What's Bothering You?

[-Blue-]

ok so like the online friend i made a few days ago just blocked me on everything lol i didn’t even do anything wrong tho?? like i literally just went on my socials and i noticed i had lost followers on both my accs and i saw it was him :/

Yeah I saw your one comment from earlier today. It sounded like the red flags from the one friend I mentioned here that would just ghost me and flake on plans at the last second and or just not bother to tell me they couldn't make it (or most likely didn't bother/want to)

Sucks that happened and that you have to deal with that. It's hard to do so, but you are better off forgetting about them. Just like that one 'friend' of mine, they didn't give you any respect.

And it's honestly disgusting how much we have normalized that kind of behavior. Whenever I would see one of these kinds of situations on a forum or answer site of some sort there would be people always trying to defend it. It's like no...use communication and stop making excuses for being a bad 'friend'.


I'm sorry that you're going through that right now. It may not mean much, but you're not alone when it comes to this.

 

[a potato]

I keep trying to look for tutoring opportunities, but nothing is coming up on my profile. It really stinks because I have to sit at the computer instead of being more productive.

 

[Foreverfox]

I don't know if I'd say it's "bothering" me, but I'm very anxious/excited to hear back about something and I hope I get it.

 

[Millysaurusrexjr]

just annoyed at how long it took to get the color just right for my mom's business card. Even though I was working in CMYK in illustrator, every time I saved as a PDF the color would drastically change.

also i'm so cold!!

 

[Bloodflowers]

it’s not that hot here but the humidity is in the 90s, that’s just unnecessary
it’s more tolerable in the living room so i’m trying to sleep on the couch but it’s not very comfortable
central europe really needs to embrace air conditioning because fans aren’t enough anymore

 

[LuchaSloth]

I think I broke my foot like a month ago, and just...didn't realize when it happened, I guess.

I don't know. There is is no "event" that stands out as having done anything to my foot...and it's not in any sort of extreme pain. But, it has the strangest dull pain when I turn it a certain way, and it's just been like that for at least a month. I've sprained my ankle plenty of times...so I know it's not that kind of feeling. It's just really hard to explain. But...oh well. It really doesn't hurt that bad. I'm just intrigued by it. Lol.

 

[King koopa]

My neighbors are having a cookout (in the middle of the night) and their blasting music! At 12am! As much as I like music, even i wouldn't blast it in the middle of the night, waking everyone up!

 

[Shawna]

We had to get McDonald's for dinner because of a power outage preventing us from cooking dinner, and oh man, I'd forgotten how awful this food was?? After a large order of fries, I still feel like I haven't eaten anything, but also I feel vaguely sick now too, as a little bonus. Blegh.

I would have loved to trade with you. I love McDonald's!

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Anyway, my neighbors keep setting off firecrackers. I am trying to enjoy a quiet night, since I rarely get those (my brother is usually blasting music and talking amongst himself to his friends on XOBX during the night), but noooooo! My neighbors thought it would be cute to do this a day early. I kinda have to agree with with @-Lumi- about how only companies should be allowed to by fireworks, and how they should only set off at public displays.

And I am very jumpy too. Like, it will be all quiet, and all of a sudden...**BOOM** **BOOM **BOOM**

 

[Neb]

I’m really tired of being heckled whenever I wear a mask during my walks. Sometimes it’s nasty people I went to school with and other times it’s just nasty couples that dislike mask mandates. My noise cancelling headphones make it impossible to hear them now, but I still feel the glares…

 

[Dunquixote]

i’m feeling a little better. still bothered by so many things, but am honestly too mentally exhausted and don’t want to actively think about it.

Feel bad for not coming out much today and how I acted anxious when my family were doing some small fireworks for my nieces. i had a trade to do right at that time. thankfully the person I trade with understood and were patient. My sister and her husband are going home tomorrow but my nieces will be here a few more days I think.

 

[_Rainy_]

Never mind

 

[_Rainy_]

Doesn’t matter

 

[Chris]

@Vrisnem Yikes, that sounds painful about all those extra needles and the such. I read a comment of yours here about being too tired to get out of bed. I am guessing that is because of this. Hope you can feel better as quickly as possible.

I wish it was just tiredness! I've intense muscular pain in one calf and any movement makes it spasm. Today is the third or fourth day I've been mostly confined to my bed and I'm already bored out of my mind. Need to somehow make it to the local doctor's surgery tomorrow for more injections and I've no idea how that's going to work.

I think I broke my foot like a month ago, and just...didn't realize when it happened, I guess.

I don't know. There is is no "event" that stands out as having done anything to my foot...and it's not in any sort of extreme pain. But, it has the strangest dull pain when I turn it a certain way, and it's just been like that for at least a month. I've sprained my ankle plenty of times...so I know it's not that kind of feeling. It's just really hard to explain. But...oh well. It really doesn't hurt that bad. I'm just intrigued by it. Lol.

If you had broken a bone in your foot you would have been aware of it when it happened, if not shortly after. Even if it hadn't bled there would have been a noticeable immune response leading to heat, swelling, and pain. Even if it seems minor it's worth getting checked out. Dull aches can be indicative of a whole range of problems - some serious, some less serious. e.g. the arch of my right foot occasionally spasms when I'm trying to fall asleep at night and turns out that it was an indicator of a vitamin deficiency.

 

[-Lumi-]

Had a terrible dream. Sometimes I have weird dreams or slightly off dreams but that one was bad. I’m so tired it feels like I didnt sleep. And my shoulder still hurts. I’m just grumpy

 

[Alienfish]

me never learning not to eat fatty food combos ... and i'll not go into the details here but i slept for like max. 4 hours and rest was in the bathroom. LOL.

(feelin better now though but gdi lol)

 

[-Lumi-]

There’s been a miscommunication or something regarding my dads painkillers and it’s terrible. He’s been without his pain patches for two days and now he’s all out of his pills and it’s awful. He looks absolutely dreadful. I’m going to try calling the pharmacy and see if maybe they forgot to call us or if there’s something they can do. He won’t call because he says it’s pointless but I don’t know.

Edit: called the pharmacy and they were lovely! They’re going to refill his pills. I think they did get the script but didn’t know to fill it right away.

 

[oak]

The wildfires in British Columbia have caused the train rail tracks to stop so it's effecting my work. There's been no work since the middle of last week and idk if there will be any work this week. The people of Lytton have it way worse though, their whole entire town burned to the ground.

 

[-Lumi-]

The wildfires in British Columbia have caused the train rail tracks to stop so it's effecting my work. There's been no work since the middle of last week and idk if there will be any work this week. The people of Lytton have it way worse though, their whole entire town burned to the ground.

Oh I'm sorry, Oak. Hopefully you'll be able to get back to work soon. I heard about the fire in Lytton. God that heat wave was something else - I know out west is prone to wildfires in the summer but this was so early and that fire in Lytton was something else. Here's to hoping the rest of summer is easier.

 

[Dunquixote]

My dad’s anxiety makes him unbearable. I hate how he lashes out when my mom and I ask a question or if he thinks we sound the slightest bit annoyed even if we’re not, or idk something else he throws his hands in the air and huffs.

Firecrackers. Happy explosive happy go lucky day Independence day.

 

[King koopa]

Happy super loud, pointless fireworks day! For real, it's 8:37pm here, it's not even dark out yet, yet these neighbors are throwing fireworks like their about to get paid 10 million dollars if they annoy everyone on the street with loud fireworks