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****ing seagulls sounding like squeaky dog toys at large at 4 am... someone shoot them off please I need to sleep. Way worse than sore arm...
 
Pulled a muscle in my back and now I'm walking like an old man.

Outch. Hope it will soon be better!
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My wrists are getting worse and worse. I woke up crying from the pain. It's like they are broken and on fire during the night.
I must've moved so much around because of the pain, that even my fiancé woke up from it. He massaged them a bit, which helped
a tiny bit, but shortly after they were the same again.. even though I have something that is blocking the movement to make it less
painful.. ahhh >->
 
Man, it's complaining day for me, lol.

Well.. I asked my Mom if she can tell me if she's able to come or not, once my baby is born.. because you know.. I have to plan a bit, since there is the family of my fiancé visiting from 6h away, my brother + wife from 12h away and my Dad + wife from 13h away. Of course she wouldn't just tell me the f..reaking "No" word, that's too hard. She has to find the most stupid excuses to say "maybe, but can't tell yet".
Her best excuse so far is, that she's not vaccinated yet, but she has tons of health issues and it's super easy for her to get a appointement for the vaccine in her state, but noo.. better take it as excuse oh yeah and of course, because of her husband.. he's "too sick to take the long road".. weirdly enough he wasn't too sick to take the road to the wedding of my brother, which was pretty far away for them aswell.
I don't want to say the F-word, but yeah.. I will just think it. She's not welcome anymore now anyways. :)
 
I hate not getting replied to when the situation calls for a reply. Even if the reply delivers bad news, just reply. It's even worse when I know my message was seen. Note: this is not specifically referencing TBT. This is just in general.
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Man, it's complaining day for me, lol.

Well.. I asked my Mom if she can tell me if she's able to come or not, once my baby is born.. because you know.. I have to plan a bit, since there is the family of my fiancé visiting from 6h away, my brother + wife from 12h away and my Dad + wife from 13h away. Of course she wouldn't just tell me the f..reaking "No" word, that's too hard. She has to find the most stupid excuses to say "maybe, but can't tell yet".
Her best excuse so far is, that she's not vaccinated yet, but she has tons of health issues and it's super easy for her to get a appointement for the vaccine in her state, but noo.. better take it as excuse oh yeah and of course, because of her husband.. he's "too sick to take the long road".. weirdly enough he wasn't too sick to take the road to the wedding of my brother, which was pretty far away for them aswell.
I don't want to say the F-word, but yeah.. I will just think it. She's not welcome anymore now anyways. :)
I'm sorry to hear she's being like that. I can relate to this. When I was pregnant, we were planning our wedding and being out of town for our fetal surgery at the same time, as they were 3 days apart. My family took shifts coming to be with me in Philadelphia after surgery and when it came time for my mom's shift, she was like, "Oh I'm coming Tuesday instead of Monday because I don't want to stay in a hotel, I want to stay in Ronald McDonald House" (we didn't even know if we'd get in there yet) AND she was supposed to stay a week and stayed 18 hours. It honestly changed my relationship with her, even to this day, and Nicholas is about to be 2 years old.
 
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@ everyone: don't worry about complaining, you're totally allowed to do that here (as long as you're not hurting someone else)


honestly a bit worried about going home, I've come to realize in the last week that our house is as terrible as it is largely due to absolutely nobody there having any concept of boundaries. I've been reading up on it and learning what setting boundaries looks like, and boy have my folks at home got a lot to learn. if they think I'm gonna come home and be my same submissive self who takes everyone's **** and gets nothing in return then they don't know what's coming for them.
 
I need to get all four wisdom teeth removed but surgeries for them are postponed till September. I don’t want to have them taken out two at a time with just my mouth being numbed 😭
 
I need to get all four wisdom teeth removed but surgeries for them are postponed till September. I don’t want to have them taken out two at a time with just my mouth being numbed 😭
I had all of my wisdom teeth taken out 11 years ago (wow that is a long time). It wasn't too bad, the only thing was that you have to really make sure to keep the holes clean of food until they heal. I got like, a clear bottle with a pointed tip and squeezed it like a squirt gun at them. It'll feel odd at first, but you'll get used to it! Hope this helps!
 
I had all of my wisdom teeth taken out 11 years ago (wow that is a long time). It wasn't too bad, the only thing was that you have to really make sure to keep the holes clean of food until they heal. I got like, a clear bottle with a pointed tip and squeezed it like a squirt gun at them. It'll feel odd at first, but you'll get used to it! Hope this helps!

I’m nervous for the actual extraction part! I don’t do very well with dentists as is and I’ve never had a tooth removed before, let alone three impacted ones. I don’t really love the idea of being awake and like. Hearing & seeing them work on my teeth, lol. Plus with the two at a time it takes twice as long since I need to wait three weeks between the extractions 😔

I’m super sad about not only needing all of them removed but I can’t even do it the way I’d be more comfortable with due to covid and everything. Which in the grand scheme of things I know covid & other surgeries take priority over wisdom teeth but I’m just still sad.
 
I’m nervous for the actual extraction part! I don’t do very well with dentists as is and I’ve never had a tooth removed before, let alone three impacted ones. I don’t really love the idea of being awake and like. Hearing & seeing them work on my teeth, lol. Plus with the two at a time it takes twice as long since I need to wait three weeks between the extractions 😔

I’m super sad about not only needing all of them removed but I can’t even do it the way I’d be more comfortable with due to covid and everything. Which in the grand scheme of things I know covid & other surgeries take priority over wisdom teeth but I’m just still sad.
Ohh no! I thought you were able to end up doing them all at once but sedated! I can totally understand not wanting to be awake for them, I wouldn't want to either! Ugh, I'm so sorry. Hopefully it goes better than you're anticipating! 💜
 
Ohh no! I thought you were able to end up doing them all at once but sedated! I can totally understand not wanting to be awake for them, I wouldn't want to either! Ugh, I'm so sorry. Hopefully it goes better than you're anticipating! 💜

I might try to wait it out and see if I can get it done sedated - I’m hoping that things will continue to ease off regarding covid so maybe they’ll be able to do the sedation & four extractions in August vs September. But if they start getting painful I might have to get them extracted the other way 😭

Thank you for being so sweet though!
 
I’ve been so up and down with my mood lately, I’m surprised people still talk to me.
 
I still love my two best friends but we've grown apart significantly in the last 3-4 years due to all of us being really busy with school and projects. I just sort of miss them & realize I've been a little lonely recently lmao & I don't know how to fix that. I wish I were better at making friends
 
I was talking to someone and they lost interest in talking to me while I was telling them something important and the thing is is that I’d rather just be alone rn than to ease my anxiety about the situation than talking to them about it.

I’m so sorry if that was me! I didn’t lose interest :(; I just don’t want to force my angry feelings on you about something.

I am worried and also just wish something I am trying to ignore would go away.
 
Colored pencils smeared on this drawing I’m doing for a contest in the museum. I’m sad because everything looks pretty good except her hands and skin look awful. :/ I don’t think I was going to win anyways which isn’t a big deal but sucks that the hands look so obviously badly colored 😔. And there is some smears on the shirt too :/
 
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I’m so sorry if that was me! I didn’t lose interest :(; I just don’t want to force my angry feelings on you about something.

I am worried and also just wish something I am trying to ignore would go away.
You’re fine, it wasn’t about you friend no worries and I understand.
 
left my jacket at work & i have to see my hr rep for something and she wasn’t there today !!! gonna go tomorrow even though i don’t work
she wasn't there today either...... i work tomorrow so...... i guess maybe she'll be there then.
 
Oh my God can my neighbours not having a ****ing fire? It’s been 30 degrees all day and it’s just starting to cool down (see: it’s 26 degrees) so they’re getting ready to have a fire.

I can’t stand it. It’s not like they have a small little bonfire to roast marshmallows. It’s this huge ordeal with so much smoke because God only know what they burn and they have it going for hours. I’m so frustrated.
 
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