What's Bothering You?

[Shawna]

You can talk about your own infractions? Cool, I’m just glad they expire if you get a point, lol. I’d hate to have points built up over the course of a few months or years.

I feel you, I got in an infraction back in July for posting a song, in a song thread. It was because I didn’t put any text. However, I’ve seen a lot of posts with just a song link

 

[Gene.]

this headache I got I had so much left to do today, but I guess i can make time for a nap

 

[savanniebananie]

I was going to have spring conditioning for marching this afternoon, but it was canceled. I had everything prepared and was heading out the door when I got the text that it was canceled. it was a valid reason, however. I'm just frustrated that I was literally ready and excited to go for once and it gets canceled. :')

 

[duckvely]

took one of my math finals today and spent like 30 minutes stuck on one problem, just now realized what i was doing wrong >>

 

[Nefarious]

Trying to complete the series 5 amiibo set feels like how pulling one's teeth out would at the moment. Bought a card from someone in a FB group, they told me that it was a NA card, and what they sent was a EU/PAL instead; shot an interest offer to someone on there last night and once I came back from work right now, they already sold it to someone else. This is all just stressful as all hell. I hope Nintendo never does another stupid set where half of the cards are SP and only includes 1 in each pack.

 

[ZeldaCrossing64]

My step-mom is rummaging through my closet. Well, I think 'rummaging' is too nice of a word. She was going through my closet while I wasn't there. Now she's making me get rid of a bunch of stuff, including half of my plushies because I have "too much". It sucks that I have no say in this because I'm just a kid.
I wish she would let me do it myself, so I can choose what goes and what doesn't. And also because I don't wanna sit here while my step-mom says, "do we keep this?" then proceed to throw it away regardless of what I say.

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I have a headache now bc I was crying abt my cat earlier and it won't go away

 

[Neb]

My aunt is terminally ill and the stress has ruined my grades. I’m barely keeping up with the two classes I’m taking. My therapist offered to send the college a note to drop out for the term and I’m really tempted on doing it.

Also my therapist said that I should set boundaries with people so I’m less likely get flashbacks from that relationship. The problem is I don’t know how to establish those without sounding weird.

 

[-Mars-]

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[ZeldaCrossing64]

My step-mom was yelling at me and being really hurtful in general. I wanna cry right now, but knowing my luck she'll barge into my room or call me downstairs; If she sees me crying, she'll call me a baby and yell at me. God, she can be a real ***** sometimes.
I'm really forgetful and I need things repeated to me, and my family doesn't seem to realize that, so they get mad about it. I just wish they were more patient and understanding with me...

 

[Shawna]

I want to order a commission from someone on DeviantArt, but things are really complicated right now concerning her, and I do not want to upset a close friend of mine who was a victim of her back in 2019. ;-;

 

[Croconaw]

So a group of people at my job were making a nonsense tiktok video and they tried to get me involved. I said no and that I didn’t want any part of it. I find out today the people who were involved are in trouble. I guess I’m marked safe from this bull****.

 

[King koopa]

It's not much, but my dad might have covid. He got a test yesterday and the results didn't come back yet and I'm REALLY hoping it comes back negative so I don't miss school again. This would be the second time if it comes back positive (first time was in December of 2021). All of us have our vaccine and booster, but still

 

[KittenNoir]

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[daringred_]

crappy sleep T0T was totally wiped by 10PM, and i knew it was too early and i'd only wake up at 1AM, but i went to bed early. lo and behold, i'm up at 1AM and can't get back to sleep. ugggghhh why is my brain obsessed with being awake at night !!

 

[Croconaw]

I noticed that with all of my friendships, I seem to be putting more effort in than the other person. I wish I was better at keeping it more equal, but I’m not sure how I’d even go about that. I feel like I’m bothering people every time but I reach out them. Not all the time, but occasionally it does cross my time. Most of the time, it turns out to be okay and it was all in my head. I might just go to sleep and sleep this off.

 

[-Blue-]

crappy sleep T0T was totally wiped by 10PM, and i knew it was too early and i'd only wake up at 1AM, but i went to bed early. lo and behold, i'm up at 1AM and can't get back to sleep. ugggghhh why is my brain obsessed with being awake at night !!

I have the same problem. Not the exact time, but I need to fix my sleep schedule. You should definitely try to get at least 4-6 hours of sleep. 7-8 is ideal. I know with me it's going to take some time for my internal alarm clock to adjust to a better schedule. It doesn't happen overnight and may take a week or more for me to get used to 6-7 hours of sleep.

I noticed that with all of my friendships, I seem to be putting more effort in than the other person. I wish I was better at keeping it more equal, but I’m not sure how I’d even go about that. I feel like I’m bothering people every time but I reach out them. Not all the time, but occasionally it does cross my time. Most of the time, it turns out to be okay and it was all in my head. I might just go to sleep and sleep this off.

I feel this. With some of my friends if I didn't put as much effort in than nothing would happen and we'd never do anything. I eventually let some of them go since it was so one-sided and I always left with a negative feeling. Which should not be the case when spending time with someone you want to call your friend.

I'm sure your friends don't mind about helping you out, listening, and being there when you need it. That's what part of being a friend is also about.

 

[-Lumi-]

My legs are so itchy oh my goodness
Adjusting to shaving again is not going so well

 

[TurnipBell20]

I noticed that with all of my friendships, I seem to be putting more effort in than the other person. I wish I was better at keeping it more equal, but I’m not sure how I’d even go about that. I feel like I’m bothering people every time but I reach out them. Not all the time, but occasionally it does cross my time. Most of the time, it turns out to be okay and it was all in my head. I might just go to sleep and sleep this off.

I can relate. I realized at some point that I should just stop putting in too much effort, and wait for them to do something. If they reach out to me, good. If they don’t, they seemingly don’t want to spend time with me. I have a friend that I met some months ago, and I was her only friend in town for a while (she moved), but then she found other people she’s more interested in. She’s not showing any interest in me anymore, and so I stopped thinking about her and showing interest in her. I used to have a very one-sided friendship, and it ruined me at the time. I get attached to people quickly, so as soon as I notice the friendship is one-sided, I end it to not have trouble doing that later.

 

[frogslime]

I think current events are heightening my fear of pregnancy
Maybe my fear of something happening that would lead to that is irrational, but damn
Having parents that see stuff like that as "A gift from God" that someone has to make the most out of sure doesn't help lmao