I don’t know how I haven’t posted this here and I hope it isn’t too adult for the site but I really hate being around people who are drinking.
Moreso after the last few months, if you’re doing more than a little sip, I am going away. It’s not fun seeing someone indulge that with my social preferences, and a lot of people will excuse it as just a little fun when they go have drinking nights, and I disapprove of drinking nights wholly.
Like, I’m asthmatic, and all of this is purely personal but I would rather hang around a smoker. This is of course assuming it’s just intermittent, but regardless they were always less offputting company.
Yes I hate it if you come up to me and tell me you got wasted like I should be excited for you, I hate how casually a drug like beer is treated, and
I will judge you if you get wasted. If you’re in private I don’t care as long as you’re safe, if it’s a couple sips I will be weary but not judge, but I don’t want to spend time with people celebrating inebriation as a casual social activity. There’s a time and place for it, really didn’t expect to be prudish like this growing up, but keep it away from me. The way people try to peer pressure you into it doesn’t help either. Taking inhibitors but acting so much better and cooler.
And I know this just sounds like a normal distaste for it, like if people are being rude or something but I have a relentless dislike for people drinking. This seriously factors into who I am willing to be friends with, the way smoking does for most people. Lots of us avoid smokers due to hygiene reasons I think and the mental effect of drinkers is just that dumbfounding for me…