I have another unpopular/controversial opinion that is HUGE for me and I've been thinking about it for years.
I've always absolutely hated the phrases, "it'll happen when it happens." Or, "let it happen" when people talk about love. Or try, "it'll happen when you least expect it."
BIG FAT NO!! Someone's who you're also interested in isn't just going to ask you out randomly. Maybe it happens sometimes, but very rarely actually.
Most of the time you have to make an actual effort and put yourself out there in order to find someone. I'm not saying it should be forced or anything, but it just bothers the crap out of me when people say the above phrases. Sure, it'll happen when it happens. It'll happen when the sun just explodes.
(By the way, I'm not salty because I am in a relationship, this is just something I've thought for a long time)