my mom claiming she treats all of us (her three kids) the same when she blatantly doesn't. the other week, she takes my sister shopping when asked; same day, she belittles me when i ask if she can make me soup because i was horribly ill with the usual, "oh, you're 23, you can do it yourself". today, i dare to ask if she can pick me up some drink while she's out shopping (£5's worth) even though i can't afford it at the moment, because i've admittedly done a lot of depression spending lately. she says no, she's not made of money, which, fair enough if she wasn't always buying my brother extra food, free of charge, paying for his phone bill every month, letting him eat all the food he pleases when he stops over, and also letting him use this place as a hangout without ever paying a cent. (he's 19, and unlike me, he's had two paying jobs lately. he screwed up the first one by constantly taking days off whenever he felt like it and quit the latest one just because he didn't feel like doing it.) i don't mention the £172 she currently owes me, or the money she borrowed years ago that i eventually wrote off, but £5's worth of drink is a big no-no. okay.