Everyone is different. Some people know at a young age (14 is young in my opinion) that they are queer, others need a few years longer. I came to realize my sexuality when I was 19 and I've met quite a lot of other people who also took that long to realize. And of course, there are always people who suddenly start questioning their sexuality in their 30s or 40s or even later. So this is different for everyone. I guess it's most common to realize one's sexuality during puberty though.
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Everyone is different. Some people know at a young age (14 is young in my opinion) that they are queer, others need a few years longer. I came to realize my sexuality when I was 19 and I've met quite a lot of other people who also took that long to realize. And of course, there are always people who suddenly start questioning their sexuality in their 30s or 40s or even later. So this is different for everyone. I guess it's most common to realize one's sexuality during puberty though.
Mahoushoujo
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im not sure if i undetstand what u mean? i think it doesnt matter what age you are when you find out youre gay (the post above me is good)CoolI identified a little over a year ago, just before I turned 14. In your opinion, is that young/old/average age to realise your sexuality just out of interest?
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about time america!!! took long enough -_- ... really embarassing for the states that stuck it out till the end
(those are states you should probably avoid alltogether ^^
but i'm happy it finally happened and hope more countries follow now..
if even ireland has gay marriage, there's really no excuse..
(those are states you should probably avoid alltogether ^^
but i'm happy it finally happened and hope more countries follow now..
if even ireland has gay marriage, there's really no excuse..
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yes, for now, but it's stil a long long way to go.
My state was one of them. Smh. SCOTUS wins today.
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pokedude729
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forgive me for asking, but what is a pansexual?
brutalitea
tae bae
I'm not a red state fan so I was planning on avoiding those states anyway! ;P
Attraction regardless of gender identity is how I understand it. To some people there's no difference between bi and pan but to others there is a difference. For example, I was accused of being transphobic for identifying as bi and not pan even though I said I would be totally fine with dating someone who is trans (and I have actually dated someone who is trans).
btw. Lush has a "gay is ok" soap now.. and the proceeds go to lgbt charities.. that is pretty awesome 'gay is ok' soap link
it's only ?4 too and looks neat
might get one later ^^
it's only ?4 too and looks neat
might get one later ^^
Dasbreenee
Crystal Gems!
The post above is correct. You basically don't care how someone identifies. You are willing to love any gender/sexuality.
TheCreeperHugz
Boop
Dang, now I want to go shopping >_< Thoigh then I'll go in the nearest lush shop intending to spend ?4 and end up coming out with ?15 worth of bath bombs or something too...
Dasbreenee
Crystal Gems!
I personally actually have a genuine question that may sound rude. But don't mean for it to.
But, I do have a boyfriend. But I feel like I've been someone questioning my sexuality lately. Though we've been together for over 3 years. I love him, and I do enjoy being with him intimately.
But at the same time, I've thought about it and I feel like I could love a female (I am female) but I just couldn't be with them intimately. I've also felt this way about transgenders. I have a close friend who is FtM and my friend dates him. Before she started dating him, I thought to myself that I could be with someone who is transgender, but not intimately. As for transsexual, if they were FtM transexual, I feel like I actually could be with them intimately because they are physically male. I'm sure this all sounds awful because I'm saying basically "I could never have sex with a girl" but obviously there are people who are asexual, who normally, in most cases, don't have sexual desires but do have love for the person they are with. Could what I'm explaining be some "branch" of asexual? Or am I just being odd?
Edit- just to add, I have kissed females and have no problem with it. It's just the intimate portion I feel would bother me. I suppose I would never know until I try, but I'm engaged XD
But, I do have a boyfriend. But I feel like I've been someone questioning my sexuality lately. Though we've been together for over 3 years. I love him, and I do enjoy being with him intimately.
But at the same time, I've thought about it and I feel like I could love a female (I am female) but I just couldn't be with them intimately. I've also felt this way about transgenders. I have a close friend who is FtM and my friend dates him. Before she started dating him, I thought to myself that I could be with someone who is transgender, but not intimately. As for transsexual, if they were FtM transexual, I feel like I actually could be with them intimately because they are physically male. I'm sure this all sounds awful because I'm saying basically "I could never have sex with a girl" but obviously there are people who are asexual, who normally, in most cases, don't have sexual desires but do have love for the person they are with. Could what I'm explaining be some "branch" of asexual? Or am I just being odd?
Edit- just to add, I have kissed females and have no problem with it. It's just the intimate portion I feel would bother me. I suppose I would never know until I try, but I'm engaged XD
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haha you can always just go with ?4 and nothing more to make sure you dont get tempted xD
kaitastrophe
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I know what LGBT means, but what is QA? Just askin'
Ghost Soda
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Queer and Alli/Asexual.
kaitastrophe
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nvm. too many people are getting offended by this comment.
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Ghost Soda
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Alrighty then...?
kaitastrophe
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i support gays though.
#lovewins
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