LGBTQA - Discussion and support.

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Just to clarify, the content on my MP3 player is proof of my sexuality. Lady Gaga everywhere. If that isn't gay, I don't know what is. And don't even get me started on the amount of yaoi I've got saved to this thing.
 
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You just casually compare homosexuality to swearing at, beating, and killing someone. Nice.

There should be some phrase or line in the bible that says keep your business to yourself. You're only harming lgbtqia+ people when you spout your ignorance.

However, to be on topic. I'm going to a lgbtqia+ meeting sort of thing in my town! I'm excited.
 
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You just casually compare homosexuality to swearing at, beating, and killing someone. Nice.

There should be some phrase or line in the bible that says keep your business to yourself. You're only harming lgbtqia+ people when you spout your ignorance.

However, to be on topic. I'm going to a lgbtqia+ meeting sort of thing in my town! I'm excited.

!!! have fun.
 
This is a sanctuary, not a place to put your two cents in Punchy.

Anyhow, straight ally. :) I'm so happy. My old professors (most of them new to the university 1-2 years) from my undergrad institution are really stepping up and helping the LGBTQA society there, which unfortunately faces a lot of backlash. They took all the members to see some of the cast members from OITNB. So jealous. Wish I was still there!
 
I am a femme-presenting queer trans non-binary two-spirit genderfluid, xe/xir/hir/xirself pronouns, pansexual, PoC (1/16th Native American), white-passing except for hijab, Muslim (convert), neuro-atypical (self-diagnosed aspergers), economically privileged, sex-positive, body-positive, vegan. I told my mom my true feelings last night and she got really mad at me and grounded me. What should I do?
 
I am a femme-presenting queer trans non-binary two-spirit genderfluid, xe/xir/hir/xirself pronouns, pansexual, PoC (1/16th Native American), white-passing except for hijab, Muslim (convert), neuro-atypical (self-diagnosed aspergers), economically privileged, sex-positive, body-positive, vegan. I told my mom my true feelings last night and she got really mad at me and grounded me. What should I do?

Perhaps vegetarian? I saw your banana bread recipe. LOVE banana bread! I want to try it out sometime next week.

Back on topic though. I'm sorry that your mother has reacted this way. I'm not sure if I can give great advice, but if you are in school perhaps you could find a support group? Even if you are out of school perhaps finding a support group would be great!

I hope someone is able to give you better advice. Two-spirited people are incredible, and I hope one day your mom realizes just how important and amazing you are! Perhaps you could show her some of the literature behind the history of the two-spirited identity of some Native American groups, and how they are embraced within society?
 
trundle why are you even here
i'm sorry Marmoset he's trolling you

probably both trolls but whts the point anymore
 
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lol'ing at dat troll

@R-Cookies, you could possibly be bisexual? whatever you feel comfortable identifying as, though, is what matters so you find what makes you comfortable :)

i guess i would just identify as hetero since im agender but i like men?

also @Bowie idk if you were joking or not, but saying "men's crotches" is transphobic cuz well... not all men have the same type of crotch, u kno what i mean? not trying to start anything but i just wanted to inform you.
 
also @Bowie idk if you were joking or not, but saying "men's crotches" is transphobic cuz well... not all men have the same type of crotch, u kno what i mean? not trying to start anything but i just wanted to inform you.
oh come on that is not transphobic
 
also @Bowie idk if you were joking or not, but saying "men's crotches" is transphobic cuz well... not all men have the same type of crotch, u kno what i mean? not trying to start anything but i just wanted to inform you.

I thought it might have been casually cissexist at first but thinking about it they didn't conflate any physical traits with being a man, they just said "men's crotches" which could mean the crotch of anybody who identifies as a man.
 
also @Bowie idk if you were joking or not, but saying "men's crotches" is transphobic cuz well... not all men have the same type of crotch, u kno what i mean? not trying to start anything but i just wanted to inform you.

Saying "crotches" doesn't refer to any specific genitalia, it just refers to that region.
 
hm yeah i guess so. it just came off that way to me, because ive experienced a LOT of people saying "oh im a lesbian i LOVE vaginas" or "im gay i LOVE penises" (implying only women have vaginas, and only men have penises) so i just assumed they used the word "crotch" in exchange for "penis".
but yeah sorry, like i said i don't mean to start anything, thats just the way it came off to me.
 
It's okay. c:
But keep in mind that some people are only attracted to cis people as well.
 
hm yeah i guess so. it just came off that way to me, because ive experienced a LOT of people saying "oh im a lesbian i LOVE vaginas" or "im gay i LOVE penises" (implying only women have vaginas, and only men have penises) so i just assumed they used the word "crotch" in exchange for "penis".
but yeah sorry, like i said i don't mean to start anything, thats just the way it came off to me.

Definitely know where you're coming from on that one, that subject always gets my hackles up too. :p

What a shame. It's sad that people think these types of issues are a joke.

Indeed, as an NDN I particularly don't appreciate people making fun of the term "two-spirit"..
 
What a shame. It's sad that people think these types of issues are a joke.

When it doesn't affect them, they think it's funny to poke at. It's quite annoying to deal with tbh because they think everyone else will know they're joking.
 
Well, I'm really only into guys who have always been guys. I mean, I've never been sexually attracted by anyone who wasn't, so that's all I can really base that on.
 
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I never really thought my psychiatrists took my dysphoria seriously but the doctor there finally diagnosed me with it. I'm hoping for some change now, but I don't see my doctor very often. It's going to be slow and tedious, but whatever it's better than nothing. My doctors are honestly quite nice and use they/them and try not to use my birthname when it's just the two of us. Someone pls buy me a binder tho.
 
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