Oof I feel this. I had a really great person I became friends with during a very trying time. Eventually it got to the point where it felt like they just didn't want to put the effort halfway into meeting anymore. But then when I looked into it I realized I was always the one initiating stuff and most times my memories of them were just about how much they flaked on me.looks like plans to see my girlfriend are falling through for the umpteenth time. i love her, but it's been 18 months, and i'm getting tired; it's always something on her end.
I used to worry about this a lot, but honestly a lot of my 'friends' flaked on me so much that I was still upset and disappointed. It does suck yeah, but I find just doing things on my own and doing what I want when I want has given me so much more happiness. That's not to say I don't or won't enjoy one's company, but don't let it consume you.My lack of irl friends. I want to be able to screw around with other kids my age, in person. I want to goof off at the mall or go see a movie or just have people to talk to at lunch lmao. God, this feels almost pathetic.
Oof I feel this. I had a really great person I became friends with during a very trying time. Eventually it got to the point where it felt like they just didn't want to put the effort halfway into meeting anymore. But then when I looked into it I realized I was always the one initiating stuff and most times my memories of them were just about how much they flaked on me.
I don't personally know about your relationship, so I'm not saying that to offer advice. Just that I know how frustrating that it is.
@-Lumi- and @Stella-Io Sorry to hear you're dealing with that. I've been having a bit of a sore throat and the such lately to. Those lozenges like Ricola do help temporarily. I've been taking at least one a day. I hope you both start feeling better!
I used to worry about this a lot, but honestly a lot of my 'friends' flaked on me so much that I was still upset and disappointed. It does suck yeah, but I find just doing things on my own and doing what I want when I want has given me so much more happiness. That's not to say I don't or won't enjoy one's company, but don't let it consume you.
This, and I don't really have time for doing all these things properly these days... Plus I have other stuff going on that I have/need/want to prioritize for good or badIt’s bothering me that I’m unable to participate in some of the tasks because I don’t own New Horizons anymore. It’s not really a big deal, but still.![]()
Dreams, man. Far too vivid. Gotta love regularly waking up confused and questioning what's real. Goes really well with an already questionable sleeping schedule.![]()