my friend came out to me as bisexual today. i'm glad she told me and that she felt comfortable doing so.
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Is there a word for somebody who could be in a romantic relationship with a woman, but only sexual with men? Because that's how I feel sometimes. The only problem is that sexuality is an important aspect of a relationship to me personally, so that sorta thing would probably not work. Nevertheless, I'm curious as to what somebody like that would be called, if anything.
it always good when they feel they can tell people stuff and they feel comfy to do it. i'm usually careful to whom i tell.. mostly because i have huge trust issues with people and need some time before i trust people with anything in geenral, not just personal stuff like this.
lol
I remember reading a post about how asexuals are oppressed and that sht was just the icing for the cake
Tumblr is sht
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Hetero-romantic homosexual or biromantic homosexual. (Idk if you also like guys romantically or not, sorry)
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yea.. that's another thing i guess.
i told a few friends that i know that i'm pansexual and stuff but yeah i would probably not tell my parents considering they can be judging and stereotype af.
The thing I hate about them mainly is that they believe they are special snowflakes just because they aren't straight/cis and that is more annoying than anything.
this, so much. also if you don't abide their every rule and act you're obviously "fake" or whatever.. smh
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wow, seems like some of you have had some pretty bad experiences with lgbtqai+ communities on tumblr.. ):
I have seen that kind of stuff too, but most blogs and other things I've seen have been really positive spaces that help people. I guess we've seen quite different blogs then ;;
I have seen that kind of stuff too, but most blogs and other things I've seen have been really positive spaces that help people. I guess we've seen quite different blogs then ;;
I've seen both, so yeah. There are positive spaces on there but they're rare.
It's annoying that tumblr is so bad about this becase tbh tumblr is the reason why I'm not still a super gross homophobe eternally in denial and depressed
They hate if you ask questions
The sensitivity there is so high tho?? One of the most cringe worthy blogs will be dearcispeople and similar blogs when you're pretty much downgraded or a bad person if you have a distinct genital preference, and instead should be willing to form a sexual relationship with anyone regardless whether you're into their specific genitals or not. I think this is ****ty for both parties because it means trying to force a sexually incompatible relationship just to make a show of appearing open-minded.
Relationships shouldn't just be about scoring some "oh like me" points but the fundlementals within in, it ain't all about sex~
The sensitivity there is so high tho?? One of the most cringe worthy blogs will be dearcispeople and similar blogs when you're pretty much downgraded or a bad person if you have a distinct genital preference, and instead should be willing to form a sexual relationship with anyone regardless whether you're into their specific genitals or not. I think this is ****ty for both parties because it means trying to force a sexually incompatible relationship just to make a show of appearing open-minded.
Relationships shouldn't just be about scoring some "oh like me" points but the fundlementals within in, it ain't all about sex~
Tbh I really don't get the demisexual negativity. I've been kinda using that label for at least 3 years now to describe my sexuality since I don't really know much, I know for sure I'm not sexual (I'm not sex repulsed) but Idk if I'm 100% asexual either. (Homoromantic) demisexuality just seemed right. The only thing I can say is that even if I form a bond with some guy I'm dating it doesn't guarantee I'm gonna feel anything sexual towards them. I know gray-asexual exists but I'm not really comfortable with that. Seeing so many people saying negative things about demisexuality or that it's not real just makes me question myself and it really sucks. Also personally, I like using labels for myself, which is why this sorta stresses me out. Saying I'm homosexual wouldn't be accurate at all and incredibly misleading but saying I'm asexual doesn't seem 100% right either. Maybe that's fine, though. I don't know.
Why should that be negative? I don't have the strongest sex drift either but I wouldn't judge anyone for having more or less. I can't say I'm asexual or demi though cause that'd be a bit wrong. I mean I don't mind woohoo once in a while but I'm not one who does it like every single time I see someone...
Nothing negative with whatever,
"it ain't all about sex~ " to quote Gamzee above.
Certain people in this thread have called it out as "bulls**t" so I think that's what AkiBear is referring to
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I think it's just because it seems like an unnecessary label. Most people tend to feel sexual attraction after romantic bonds, therefore, the label just seems useless.
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I wish that were the case for me, feeling sexual attraction after a romantic/emotional bond is formed, but it's always been a hit or miss for me. Usually always a miss.
Wow, that's rude
well.we all have different preferences.
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yeah, why should this be bs really?
for me it's kinda the other way, i'm not cheesy-romantic at all but if someone's wanna woohoo and i trust 'em sure.
The thing is, all these new "ace" labels are useless.
Its fine to say like "hey im demi" but ive seen actual people claim theyre "oppressed" for being demisexual
A lot of the world is demisexual, graysexual, whatever the **** they say now
**** these people created a sexuality for WANTING TO HAVE CHILDREN
its going too far
they **** a latin to english textbook and create new labels and its annoying. they call non asexual people dirty sex freaks. they are homophobic as **** too.
you can say "oh its just teenage special snowflakes" but one of these people is 29 and SPOKE AT HARVARD.
there are ACTUAL ADULTS pushing this bull**** and speaking at colleges and lecturing people on the stupidest **** ever
these people publish homophobic bull**** but disguise it as "asexual/bisexual positivity"
its disgusting as hell.
Its fine to say like "hey im demi" but ive seen actual people claim theyre "oppressed" for being demisexual
A lot of the world is demisexual, graysexual, whatever the **** they say now
**** these people created a sexuality for WANTING TO HAVE CHILDREN
its going too far
they **** a latin to english textbook and create new labels and its annoying. they call non asexual people dirty sex freaks. they are homophobic as **** too.
you can say "oh its just teenage special snowflakes" but one of these people is 29 and SPOKE AT HARVARD.
there are ACTUAL ADULTS pushing this bull**** and speaking at colleges and lecturing people on the stupidest **** ever
these people publish homophobic bull**** but disguise it as "asexual/bisexual positivity"
its disgusting as hell.
Oh, I get this. Thanks. I've definitely seen homophobic aces which drives me insane (and then they deny their homophobia), aces who **** on non asexuals; degrading them. Though I didn't know they were that bad since I don't ever browse through the community. That's really gross, though.
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I also definitely don't wanna be associated with those kind of people, and I understand now why other people don't wanna be either.
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