This was this morning but I didn't have time to type it out cause I was going to work.
So for context, I can't drive yet, I don't have insurance on my car. So my parents drive me to work. Also, while I can see how this is partially my fault, there's still fault on my parent.
I work Tuesday-Saturday (unless stuff like holidays comes up) and today, Saturday, just like EVERY SATURDAY FOR THE PAST 3 MONTHS, I have to be at work by 7, not my normal time, 8. One parent left for their work, the other is at home. I wake up, eat breakfast, get changed into my work clothes, ya know do all my before work stuff. During all this time my other parent hasn't woken up yet, usually they're awake by now. I figured they wanted to sleep in more so I wait till like 6:45 before I decide that I have to go wake them up and tell them 'hey I have work today and I have to be there early.
They get mad at me for waiting for so long to wake them up and get in a pissy mood. Like, okay that part can be blamed on me. BUT it is still majority their fault.
First of all why is their alarm not set for the right time? They set an alarm, I don't normally wake them up.
Second of all I've been doing this for 3 MONTHS NOW. They KNOW I work on Saturdays, and earlier. Why do they keep forgetting this stuff?
THIRD of all, their alarm should have already BEEN set for 6am or ig 6:30 whenever they wake up. WHY was it set for later on a SATURDAY? For their alarm to go off at the time it did today means they put it like that, at the wrong time. Why did they change it?
I'm just mostly mad at them for getting mad at me and taking it out on me, like so sorry THEY keep forgetting this stuff. I didn't even say all that to them, I just kept my mouth shut mostly, which I prob shouldn't have. Also made me realize I keep my mouth shut for alot of things, because there really is no arguing with my parents, esp the one today. Any time that not only myself but also my sister say somethin against them or prove them wrong, they just wanna shut down the entire discussion or leave the room in a pissy mood. Like sorry your kids called you out on your incorrect-ness or bad view. The one acts like arguing with them is a personal attack, like when both my sister and I say 'no you're wrong on that' and try to CALMLY have a discussion with them on the reason why its wrong, they act like we're ganging up on them.
Ooh the things I could say to them if only I didn't keep my mouth shut and of only they wouldn't be rude about it, acting like even when we talk to them we're giving them attitude. And God FORBID we give our parents 'attitude'