Would you rather have a partner who cheats on you or cheat on your partner?

[Twisterheart]

I'd rather have a partner who cheats

 

[Loriii]

Partner who cheats, I guess? So I won't feel or I'll feel less guilty. But it doesn't matter. If they cheat, I'll probably do the same. If I cheat, I'd say they're entitled to cheat if they want to, just to be fair XD

 

[Warszawa]

I'd rather be cheated on even though I'm certain it'd break me. I don't wanna be so low of a person as to cheat.

 

[Tao]

Depends on what is defined as "cheating." Is cheating flirting with another person? Giving meaningful gifts to another person? Spending time with another person? Comforting another person? Sleeping with another person? Thinking someone is more attractive than said person?.

Most would probably agree with kissing and above (unless it's an open relationship or something I guess)...Flirting could I guess, though that would depend on the people involved since people have usually different opinions on what exactly constitutes as that.

If somebody told me that spending time with somebody or just thinking somebody else is attractive was cheating, I would ask when they joined the 'thought police' and when they were given the power to dictate who I'm friends with. 'They' just sound controlling/abusive...I would cheat on them.

 

[tybalt_cake]

A partner who cheats on me

In the end , i will create alot of fake stuff and i will have my revenge on him for cheating on me

 

[p e p p e r]

how about neither... but i know there is no chance i'd ever cheat

 

[MayorNoodl]

Someone who cheats on me. I'd rather not stoop myself to that level. I mean. It'd suck but life goes on.

 

[pipty]

Cheat on my partner because alpha

 

[Becca617]

i'd rather have a partner that cheats. yes ill be upset and heartbroken but at least in the end i wouldn't be that nasty person to cheat. and if they felt guilty, i wouldn't feel guilt for the rest of my life if i cared about them. but then again, if you really cared about them, why would you cheat in the first place?

 

[Dawnpiplup]

Out of the two, I think I would rather be cheated on. I may be heartbroken because of it, but at least I won't have a guilty conscience.

 

[Nuclear Bingo]

I would do the cheating. Like I give a ****

 

[KaydeeKrunk]

A partner who cheats, I could never lower myself to cheating so I guess it'd just be better to get cheated on? Like both are awful, but if I didn't love someone enough to be faithful to them then I'd break up with them rather than cheat, and I guess getting cheated on would mean the same for them so at least the relationship would be ended even if it was in an awful way. :/

 

[Chicha]

Both are absolutely awful but I think I would rather get cheated on. I'm very against cheating. My dad cheated on my mom by getting together with another woman and had kids with her when I was a child. I don't blame the children at all because they had nothing to do with it but I judge the woman and my father even more. That pos even stole food we bought so he could give it to his other family. Ugh, it was a mess. People like that should rot.

I would not want to lower myself to that. It's such an ugly feeling and it sucks even more when children are involved.

 

[cIementine]

i think i'd rather emotionally suffer from being cheated on and eventually get over the pain but be stuck with trust issues and fear of loving again than feel the guilt of betraying a partner as well as the burden of secrecy and having to be careful around an unaware partner.

 

[visibleghost]

i dont want a partner ):

 

[Xara]

partner who cheats cause then i know they obviously aren't the one, and i can move on.