff as flirtatious stuff. I hope an opportunity does present itself and you gather that courage within yourself. Getting the ball rolling sooner than later can at least let you know where you guys stand. Being too passive can be so hurtful in the long term and you don't deserve such pain. D,:

 

[Alienfish]

got like no sleep and it's my day off there goes my plans ****

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I hate group texts too. I usually put my phone on airplane mode to block group texts so I don?t get so many alerts.

Yeah and I hate that on some phones you can't really opt out of them unless you text back the creator telling them off like okay whoever invented this go burn.

 

[RedTropicalPeachyFish]

you ever realize you have a really big crush on someone you talk to almost daily, but have zero way of bringing it up to them? so you just crush on them quietly, desperately trying to think of a way to test the waters? bc i'm dying man. send help.

But you don't need to bring it up?
When I get a crush on someone I don't bring it up, I haven't. Still, it gets there when it's supposed to be.
Personally, I love the time of just having crush. I don't really feel the need of being that way mutually. So when I happen to get talking with them it makes me happy. Or, even just seeing them doing good makes me happy. I guess, having crush secretly gives me a lot of happy without affecting anyone. Still, when we're supposed to be together, we get like that without confessing or anything. At least, to me it's been that way.

You loving someone is cute. Love of god bless you<3

 

[-Apples-]

I do not like the end of each out-of-town visits. Usually, when it comes to the end of something, one of the two is possibly true:

1. Time moves faster when you’re having fun.
2. The vacation or whatever may last a long time, but when it comes to the end, that’s it.

But I acknowledge that I can’t have fun forever.

 

[Raayzx]

The holidays got me sick. Starting 2019 with an oof

 

[Alienfish]

why is textile glue so expensive

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also why did i have to spill spicy taco sauce on my pants kjsdfhsjdkf.

 

[visibleghost]

not to be unepic but depression truly is a thing huh

 

[Psydye]

Stupid people.

 

[Alienfish]

a cd i will probably never get T_T

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I want to go play outside but it's so damn cold out rrrghhhhh

I hate winter

 

[tae]

But you don't need to bring it up?
When I get a crush on someone I don't bring it up, I haven't. Still, it gets there when it's supposed to be.
Personally, I love the time of just having crush. I don't really feel the need of being that way mutually. So when I happen to get talking with them it makes me happy. Or, even just seeing them doing good makes me happy. I guess, having crush secretly gives me a lot of happy without affecting anyone. Still, when we're supposed to be together, we get like that without confessing or anything. At least, to me it's been that way.

You loving someone is cute. Love of god bless you<3

i can kind of relate to this feeling of really enjoying having a crush and not saying anything...
but at the same time, part of me likes the idea of maybe eventually having more than just a crush.. like, i have no problem sitting in my feels right now, but they're coming to visit at the end on the month and again in febuary to hang out and i'm just, i don't wanna act a fool because i have this big stinking crush on them and don't know how to act normal. like i've been notorious lately for saying the stupidest **** in front of them and i mean they laughed and thought its cute and yadda yadda but i feel like in person i'm not going to be able to hide the fact that anytime they say anything to me or even look at me i'm going to blush like a middle school girl. i am not prepared for that kind of embarrassment. part of me would rather know its unrequited and just like, take a step back and stop trying to test the waters.. but man, crushes are so ****ing weird for me sometimes. i need an adult. i'm almost 25 and still don't understand how to crush normally.

 

[Bcat]

I was doing really well about exercising every day, but I fell off track over Christmas and gained a ton of weight and now I feel hopeless and depressed

 

[mogyay]

i can kind of relate to this feeling of really enjoying having a crush and not saying anything...
but at the same time, part of me likes the idea of maybe eventually having more than just a crush.. like, i have no problem sitting in my feels right now, but they're coming to visit at the end on the month and again in febuary to hang out and i'm just, i don't wanna act a fool because i have this big stinking crush on them and don't know how to act normal. like i've been notorious lately for saying the stupidest **** in front of them and i mean they laughed and thought its cute and yadda yadda but i feel like in person i'm not going to be able to hide the fact that anytime they say anything to me or even look at me i'm going to blush like a middle school girl. i am not prepared for that kind of embarrassment. part of me would rather know its unrequited and just like, take a step back and stop trying to test the waters.. but man, crushes are so ****ing weird for me sometimes. i need an adult. i'm almost 25 and still don't understand how to crush normally.

i feel like if they're visiting you just to hang out twice in such little time it might be a good sign! : ) + you're both middle 20s (well idk i'm assuming he is) it's awkward and uncomfortable but i think if you did explain how you feel and he didn't feel it back you could be both mature about the situation and still continue to be friends! (also speaking as ur friend who couldn't want u as u're perfection shaped in the form of a beautiful human and he is v lucky that u have such feelings for him and should be blessed)

i say you can try gauge how he feels when he's over and see if it's something you want to peruse!

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I was doing really well about exercising every day, but I fell off track over Christmas and gained a ton of weight and now I feel hopeless and depressed

babe i feel u! don't feel that way tho, there's nothing that can't be undone, just get yourself out the slump and go at it again, i gained 5 pounds from christmas and i feel so ugly but i know with enough determination i can work it off again. christmas is about having fun and not worrying about diets, don't put so much pressure on urself!

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i feel rude i said i think i'm ugly that i gained 5 pounds, ik i'm not ugly just bc i put on a little amount of weight and that's not a good outlook to have AT ALL, it's just my own problem with my own weight, realised that's such a toxic thing to say and i hate myself for it

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I still have part of my room I need to clean and I honestly don't feel like doing anything. Ugh where is my motivation at??

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Also I'm slowly but surely running out of tbt and honestly I gave no clue how I'm gonna make it back ugh

 

[Soigne]

feeling quite hopeless at the moment, mainly from my lack of interest in reading/literature as a whole now which is a huge issue because that’s what i’m majoring in !! hhhhh

 

[Flare]

Ugh I'm confused by what my mom's doctor said and not sure if he meant my mom's right kidney is fine or that he meant the kidney is completely dead. :/

Even dead at least he said she can live perfectly without it... still really nervous though.

 

[Bcat]

Smdh I try to healthy and order mixed veggies at Panda Express and they get my order wrong and give me fried rice instead