What’s your current opinion on this site?

Just want to address some more recent points that have been made + some recurring points!

On the AI ban, I am still firm on it being entirely possible. There are several communities that have banned the use of AI art entirely - Bulbagarden as someone mentioned, Flight Rising, and Chicken Smoothie are just a few examples. I don't think it should be an actual punishable offense unless 1) it is recurring or 2) it is used to deceive/scam other users, but it can be implemented similarly to the signature height limit - no formal warning, but removing the image(s) and giving the user a notification of the removal. Sure there isn't a ton of AI use here, but it does spike every event, especially when there's a reward for having a themed avatar/signature. If you want an artist-friendly community, there needs to be a firm stance against AI that isn't just limited to event entries.

I do have more to say about political discussion since there's still a belief that everything goes so long as discussion is "unaggressive". The issue with this mindset is it's just unrealistic and unfair to expect people to remain calm when someone is advocating for (or defending) taking away peoples rights, denying their existence, or other forms of oppression, regardless of how unaggressive they may be. I am not interested in hearing people justify why they disrespect me or my friends; it is not a pleasant experience to hear people say "love the sinner but hate the sin", or "I don't really believe trans people but I'll refer to them with the correct pronouns", or "I had a bad experience with a black person so now I'm scared of them", no matter how nice or innocuous it may seem it's still hurtful.

Things like sexuality, gender/gender expression, race, and body autonomy shouldn't be topics of debate to begin with, it's basic humanity. Aside from that, with all due respect chances are we've all heard every so-called argument against all of these topics by now and most of them come down to using religion as a scapegoat and/or pearlclutching over situations that don't actually exist, such as the very false idea that letting trans women into women's restrooms will "enable assault" (shocker - assaults have already been happening in women's restrooms for decades and it's from cisgender men, not trans women) or that abortion clinics are "mutilating babies".

It is very easy for people to advocate for letting everyone share their opinions and expecting everyone to remain calm and "civil" (a word that's basically become a RW dogwhistle which I know many of us have started to roll our eyes at) when they haven't experienced the same discrimination or they're part of privileged classes (cisgender, white, man, straight), so when discussing these topics and how to moderate them please try to put yourselves in the shoes of the most vulnerable people you can think of, who are already active targets of oppression, having to read posts that are against their freedom or mere existence in any form. There isn't a need to completely ban political discussion if there's a firm stance against bigotry of any kind.

Collectibles, collectible scarcity, and the TBT economy
I made a selling thread in January and reduced the prices a fair amount below what I’d seen them selling for previously or elsewhere, and I was able to sell (not all, but) much more than I expected. It makes sense to want to maximise the value of any collectibles sold, but I do think it’s worth considering reducing selling prices if you want to sell collectibles for TBT bells, since there continues to be some demand for them. Sometimes a collectible is worth more to us than selling, because we value it more than the TBT we'd receive for parting with it.

I know artificial scarcity has been mentioned in here. There was demand for re-releases of collectibles, and during 2024 we had re-releases of many collectibles, which has added to the pool of highly desirable collectibles like Star Fragments, Glow Wands, and certain eggs. I hope everyone can get the collectibles they want, though I do think that collectible scarcity (and particularly, having a range of collectibles with different rarities) adds to the collectible nature of them! I think 2024 was a pretty good year for re-releasing collectibles and generating TBT, since there were also a number of bell bonuses that presumably helped to generate TBT currency?
Suggesting that others sell (and buy) at a lower price has been attempted for years and years and sadly it's just not reasonable to expect it of everyone. Overall I've seen people are more lenient on tier 4-8 collectibles, which is great, but it still doesn't get people enough to buy higher tier, more sought out collectibles. People aren't going to be inspired to sell star wands for 5k just because they were asked politely, and frankly I don't expect them to nor can I really blame them.

Aside from that, there's the same handful of collectibles that have been rotting in everyone's selling threads for months or even a year+ so I don't think peoples' pricing is even the issue. It's that the economy sucks and has lead to certain collectibles being worth 10k and over. Artificial scarcity is fine to an extent but TBT has long surpassed that.

Rule enforcement
I saw there’s some concern about the consistency of rules being enforced. I think ultimately there are times when rules are very straightforward, and other times when instances are more nuanced. I don't have any experience with it, but I assume each instance has to be addressed on a case-by-case basis, and so it’s bound to look inconsistent at times. I’m sure at times when certain things are reported or incidents happen, the community doesn't necessarily get all of the information, in fairness to everyone involved. I’m not a perfect human, and I wouldn’t want to expect anyone else to be, regardless of whether they're a regular member or a staff member.
Of course everything is addressed on a case-by-case basis, however, rules still need to be enforced equally across the board.
Since you have no personal experience with it I'll use my own recent experience an example. Months ago during the mushroom event I got a warning for posting "I promise you guys you can find event-themed profile pictures without resorting to AI art" in What's Bothering You and despite thinking it was vague and encompassing enough since I saw several AI avatars, I got a warning for "posting about other members" because "Posting about other users [in What's Bothering You?], whether directly by name or indirectly, can result in hurt feelings" (quoted directly from the warning) and my post was deleted. Meanwhile I've reported other posts that were more clearly about individual or very specific members and no action was taken. There is someone who has repeatedly vagueposted about a server I'm a part of for years. Several users vent about their partners or exes who are members of the forum and it's fine. So where is the line drawn? There needs to be clarity and consistency.

Another instance of note was the 2023 Christmas fiasco. I hate to bring it up again but it's relevant here: one user had their entry removed from a favourites poll and everyone noticed, but others who broke the same rule wer dealt with quietly with their entries still left up to avoid people taking notice and targeting them. This was probably the most blatant instance of inconsistent rule enforcing I can think of, and despite several users pointing out the unfairness, staff defended their actions. Which brings me to another staffing issue that I've been hesitant to bring up but I will go further into in the next point - accountability.

Events
I’ll be honest that I don’t agree with asking to limit which staff should be able to host or judge art-based event tasks, as I think may have been suggested. I don’t think it’s feasible nor necessary. Regardless, just looking quickly, I’ll mention that I know at least eight of the staff are artists, so around half.

These events are all created for fun and to generate interactivity in the community, the prizes are virtual, and the events should hopefully not be taken too seriously! While not everyone has advanced knowledge of art, most of us can appreciate art, drawings, and craft for what we see of them. Sometimes event entries go to community polls, and they are voted on by both people who are very experienced and others who are very inexperienced with art, too.

If we don't want delegating certain staff to certain events, just loosen the "effort" requirements altogether. So long as someone did better than drawing a single square or something it should just be accepted for participation. A pickle with toothpicks in it won third place in an event years ago, keep that energy.

That being said, if someone suggested limiting which staff could host art events months ago I might have gone "I'm not necessarily against it, but why?", but after the whole effort debacle that started here and goes on for pages, I do think it's still worth considering. Sorry to sound like a broken record and sorry to now link it directly but after almost a month there still hasn't been any accountability, address, or apology for this, despite insulting several TBT members including all of the prominent artists on this forum. After a direct link like this is when I'd expect a staff member to jump in to say "Please take up issues with staffing in the Contact The Staff board", but as time has shown, having all issues with staff funneled into CTS rather than being able to have a public discussion only serves to further avoid change and accountability.

As someone who has been in the CTS board countless times, especially in the past: it genuinely feels like a pointless endeavour. You can try to be as informative and careful with your posts as you possibly can, but chances are the ultimatum you'll receive is "Here's why our actions were actually 100% correct. Also we will not be apologizing to anyone who felt hurt". Sometimes there's a "Looking back this might not have been the best action to take, but now it's too late because we already did it". There's just an overall refusal to go back on any decision or apologize to anybody, even if it would make the most sense or be beneficial for everyone involved. I really don't understand it, and aside from the right-wing enabling this is probably the biggest issue with TBT imo.
 
Another instance of note was the 2023 Christmas fiasco. I hate to bring it up again but it's relevant here: one user had their entry removed from a favourites poll and everyone noticed, but others who broke the same rule wer dealt with quietly with their entries still left up to avoid people taking notice and targeting them. This was probably the most blatant instance of inconsistent rule enforcing I can think of, and despite several users pointing out the unfairness, staff defended their actions. Which brings me to another staffing issue that I've been hesitant to bring up but I will go further into in the next point - accountability.
Honestly thank you for bringing this up! Just wanted to add from my own experience as well — I made a CTS a long while ago about a certain issue in an event which just… bothered me a lot, and I reported it because I felt staff had to know. I was half expecting nothing to be done, because again I don’t know where staff draws the line regarding these issues, but with the way staff doubled down on the 2023 Christmas fiasco I was also thinking something was to be done about my concern. Alas… nothing. Not a single reply, acknowlegement, or even reaction. Part of me wants to give the benefit of the doubt thinking maybe it wasn’t a big deal, but with the way the rules have been flimsy with more recent event entries it makes me wonder even more where they draw the line with each issue. At some point it got me thinking, does that mean staff is okay with said action? Is this action that bothered me greatly something staff will just condone? Or was something actually done about my concern but I was never informed? I dunno. It’s hard to make conclusions when you’re left on read. I don’t expect swift actions, nor do I expect them to detail to me their actions, but just any acknowledgment or a ‘noted’ would’ve been nice in the meantime. I never bumped the CTS again because I just assumed it was something staff would let slide (although I still personally won’t), or maybe they forgot about it. Again I dunno.

And just to add — I want to be as vague as possible, because I do not think the people involved are bad people. I don’t condone witchhunting or bringing to light an issue again and again when action has been taken and offenders take time to reflect on their actions and don’t repeat it again. I’m not above making mistakes or doing bad things, after all.

Of course it’s totally different when said offenders say or do things again and again that grind my gears (esp if it’s skirting around the rules on site and is not reprimanded enough imo).
 
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this is the first and last time i’m going to touch on this topic but i'll just say that becoming the poster child for the whole "2023 christmas fiasco" has seriously put an incredibly strong damper on my enjoyment on this site. i’ve fully accepted that what happened to me was entirely my fault and have processed and moved on from the punishment that followed after everything. i have taken a lot of time to reflect on choices i made and how things could have been different had i not gotten so ahead of myself. what i didn’t appreciate is a whole slew of behaviours that were listed out and felt were punishable were posted while the only available context for anyone passing by was that i was behind everything. you can say “these actions were done by many/separate people” but when you give an entire forum base a witch to hunt, they’ll do so. i’ve seen the messages, i’ve seen the indirect posts about me, different chats, people talking about me and certian users saying vile things about me, acting holier than thou, but to each their own and things are handled in certain ways i guess.

allowing some users to be protected by anonymity while not considering that maybe having one sole person be put to blame for everything to me didn’t feel like the best move but that’s just me and my perception. my understanding is that they didn’t want to have to remake the polls again and maybe protected people that way, but at what expense? what cost? me being put to blame for everything? i understand the importance of anonymity, i just never understood why that couldn't be extended to everyone, when it's very obvious what would have happen when you give the forum a single person to blame. maybe staff felt i deserved a harsher punishment for doing the same things that were being done by others, but it’s not really my place to speculate. i’ve tried to move on, tried showing up to things even though the anxiety, depression/sad feelings and fear of being hated still gnaws at me all the time. i’ve tried to have fun trying to make event entries that speak to me and are from the heart, but the pain from all this still carries on with me, even now. it’s not in my power to get anyone to stop bringing this situation up and i honestly didn’t even want to exert the energy to even post this because it really does feel like nothing matters anymore. writing this took a lot out of me and even now i'm still on the fence writing this because i genuinely don't see the benefit of even trying to stand up for myself. but seeing this be brought up again and again and again when everyone thinks it was me bribing or insidiously trying to take down someone else’s entry when i didn’t have anything to do with all that, has really taken a toll on me. i’m constantly questioning my participation in things around here cause i feel so incredibly hated by everyone, always doubting myself and feeling like friends and people i genuinely love despise me for a mistake i made.

i’d also ask that if this is something that created all these issues, for this long, that at the very least please amend the rules page and add it there. because it’s still not up there and that little small event reminder banner that runs alongside polls wasn’t there to save me from all this way back then when i checked.

i’m not looking for responses, quotes, @s or anything of the sort so please feel free to carry on
 
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