What's Bothering You?

[Ananas Dragon]

My heel hurts

 

[Alienfish]

Debate/discussion people with no sense of perspective whatsoever and who desperately want to erase history as if things never existed. Sigh.

 

[Weiss Schnee]

The last two weeks have been rough. On my heart and my soul.

My best friends seizures have gotten more frequent. I'm worried about him constantly. I feel like nothing I do can help.

On the other side upsetting this guy I know has been scaring me. He's being pushy and emotionally abusive. He's in my circle of friends so I can't really escape him either. If anyones dealt with this before I'd really love some insight? I've expressed my worries to my friends but he's "one of the boys" and they don't take it serious.

 

[Alienfish]

mom being like anti doing vegetarian options like okay im not having that dish then

 

[Chris]

The last two weeks have been rough. On my heart and my soul.

My best friends seizures have gotten more frequent. I'm worried about him constantly. I feel like nothing I do can help.

On the other side upsetting this guy I know has been scaring me. He's being pushy and emotionally abusive. He's in my circle of friends so I can't really escape him either. If anyones dealt with this before I'd really love some insight? I've expressed my worries to my friends but he's "one of the boys" and they don't take it serious.

You're right regarding the seizures. There is nothing you can do to help. I understand that will come across as blunt, but try to remind yourself that his health isn't your responsibility. It requires a shift in mindset, but you'll be a lot happier in the long-run. It's unhealthy to worry constantly about someone else. He wouldn't want you to be worrying about him either.

With your other friend your two best options are:

• confront him
• stop being friends

If you think that his current behaviour is short-term, or the friendship is salvageable, then the first option would be better (given what you've said about him, via message would be better than face to face). Have him realise that you're no longer going to put up with being treated this way. If he thinks you're over-reacting, in the wrong, or doesn't care about your friendship then don't fight him on it; simply walk away. You know what his priorities are and you're not one of them.

If you don't think he is likely to change or that the friendship is worth continuing, I'd opt for the second option. You don't need that sort of negativity in your life and shouldn't be expected to have to put up with it just to please other people. Having mutual friends doesn't mean that the two of you need to be friends too. Be polite, hang out in a group, but don't spend time together or chat one-on-one.

 

[Weiss Schnee]

You're right regarding the seizures. There is nothing you can do to help. I understand that will come across as blunt, but try to remind yourself that his health isn't your responsibility. It requires a shift in mindset, but you'll be a lot happier in the long-run. It's unhealthy to worry constantly about someone else. He wouldn't want you to be worrying about him either.

With your other friend your two best options are:

• confront him
• stop being friends

If you think that his current behaviour is short-term, or the friendship is salvageable, then the first option would be better (given what you've said about him, via message would be better than face to face). Have him realise that you're no longer going to put up with being treated this way. If he thinks you're over-reacting, in the wrong, or doesn't care about your friendship then don't fight him on it; simply walk away. You know what his priorities are and you're not one of them.

If you don't think he is likely to change or that the friendship is worth continuing, I'd opt for the second option. You don't need that sort of negativity in your life and shouldn't be expected to have to put up with it just to please other people. Having mutual friends doesn't mean that the two of you need to be friends too. Be polite, hang out in a group, but don't spend time together or chat one-on-one.

You're right. I can't do anything to help his situation. I think I needed to hear that. He'll ask if he needs help. He know's I'll be there. I just gotta relax and stop thinking about it so much.

Edit: maybe I could PM you?

 

[Clock]

I wish time traveling was a thing, this year is too depressing for me sometimes...
Even though there is some consequences...

 

[Alienfish]

I wish time traveling was a thing, this year is too depressing for me sometimes...
Even though there is some consequences...

Tbf I'd rather end up with a bunch of weed at this rate...

Also mail company denying my stuff is in Sweden though Japan Post tracking says it is lol

 

[Seastar]

I... I just wanted to take a shower. I almost fainted in there? My legs are still weak after that...

 

[Your Local Wild Child]

I’ve always entertained the idea of getting a switch light so I can have an island of my own in NH. There’s so much that I want to do in this game that I can’t really do because I share an island with my family. I just brought it up with my mom, and she seems to be okay with it...but now I’m second guessing myself. Oy.

 

[winter notes]

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[Midoriya]

You know, today would be a pretty alright day if it weren’t for the fact that I’m sleep deprived.

Also just worried because it seems like my current friends are not doing well recently.

 

[Chris]

You're right. I can't do anything to help his situation. I think I needed to hear that. He'll ask if he needs help. He know's I'll be there. I just gotta relax and stop thinking about it so much.

Edit: maybe I could PM you?

You are more than welcome to PM me.

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I'm trying to catch a really fast deep sea creature and I can't because I'm afraid of it disappearing. So far it hasn't disappeared (I remember in NL if you were following a deep sea creature for too long it would just disappear) but I can't get close enough to it to catch it. I'm afraid if it goes near the beach then it will disappear.

 

[Chris]

I'm trying to catch a really fast deep sea creature and I can't because I'm afraid of it disappearing. So far it hasn't disappeared (I remember in NL if you were following a deep sea creature for too long it would just disappear) but I can't get close enough to it to catch it. I'm afraid if it goes near the beach then it will disappear.

Creep very slowly towards it on the surface of the water (like nudge the joy-con a tiny bit, then stay still, then do it again) until you're almost on top of it, dive, then press A in the direction you think it's going to move in. It can take a lot of attempts to pull it off, but it eventually works!

 

[xSuperMario64x]

Creep very slowly towards it on the surface of the water (like nudge the joy-con a tiny bit, then stay still, then do it again) until you're almost on top of it, dive, then press A in the direction you think it's going to move in. It can take a lot of attempts to pull it off, but it eventually works!

I had to look it up online but I literally was just now able to catch it.

It was a spider crab too so I'm p hyped about that

 

[spawnpoint]

Still a little sick, tired, and lonely waiting for my best friend to wake up

 

[Alienfish]

got that daddy shark song on my brain...

 

[Dawnpiplup]

I wish time traveling was a thing, this year is too depressing for me sometimes...
Even though there is some consequences...

Damn, you just reminded me of the "Back To The Future" series.

Also I gotta work on COLLEGE **** and stuff so hope i can get that doooonnnneee but my procrastinating ass lmfao also headaches pls stop

 

[dedenne]

i have no motivation to do anything