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hey i hope im not interrupting, but i have question?
So, I don't have any attraction to women when they're sexualised by themselves. I feel... really nothing for them on their lonesome. But I can be aroused by lesbian porn. Not as much as regular porn, but I don't know why it is that I can enjoy two women enjoying each other to any capacity when I am almost disgusted by vaginas. Any suggestions?

Perhaps I'm just a voyeur in the nth degree/ I totally get off watching happy people having sex by experiencing it vicariously
omg aiyaah thats it isnt it
 
LanceTheTurtle said:
hey i hope im not interrupting, but i have question?
So, I don't have any attraction to women when they're sexualised by themselves. I feel... really nothing for them on their lonesome. But I can be aroused by lesbian porn. Not as much as regular porn, but I don't know why it is that I can enjoy two women enjoying each other to any capacity when I am almost disgusted by vaginas. Any suggestions?

Perhaps I'm just a voyeur in the nth degree/ I totally get off watching happy people having sex by experiencing it vicariously
omg aiyaah thats it isnt it
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Okay, well

A lot of people I've talked to have said that what you watch doesn't dictate your sexuality; I know many lesbians who like watching M/M stuff because it seems much more real than lesbian or even straight variations, among other reasons. Really, it could be because the women are enjoying themselves? If you're not attracted to women ordinarily, I'd say it's probably what you said: you just enjoy watching women enjoy themselves.
 
Lady Timpani said:
Okay, well

A lot of people I've talked to have said that what you watch doesn't dictate your sexuality; I know many lesbians who like watching M/M stuff because it seems much more real than lesbian or even straight variations, among other reasons. Really, it could be because the women are enjoying themselves? If you're not attracted to women ordinarily, I'd say it's probably what you said: you just enjoy watching women enjoy themselves.
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Well, that's probably true: I have a hard time believing that most furries would like to stick themselves inside of a real animal, and yet they get off to animalistic versions of people. I think perhaps the same logic applies. (Not that I'm comparing people to animals in any capacity!) Just because one facet of the sex turns you off does not necessarily entail complete repulsion. *nod*
lol I wonder if this might completely dissipate when I lose my virginity.
 
[7/19/2014 1:18:16 PM] Mango: im ****ing single
[7/19/2014 1:18:21 PM] Mango: does that matter
[7/19/2014 1:19:01 PM] King Vendrick: Eww
[7/19/2014 1:19:08 PM] King Vendrick: Why would you want a gril f
[7/19/2014 1:19:32 PM] Mango: im panromantic
[7/19/2014 1:19:41 PM] Mango: so it doesnt matter who i date
[7/19/2014 1:19:48 PM] Mango: to put it simply
[7/19/2014 1:19:53 PM] King Vendrick: I don't know what that means
[7/19/2014 1:19:58 PM] King Vendrick: Are you really confused
[7/19/2014 1:20:07 PM] Mango: im romantically attracted to humans in general
[7/19/2014 1:20:12 PM] King Vendrick: Did i **** up your sexuality by ruining your childhood?
[7/19/2014 1:20:20 PM] Mango: omg is this srs
[7/19/2014 1:20:31 PM] Mango: r we srsly talkong about this
[7/19/2014 1:20:36 PM] King Vendrick: Yeah
[7/19/2014 1:20:38 PM] King Vendrick: Lol
[7/19/2014 1:20:42 PM] King Vendrick: Yes we are.
[7/19/2014 1:20:52 PM] Mango: can you please give me a detailed reason on why you dont like gays?
[7/19/2014 1:21:00 PM] Mango: a detailed one
[7/19/2014 1:21:18 PM] King Vendrick: Did I say i don't like gays?
[7/19/2014 1:21:24 PM] King Vendrick: No
[7/19/2014 1:21:31 PM] King Vendrick: When you first talked to me in a while
[7/19/2014 1:21:32 PM] Mango: well, why you dont lile the pictures.
[7/19/2014 1:21:52 PM] King Vendrick: You said do you support gays
[7/19/2014 1:21:57 PM] King Vendrick: I said "I guess"
[7/19/2014 1:21:58 PM] Mango: i do
[7/19/2014 1:22:07 PM] King Vendrick: Because I don't like seeing people kissing
[7/19/2014 1:22:13 PM] Mango: im actually a semi gay myself
[7/19/2014 1:22:18 PM] King Vendrick: When theyre gay
[7/19/2014 1:22:23 PM] King Vendrick: Oh God
[7/19/2014 1:22:24 PM] King Vendrick: No
[7/19/2014 1:22:29 PM] King Vendrick: If you like gay people kissing
[7/19/2014 1:22:35 PM] King Vendrick: Its natural ur a gorl
[7/19/2014 1:22:37 PM] Mango: why do you not like it?
[7/19/2014 1:22:45 PM] King Vendrick: I like lesbo porn cause I'm a gut
[7/19/2014 1:22:48 PM] King Vendrick: *guy
[7/19/2014 1:22:54 PM] Mango: can i have a detailed as **** reason on it?
[7/19/2014 1:22:55 PM] King Vendrick: because I'm not gay.
[7/19/2014 1:23:35 PM] Mango: im gonna remove you as a contact, add me when you are mature enough to see two people of the same sex kissing
[7/19/2014 1:23:52 PM] King Vendrick: Ok, bye.

[7/19/2014 1:20:12 PM] King Vendrick: Did i **** up your sexuality by ruining your childhood?

[7/19/2014 1:22:37 PM] Mango: why do you not like it?
[7/19/2014 1:22:45 PM] King Vendrick: I like lesbo porn cause I'm a gut
[7/19/2014 1:22:48 PM] King Vendrick: *guy

DSDFHAFDDSFHFG THT GETS ME SO PISSED OFF
CAN YOU HELP ME
 
LanceTheTurtle said:
Well, that's probably true: I have a hard time believing that most furries would like to stick themselves inside of a real animal, and yet they get off to animalistic versions of people. I think perhaps the same logic applies. (Not that I'm comparing people to animals in any capacity!) Just because one facet of the sex turns you off does not necessarily entail complete repulsion. *nod*
lol I wonder if this might completely dissipate when I lose my virginity.
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So you mentioned virginity. Would two girls doing the do equal loss of virginity if only fingers was used? Like I feel to lose your virginity you need to have a guy to stick it.. idk I've asked my friends are we're all like ???? so maybe you'll be able to help lol.
Idk then we could get in the idea if giving/receiving a blow job would be considered loss of virginity ugh idfk help this whole idea of virginity confuses me. It is such a heterosexual based idea loll
 
My literal conversation with someone:

"Wait!, are you male or female?,, cause she is a female right?"

"I'm a female, and she is also a female."

"Well,, then i can tell you right now,, that is not love, at least not real love,, its most likely a strong desire... Of course two woman can love each other,, but the true love that completes and connects to beings in order to become one, like two pieces coming together, can only happen between a real man and a real woman,, and this is so rare to witness that even heteroseaxuals couples fail at loving each other.."

"tbh, I think you sound pretty ****ing moronic right now."
 
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neko-loverx3 said:
So you mentioned virginity. Would two girls doing the do equal loss of virginity if only fingers was used? Like I feel to lose your virginity you need to have a guy to stick it.. idk I've asked my friends are we're all like ???? so maybe you'll be able to help lol.
Idk then we could get in the idea if giving/receiving a blow job would be considered loss of virginity ugh idfk help this whole idea of virginity confuses me. It is such a heterosexual based idea loll
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The concept of virginity is different to different people. Some people will say it needs to be vaginal, that oral doesn't count, etc... I think that's silly though. To me it doesn't really make sense to call yourself a virgin if you've done any kind of sexual activity. Which activity it is doesn't matter.

oranges_ate_you said:
is anyone in this thread even gay? last time i looked in here it was straight women fighting.
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Uh yes I'm gay.

RetroT said:
My literal conversation with someone:

"Wait!, are you male or female?,, cause she is a female right?"

"I'm a female, and she is also a female."

"Well,, then i can tell you right now,, that is not love, at least not real love,, its most likely a strong desire... Of course two woman can love each other,, but the true love that completes and connects to beings in order to become one, like two pieces coming together, can only happen between a real man and a real woman,, and this is so rare to witness that even heteroseaxuals couples fail at loving each other.."

"tbh, I think you sound pretty ****ing moronic right now."
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Wow, what a load.
 
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Mango said:
[7/19/2014 1:18:16 PM] Mango: im ****ing single
[7/19/2014 1:18:21 PM] Mango: does that matter
[7/19/2014 1:19:01 PM] King Vendrick: Eww
[7/19/2014 1:19:08 PM] King Vendrick: Why would you want a gril f
[7/19/2014 1:19:32 PM] Mango: im panromantic
[7/19/2014 1:19:41 PM] Mango: so it doesnt matter who i date
[7/19/2014 1:19:48 PM] Mango: to put it simply
[7/19/2014 1:19:53 PM] King Vendrick: I don't know what that means
[7/19/2014 1:19:58 PM] King Vendrick: Are you really confused
[7/19/2014 1:20:07 PM] Mango: im romantically attracted to humans in general
[7/19/2014 1:20:12 PM] King Vendrick: Did i **** up your sexuality by ruining your childhood?
[7/19/2014 1:20:20 PM] Mango: omg is this srs
[7/19/2014 1:20:31 PM] Mango: r we srsly talkong about this
[7/19/2014 1:20:36 PM] King Vendrick: Yeah
[7/19/2014 1:20:38 PM] King Vendrick: Lol
[7/19/2014 1:20:42 PM] King Vendrick: Yes we are.
[7/19/2014 1:20:52 PM] Mango: can you please give me a detailed reason on why you dont like gays?
[7/19/2014 1:21:00 PM] Mango: a detailed one
[7/19/2014 1:21:18 PM] King Vendrick: Did I say i don't like gays?
[7/19/2014 1:21:24 PM] King Vendrick: No
[7/19/2014 1:21:31 PM] King Vendrick: When you first talked to me in a while
[7/19/2014 1:21:32 PM] Mango: well, why you dont lile the pictures.
[7/19/2014 1:21:52 PM] King Vendrick: You said do you support gays
[7/19/2014 1:21:57 PM] King Vendrick: I said "I guess"
[7/19/2014 1:21:58 PM] Mango: i do
[7/19/2014 1:22:07 PM] King Vendrick: Because I don't like seeing people kissing
[7/19/2014 1:22:13 PM] Mango: im actually a semi gay myself
[7/19/2014 1:22:18 PM] King Vendrick: When theyre gay
[7/19/2014 1:22:23 PM] King Vendrick: Oh God
[7/19/2014 1:22:24 PM] King Vendrick: No
[7/19/2014 1:22:29 PM] King Vendrick: If you like gay people kissing
[7/19/2014 1:22:35 PM] King Vendrick: Its natural ur a gorl
[7/19/2014 1:22:37 PM] Mango: why do you not like it?
[7/19/2014 1:22:45 PM] King Vendrick: I like lesbo porn cause I'm a gut
[7/19/2014 1:22:48 PM] King Vendrick: *guy
[7/19/2014 1:22:54 PM] Mango: can i have a detailed as **** reason on it?
[7/19/2014 1:22:55 PM] King Vendrick: because I'm not gay.
[7/19/2014 1:23:35 PM] Mango: im gonna remove you as a contact, add me when you are mature enough to see two people of the same sex kissing
[7/19/2014 1:23:52 PM] King Vendrick: Ok, bye.

[7/19/2014 1:20:12 PM] King Vendrick: Did i **** up your sexuality by ruining your childhood?

[7/19/2014 1:22:37 PM] Mango: why do you not like it?
[7/19/2014 1:22:45 PM] King Vendrick: I like lesbo porn cause I'm a gut
[7/19/2014 1:22:48 PM] King Vendrick: *guy

DSDFHAFDDSFHFG THT GETS ME SO PISSED OFF
CAN YOU HELP ME
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ew whoever that is is a loser
 
Small trigger warning for transgendered individuals:
photo-141.jpg

have you guys seen this disgusting ad posted in the star tribune?

What are your thoughts?
 
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I'm not transgender

But it hella pisses me off. There is a solid line between sex and gender. If you are a Girl born with Male parts then in my book you are a Girl. And the other way around. It absolutely disgusts me when I see things like this ad.
 
Can someone give me some advice here?

I'm a bisexual female and nobody knows, not any of my family or friends. I really don't think my family would react to it well, they pretend that they're okay with the lgbtqa community but I think they would look down on me if they knew I was bi. Since I'm living with my parents and brother at least for the next 11 months I don't want to cause tension. And my extended family is worse, the other day my uncle said "I'm not homophobic, but I wouldn't want to hang out with a gay person" (that sounds pretty homophobic to me!) Should I tell them or not?
 
Beachland said:
Can someone give me some advice here?

I'm a bisexual female and nobody knows, not any of my family or friends. I really don't think my family would react to it well, they pretend that they're okay with the lgbtqa community but I think they would look down on me if they knew I was bi. Since I'm living with my parents and brother at least for the next 11 months I don't want to cause tension. And my extended family is worse, the other day my uncle said "I'm not homophobic, but I wouldn't want to hang out with a gay person" (that sounds pretty homophobic to me!) Should I tell them or not?
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Even if you feel ready to come out, if you're not sure you'd be safe or comfortable after you do so, I wouldn't suggest it. Maybe after you're after that environment, but I wouldn't before.

- - - Post Merge - - -

Alice said:
Small trigger warning for transgendered individuals:
photo-141.jpg

have you guys seen this disgusting ad posted in the star tribune?

What are your thoughts?
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Yeah, this pisses me off. It targets trans people, while saying nothing about what it means to be a trans person. And it's perpetuating the idea that anyone in the lgbt community is a predator. It's simply disgusting, and the mindset that needs to stop.
 
Beachland said:
Can someone give me some advice here?

I'm a bisexual female and nobody knows, not any of my family or friends. I really don't think my family would react to it well, they pretend that they're okay with the lgbtqa community but I think they would look down on me if they knew I was bi. Since I'm living with my parents and brother at least for the next 11 months I don't want to cause tension. And my extended family is worse, the other day my uncle said "I'm not homophobic, but I wouldn't want to hang out with a gay person" (that sounds pretty homophobic to me!) Should I tell them or not?
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Only you can tell if the atmosphere is really right for it. I think if you're planning to move out in about a year then maybe it would be better to say it now, so that they have more time to accept the fact and come to terms with it. But it depends on how negatively you think they'll react. If they have very strong objections to it, such as religious ones, and can't get over it, then it might make the next year pretty difficult.
 
Oh hey awesome, a LGBTQIA+ thread. I'm aromantic asexual and genderfluid/agender. That's a lot of A-words, I'm glad to see some other ace people around here. My parents don't have a clue I'm not straight or a woman, but I like it that way. Too hard to explain it all, too much hassle and worry. I noticed apparently most people in the UK don't use the term 'queer', didn't know that. Then again I'm not exactly surrounded by other queer people unfortunately. All we have here is gay bars, which is great and all 'cause I've heard people there have a great time, but I'm not the kind of person who goes to nightclubs.
 
My dad saw my giant rainbow flag in my room and said. "Your not really On this path of destruction, are you?"
 
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