VanitasFan26
I'm just a ghost.
I have to deal with my parents when they have to keep interupting me when speaking and so many times they forget important stuff I have to keep reminding me like 5 times.
I told my parents about this and treatments and they didn't seem to believe me lol. It sucks that they have such an old fashioned view on ASD/ADHD and likely have a stigma towards it, but honestly I don't care because if said treatments make my life better that's all that matters to me.I finally finally had my appointment with a neuropsycologist after many delays. A round of covid, cyclone, etc.
and i got to hear the words "I have no doubt in my mind that you have a mixture of ASD and ADHD"
I'm relieved, excited and in disbelief
It's so weird that something I believe I have is actually true, that it's not just something I've made up in my mind
I'm excited to get treatment for AuDHD rather than just lumping everything under the bracket of anxiety
I'm also annoyed that no one in my life had spotted it sooner. None of my teachers, not my parents, relatives or anyone. My mum used to always tell me that nothing was wrong with me as a kid, but I knew that there was something. there had to be something. There had to be an explanation of why i am like i am, why i wasnt like other kids (or why other kids avoided me like the plague).
this diagnosis has given me so much closure
Speaking of this, I sold something on Ebay last week and I’m still waiting for the person to pay. I don’t think it’s happening.Just finished work and I'm waiting for someone to show up to buy stuff I put online to sell. Don't know why I bothered lol, they'll probably flake. I just wanted to give all the crap to Goodwill or some place like that, but noooo we can make money. I could put this stuff online for free and still get nothing but flakes.
It's really annoying how socially acceptable it is for people to ghost, flake on commitments, and just be lazy. Like how hard is it to say you're not interested anymore you lazy turd. Then I could know I didn't have to wait or hang around for you. People suck.
I don't really know all the ins and outs of Ebay, so I'm not sure what your protection is here, but for future orders I would only deal with upfront payments. Sorry to hear about that. Things like this tend to push sellers away from their platforms, but Ebay and (places like it) love playing the idiot to make their seedy buyers happy.Speaking of this, I sold something on Ebay last week and I’m still waiting for the person to pay. I don’t think it’s happening.
We aren’t supposed to ship unless the payment is confirmed, so I still have the item. It’s just a pain to relist the item and put it back up for sale.I don't really know all the ins and outs of Ebay, so I'm not sure what your protection is here, but for future orders I would only deal with upfront payments. Sorry to hear about that. Things like this tend to push sellers away from their platforms, but Ebay and (places like it) love playing the idiot to make their seedy buyers happy.