What's Bothering You?

[xSuperMario64x]

I figured as much but we've already talked to the vet once abt her and since she had roundworm they gave her meds to get rid of it. I think that took care of it, yet here she still is acting out. I guess I'll have to take her in to have her checked out.
(which sucks bc the base price for a vet bill is over $50 and I'm positive the final bill would end up being a lot more, but I just want her to feel better and not do this anymore)

update on this, I called the vet and luckily there was a cancelation today so I'm gonna take her there in about 2 hours. really hoping the vet can help her out bc I'm sure she doesn't feel well at all and I feel bad for her but I'm also tired of picking up after her constantly.

Post automatically merged: Dec 22, 2022

My sister is also struggling with her ADHD in this way, I sympathize, friend. Try to prioritize the important things, like taking care of your body. I know it can be very hard

I didn't expect a response but I really do appreciate it, it's gotten a bit better today but still a struggle for me. I just feel bad when my dad complains abt our living room not being swept, or the litter boxes needing cleaned, or the kitchen being a mess. it makes me feel like I'm somehow not trying hard enough. like I'm really just doing my best, and I'm trying not to drive myself crazy and push myself past my limits. I'm prob gonna get in contact w a local psychiatrist here soon to see if they can do a re-evalustion for me. (since the last one, where they diagnosed me with autism/ADHD/OCD among other things, was when I was 12 years old I think? so 11 years ago.)

 

[moonbyu]

i have no drive, nor ambition, nor aspirations... i feel like this is very bad.

 

[oak]

My neighbours 2 cats have been at my house since the start of December. She was letting them stay outside all night in the snow which is why I brought them inside my place even though one of the cats Juice is mean af. No one can pet him or go near him or else he hisses & will even chase you to swat you lmao. He stays in the second bedroom. Even if you say his name "hello Mr Juice" he will start to low growl. Good thing I love mean cats. The neighbour said she would come get them this week so let's see if she sticks to her word.

 

[ZeldaCrossing64]

Just generally in a bad mood right now and pissed at my family. Also stressed and unmotivated 'cause I have so much schoolwork piled up and I'm gonna have to work on it during my holiday break.

Spoiler: TW for violence, war, gore, death, etc.

We saw a movie about war in history today and it was so hard to watch. War is already a heavy topic to start with, but the movie was also very violent and gory (stuff I'm sensitive to). It was so upsetting my best friend started crying as soon as we left the class.
This is not the first time something like this happened. Last week we saw a documentary about the Triangle Fire in 1911, and that was hard to watch too because we saw images and footage of burnt bodies. Worst of all, the teacher didn't give us any trigger warnings for either films.

 

[jiny]

work tested my patience today and it just made me in a horrible mood working in customer service is so !!!! some people are just so ???

 

[-Mars-]

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[jiny]

nausea prevented me from doing anything today

 

[Millysaurusrexjr]

deleted. problem solved

 

[Clock]

Hate it when customers don't separate their stuff from the others

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I made myself something for lunch earlier and I ended up lying down and eventually falling asleep shortly after, because pretty much every time I eat (enough to feel not hungry anymore) I feel nauseated. this has been going on for quite a while and I don't really know what's causing it.

just out of curiosity I looked up what certain things can cause someone to almost always feel sick after eating, and one of the factors was stress and anxiety. huh, who would've guessed?

 

[Xara]

i loveeee my parents getting into a fight literally 2 days before christmas. they fought earlier this week as well, but they seemed to move past it, so i thought we’d be fine, but nope! and of course they want to take their bad moods out on me as well! merry christmas!

i wish they would act their ages for once. their argument resolution of “give each other the silent treatment for a few days and then move on like the fight never happened until the next one” is so draining... i want out of this house so bad, they’re killing me lol.

 

[Aniko]

i loveeee my parents getting into a fight literally 2 days before christmas. they fought earlier this week as well, but they seemed to move past it, so i thought we’d be fine, but nope! and of course they want to take their bad moods out on me as well! merry christmas!

i wish they would act their ages for once. their argument resolution of “give each other the silent treatment for a few days and then move on like the fight never happened until the next one” is so draining... i want out of this house so bad, they’re killing me lol.

In my family it's not Christmas if nobody fight lol, one of the reasons I dislike holidays. Just this morning my mom was yelling at me because I moved the Christmas lights a little to watch the storm outside while the rest of the family was singing "It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas" because it's not Christmas without my mom yelling at everybody. She even started a fight with my cousins on facebook a few days ago and then complained that nobody talks about things like politics and religions at the Christmas party. Are you kidding me? It would be nice if we could just enjoy the holidays without drama.

Post automatically merged: Dec 23, 2022

What is bothering me right now is power outages when I'm working on my TBT projects

 

[Neb]

I believe I already talked about this on here before, but my college friend has treated me like an ex for months even though we were never in a relationship and it bothers me. We started talking around the start of the year when all of a sudden she started asking me to go to events with her. I thought maybe the friendship was finally becoming less superficial, so I said yes, but I had to cancel because of my living situation. This happened several times. Even after saying I couldn't meet up because I was staying in another part of the state she still kept asking for in person meetings. I did have a crush on her at the time, but I just didn't have the option to do anything. I was stuck in my awful old town for several weeks because one of my moms was having surgery and I couldn't do anything about it. One day she says we needed to talk over the phone. I was busy with other things, so I put it off by an hour. Once I said I was ready she said "sorry, I just broke up with my partner." After that she quit liking my posts on social media and stopped asking for meetups. Now that I was home I kept trying to initiate them since I wanted to keep the friendship going. She was always "busy" even though she was still posting stuff with her other friends. If I brought it up she would (and still does) ghost me until I change the subject. If I don't reply for more than a day on the other hand she spams memes until I do. Whenever I mention being interested in someone else she either changes her Discord status to about being upset or posts angsty memes on Instagram. One night last month she called me at 3:45 a.m. without warning. When I didn't answer because I was half asleep she replied "pog, go off." I offered to call in the morning instead, but she wouldn't do it. The one time she did offer to meet up was when I mentioned getting a tattoo and she said "let me know when you're coming back." She seems to have changed her mind because when I brought it up again she ghosted me for a few days. Apparently this whole debacle has gone around campus because I've had other students gossip about it while I walked by. One barista at the campus' Starbucks flat out refused to serve me because of the whole thing. The other baristas would gossip to each other every time I went in saying "I would've blocked him by now." I know I have several stalkers who keep track of my every move online, but this is just ridiculous.

I've had no interest in this friend for months and I'm tired of having this drama. I wish she would communicate directly instead of treating me like an ex and I wish my classmates would quit gossiping about it. I wish she wouldn't ghost me when I try to talk about it. I wish she wouldn't get aggressive when I forget to respond within 48 hours. I wish I didn't have to hide my social life because she freaks out whenever she finds out I'm interested in someone else. There was mutual interest, but it never went anywhere. My living situation got in the way and there was never any sort of confession. People don't magically enter relationships after asking someone out and the other person saying yes. There has to be a mutual agreement that is said between every party. I'm still in this friendship because she can be fun to talk to sometimes. The last time I posted about this drama on here someone said it was obvious I'm in the backburn and only there when she gets lonely. A part of me thinks this is true. I honestly feel like I'm being used and that my feelings are never being considered. Has anyone else had a similar situation to this? I feel really alone about it.

 

[Dwayne Johnson]

I believe I already talked about this on here before, but my college friend has treated me like an ex for months even though we were never in a relationship and it bothers me. We started talking around the start of the year when all of a sudden she started asking me to go to events with her. I thought maybe the friendship was finally becoming less superficial, so I said yes, but I had to cancel because of my living situation. This happened several times. Even after saying I couldn't meet up because I was staying in another part of the state she still kept asking for in person meetings. I did have a crush on her at the time, but I just didn't have the option to do anything. I was stuck in my awful old town for several weeks because one of my moms was having surgery and I couldn't do anything about it. One day she says we needed to talk over the phone. I was busy with other things, so I put it off by an hour. Once I said I was ready she said "sorry, I just broke up with my partner." After that she quit liking my posts on social media and stopped asking for meetups. Now that I was home I kept trying to initiate them since I wanted to keep the friendship going. She was always "busy" even though she was still posting stuff with her other friends. If I brought it up she would (and still does) ghost me until I change the subject. If I don't reply for more than a day on the other hand she spams memes until I do. Whenever I mention being interested in someone else she either changes her Discord status to about being upset or posts angsty memes on Instagram. One night last month she called me at 3:45 a.m. without warning. When I didn't answer because I was half asleep she replied "pog, go off." I offered to call in the morning instead, but she wouldn't do it. The one time she did offer to meet up was when I mentioned getting a tattoo and she said "let me know when you're coming back." She seems to have changed her mind because when I brought it up again she ghosted me for a few days. Apparently this whole debacle has gone around campus because I've had other students gossip about it while I walked by. One barista at the campus' Starbucks flat out refused to serve me because of the whole thing. The other baristas would gossip to each other every time I went in saying "I would've blocked him by now." I know I have several stalkers who keep track of my every move online, but this is just ridiculous.

I've had no interest in this friend for months and I'm tired of having this drama. I wish she would communicate directly instead of treating me like an ex and I wish my classmates would quit gossiping about it. I wish she wouldn't ghost me when I try to talk about it. I wish she wouldn't get aggressive when I forget to respond within 48 hours. I wish I didn't have to hide my social life because she freaks out whenever she finds out I'm interested in someone else. There was mutual interest, but it never went anywhere. My living situation got in the way and there was never any sort of confession. People don't magically enter relationships after asking someone out and the other person saying yes. There has to be a mutual agreement that is said between every party. I'm still in this friendship because she can be fun to talk to sometimes. The last time I posted about this drama on here someone said it was obvious I'm in the backburn and only there when she gets lonely. A part of me thinks this is true. I honestly feel like I'm being used and that my feelings are never being considered. Has anyone else had a similar situation to this? I feel really alone about it.

i havent posted here in a long time but i do check once in a while and i notice your posts about situations like this, i thought id share what i think. About this girl I would say cut ties, as you said someone has mentioned to you before, she only wants you for attention, its not a normal relationship/friendship by any means and it almost seems like she is gaslighting you into interactions, her spreading the information around to people you know adds to the relationship seeming very one sided and malicious as well.

Regarding having "several stalkers online" have you ever considered changing your online identity? Even something as simple as a name change can help to get people away from your social accounts. If you don't want to go that route you could also take a break from socials for a month or two to let things settle, people forget about things after a certain length of time. I think this could be really beneficial for you especially considering you have made numerous posts in this forum about being stalked online. A big step in doing something like this is to limit the amount of personal information you choose to share, this includes stuff like selfies, where you live, family information, things like that. the less you share online the harder it would be for people to pinpoint who you are if they are actively looking for you.

 

[Croconaw]

The power is out at least until tomorrow night.

 

[Seastar]

I have to sleep in the living room because my room is too cold. This is very uncomfortable and less peaceful than my own room. I don't know how I'm going to sleep at all.

 

[-Raven-]

I hate christmas. I love my partner but they fell asleep and i asked for a hug in dm and they didnt see it. I hate my mom. That is all.

 

[Neb]

i havent posted here in a long time but i do check once in a while and i notice your posts about situations like this, i thought id share what i think. About this girl I would say cut ties, as you said someone has mentioned to you before, she only wants you for attention, its not a normal relationship/friendship by any means and it almost seems like she is gaslighting you into interactions, her spreading the information around to people you know adds to the relationship seeming very one sided and malicious as well.

Regarding having "several stalkers online" have you ever considered changing your online identity? Even something as simple as a name change can help to get people away from your social accounts. If you don't want to go that route you could also take a break from socials for a month or two to let things settle, people forget about things after a certain length of time. I think this could be really beneficial for you especially considering you have made numerous posts in this forum about being stalked online. A big step in doing something like this is to limit the amount of personal information you choose to share, this includes stuff like selfies, where you live, family information, things like that. the less you share online the harder it would be for people to pinpoint who you are if they are actively looking for you.

So she asked to call me at 4 a.m. again. This time I answered it and I was met with a long vent out of nowhere about her neighbor and her creepy coworker. It was was very aggressive and profane. The few times I tried to add to the conversation I was met with “yeah, no.” She then asked for my “origin story.” Under her breath she said “I don’t care about what this person thinks.” I asked what she said and claimed it was about her neighbor. I proceeded to share every awful thing that happened to me over the past six years. When I started by sharing my staring habit there was visible disgust. I was so anxious hearing the vent that I just unpacked everything. Her friend started texting her partway through and she claimed to be multitasking. She said she had to had to keep it “vague.” She then quietly said to her phone “my ex has been complaining for over an hour.” At the end she said “we’ll definitely have to continue this another time.” When I texted why she called me her ex she said "It was probably being sleepy in the morning."

It was cathartic once I finally got to say something, but the whole thing felt very forced. There was an air of insincerity when she acted supportive about my trauma. Whenever I said I was improving on one of my faults she say “finally, progress.” I was shaking the entire time.

This is the most unstable connection I’ve had with someone in my entire life.

Edit: I blocked her. This has gotten out of hand and I couldn’t handle the toxicity anymore.

 

[Disneyfangirl23]

I had really stomach pains last night and food poisoning and now it’s not so bad but I still have it

 

[Romaki]

Why does my boyfriend buy me gifts as if I was a middle aged woman running her own household