What's Bothering You?

[hestu]

@Stella-Io & Lady Timpani

Thank you both

 

[honeyaura]

Why do I feel betrayed... I know it wasn't on purpose, but this could've been handled better...

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just found out my uncle was in a really bad car accident. he ran into a semi and he might not make it. he has broken ribs, crushed vertebrae, brain bleeds... the list goes on. this is also the exact same way my dad died (car accident w/ a semi) almost 3 years ago and my uncle has a history of mental illness and suicide attempts so it's very possible this was a suicide attempt as well. hoping things turn around but it's not looking good. he is the only family member from my dad's side that was decent and kind and helpful to me and my siblings when my dad died and now he might die too. not sure who i can talk to. feeling very alone.

Wow, I'm so so sorry, hestu. This can't be easy. Wishing you all the best, for health and peace. <3

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Heey henstu, if you ever wanna chat hmu.
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Mad that my manager changed my schedule on me at last minute, DIDN'T TELL ME, which made me late for work today. This is the second or third time in an entire year of working there that I have been late, both times him changing the schedule without telling me. I should never be late, there is never a time for me to be late. Being late is the bane of my existence, it rocks me to the core of my very being. The first time he posted a ****ing 'rough schedule', like no, post the real one, don't **** with me like that. He has my cell number, so there's no reason for him to change it without telling me.

Spoiler: I know this is gonna turn into a rant, lemme shorten it for y'alls

This one bothers me particularly, because I was at work on Monday and I LOOKED at my paper version of the schedule which SAID I come in to work at 12noon today, Wed. I saw this on Monday. So sometime between Monday and Tuesday, he decides to be like 'nah, lemme change this that I've had up for a week' and changed it on me. Someone might be like 'take a chill pill, you were only late twice' but being late is like the worse thing for me, I have OCD-tendencies (I don't wanna say full on OCD cause it's not THAT bad) and being late goes with that.

So not only that, but he wrote in, not as part of the original schedule for me to work Saturday, which 1 he did not ask me if I could work Saturday, as I normally don't work weekends and 2 did not tell me I was working Saturday, he just ASSUMED I would be available. I actually have somethin to do that day, but with what limited hours I get, I mine as well go to work and rush myself later.

But don't worry cause I'll get treated like **** next week with one day. I can't really talk to him about it either cause he'll always have a rebuttal for somethin I say :/

This is sadly the very same thing my friend goes through with the manager's son. It is completely unfair and unprofessional for higher-ups to that, they're messing with people's time/lives.

 

[Stella-Io]

I'm so sorry.


How does the schedule there work? When I worked in the bakery they considered the printed schedule the "final" one, and nobody could suddenly make changes to it without notifying the worker.

I've just been feeling kind of lonely lately.

So, here's the dealio. It works like this:

Every Tuesday a new schedule is supposed to be posted -online- at 10pm. However, my manager doesn't always do that soo I check on like Wed, Thursday.

He then puts up the printed version of the schedule days and days later, and he told me the printed version is the final correct version. There have been errors with the online system displaying wrong days/times because it gets powered off/ restarted??? When he does post the paper schedule, IF he does, I check that everyday I go to work. But I don't go to work everyday, so I check it as often as I can. I take screenshots of my online schedule as well.

I check that paper schedule Monday, didn't go to work Tuesday, and went back to work Wed. So from Monday night after I went home for the day, and Tuesday when I wasn't there, he changed it in me. It was posted that I was to come in at 12pm for the longest time it could have been.

Also feel free to hmu, when I'm not being screwed over by work, I have lots of free time.

 

[Dawnpiplup]

just found out my uncle was in a really bad car accident. he ran into a semi and he might not make it. he has broken ribs, crushed vertebrae, brain bleeds... the list goes on. this is also the exact same way my dad died (car accident w/ a semi) almost 3 years ago and my uncle has a history of mental illness and suicide attempts so it's very possible this was a suicide attempt as well. hoping things turn around but it's not looking good. he is the only family member from my dad's side that was decent and kind and helpful to me and my siblings when my dad died and now he might die too. not sure who i can talk to. feeling very alone.

I'm sorry, I hope your uncle will be alright. If you want to talk, I'll be here. Wishing you the best. <3

 

[maple22]

I have a crappy computer mouse that loves to jump to certain corners of the screen... especially the upper right hand corner... and especially when I'm browsing the Internet

 

[Midoriya]

Nevermind, lol

 

[riummi]

ugh I'm seriously getting tired of always having to keep track of how much my bf plays LoL...Now it's not like I'm logging hours and keeping watch all the time, but he will always say he is tired and I know the reason is because of league. I worry about his grades since his courses require a lot of studying and effort but he always just "gets distracted" by another game. :\ It doesnt help that he joined the league team and decided to be on one of the actual teams. I'm happy he got to win his esports tournament but like, you've been away playing for a week and you come back home and continue to just play more? And when we hang out it's like, I don't get his full attention. It's always him reading his light novels or checking his phone again from his league team...He is actually addicted but obv he doesnt think so. He even promised me twice that he would take a few weeks break from it and then a few days later will just go straight back to playing it again.

 

[Millysaurusrexjr]

my face is bothering me right now. why can't they invent a pill that cures acne

 

[Psydye]

Think I'm getting a cold.

 

[Midoriya]

Nevermind, lol

 

[Dim]

Getting sick once again.

 

[Khaelis]

That the fact my Popeyes managed to get cold in the 5 minutes it took me to get home. ,_,

 

[Chris]

Lost my voice.

 

[Psydye]

Insomnia.

 

[Lady Timpani]

So, here's the dealio. It works like this:

Every Tuesday a new schedule is supposed to be posted -online- at 10pm. However, my manager doesn't always do that soo I check on like Wed, Thursday.

He then puts up the printed version of the schedule days and days later, and he told me the printed version is the final correct version. There have been errors with the online system displaying wrong days/times because it gets powered off/ restarted??? When he does post the paper schedule, IF he does, I check that everyday I go to work. But I don't go to work everyday, so I check it as often as I can. I take screenshots of my online schedule as well.

I check that paper schedule Monday, didn't go to work Tuesday, and went back to work Wed. So from Monday night after I went home for the day, and Tuesday when I wasn't there, he changed it in me. It was posted that I was to come in at 12pm for the longest time it could have been.

Also feel free to hmu, when I'm not being screwed over by work, I have lots of free time.

Ugh, that sucks, I?m sorry he?s taking advantage of you like that. :/ You?re losing hours that way, too.

And thanks, I appreciate it.

 

[Flare]

aaaaaAAAAAAAhhhh I'm getting annoyed by everything. Things are turning out so bad this is a huge mess. I really don't want to have to deal with this anymore I've already have enough things to be depressed and anxious about. I have a massive headache and have a heartache from all of this.

 

[Zane]

don't feel good. physically and emotionally

 

[ApolloJusticeAC]

we're so young, please dont rely on me to make your "depression" go away

stop thinking that relationships in middle school would last forever

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I've had a bad headache for about 7 hours now and nothing is gonna make it go away.


I also hate myself for being more lenient with my schoolwork than I used to be. I just got so tired of constantly stressing about getting perfect grades, and apparently that feeling wont ever leave me. My mom said im being too hard on myself but I just can't help getting mad when I expect to get an A and I get a B- instead

 

[princepoke]

im here are here, here, again yeah here
i feel like im running around in circles with essays and words i have to spit out for them
but ive already expended all of my linguistic ability

why cant they just interview me
please