What's Bothering You?

[Croconaw]

Spoiler: ugh

Okay, so my best friend of four years that ghosted me for like a year and a half, sent me a message last night. I was kind of scared to open it, but I read it this morning when I woke up.

She basically said “omg I’m so sorry, I’m not dead, I got locked out of my snap here add my new one.”

Idk, it felt like she was making a joke out of it. But I know that if two people were friends that long, it would leave the other one devastated if one just ghosted. Her explanation seems kinda weird though. She could have added me on her new account as someone she referred to as her best friend? It went from like non stop conversations to just nothing. It was a vanishing act. I don’t want to push for further explanation but it just doesn’t make sense? She had my phone number too and didn’t reach out to that? I’m more speechless than anything.

 

[Princess Mipha]

My so called "best friend" seems to be giving zero ****s about my wellbeing and that makes me actually pretty sad. Actually non of the small amount of friends that I have ever seemed to bother asking how I am or just in general send a message. Like okay.. I was always there for them and as always that's what I get back, I guess.. idk, I feel like just cutting them out completely currently. They probably wouldn't even notice, as I'm apparently a ghost to them anyways.. unless they need to rent about something of course..

 

[Midoriya]

Didn't get any sleep and hearing my dad eat breakfast with the sound of silverware scratching across plates is about the last thing I need to hear right now. I'm really hoping today is a peaceful day... I'm tired of all the **** that's been happening in my life lately.

 

[Violet Witch]

Spoiler: ugh

Okay, so my best friend of four years that ghosted me for like a year and a half, sent me a message last night. I was kind of scared to open it, but I read it this morning when I woke up.

She basically said “omg I’m so sorry, I’m not dead, I got locked out of my snap here add my new one.”

Idk, it felt like she was making a joke out of it. But I know that if two people were friends that long, it would leave the other one devastated if one just ghosted. Her explanation seems kinda weird though. She could have added me on her new account as someone she referred to as her best friend? It went from like non stop conversations to just nothing. It was a vanishing act. I don’t want to push for further explanation but it just doesn’t make sense? She had my phone number too and didn’t reach out to that? I’m more speechless than anything.

She doesn’t sound like a great person and the perfect example of a toxic friend if I’m brutally honest. It’s not okay to ghost someone out of the blue and then expect everything to be as it was before with a casual apology a year or so alongside a new link to her snap (I’m assuming you mean SnapChat).

It sounds like she wants as many “friends” as possible to make herself feel more popular and validated when she posts on social media. To me that’s a really sad way to live and one day she’ll end up with less friends because of her poor attitude towards friendships. You deserve better from a friend and she certainly doesn’t deserve you.

 

[Croconaw]

-snip-

Thanks for taking the time to respond to me! I really appreciate it. It was Snapchat, yes. I did feel like she was making a joke with her apology and there was a complete lack of an explanation, because I thought she would’ve added her supposed best friend when she made a new account. It makes no sense, really. I definitely agree with what you said, and there’s probably more to why she just now reached out to me and most likely to make herself feel better. Very poor friend, in my opinion.

 

[jiny]

i saw something i didn’t wanna see now my stomach is in knots

 

[oak]

Even though my covid test came back negative last week, my sickness hasn't gotten any better. My chest is full of fluid and I can't stop coughing. I've already used my emergency inhaler twice this morning and I still feel the need to use it again. My face is all red and there's beads of sweat coming down my forehead so idk what to do now. All the walk-in clinics are closed and tomorrow is Labour Day so they probs won't be open again. I'm just gonna go take a nap and hope it's easier to breathe when I wake up.

 

[Xara]

Spoiler: pet death

had to put my childhood cat down today, he was 15 and had a great life, but watching him go was pretty hard

i’m so sorry for your loss. may he rest in peace. sending many healing thoughts to you and your family. </3

Spoiler: ugh

Okay, so my best friend of four years that ghosted me for like a year and a half, sent me a message last night. I was kind of scared to open it, but I read it this morning when I woke up.

She basically said “omg I’m so sorry, I’m not dead, I got locked out of my snap here add my new one.”

Idk, it felt like she was making a joke out of it. But I know that if two people were friends that long, it would leave the other one devastated if one just ghosted. Her explanation seems kinda weird though. She could have added me on her new account as someone she referred to as her best friend? It went from like non stop conversations to just nothing. It was a vanishing act. I don’t want to push for further explanation but it just doesn’t make sense? She had my phone number too and didn’t reach out to that? I’m more speechless than anything.

that... sounds like absolute bull and makes no sense whatsoever lol. ghosting someone for over a year because you got locked out of your snapchat account is just not plausible at all, especially if she had other ways of contacting you. i’m sorry you have to deal with that. you deserve better.

Didn't get any sleep and hearing my dad eat breakfast with the sound of silverware scratching across plates is about the last thing I need to hear right now. I'm really hoping today is a peaceful day... I'm tired of all the **** that's been happening in my life lately.

silverware scratching across plates is such an awful sound oml. i hope your day gets better and that you’re able to get some rest. hang in there, friend.

Even though my covid test came back negative last week, my sickness hasn't gotten any better. My chest is full of fluid and I can't stop coughing. I've already used my emergency inhaler twice this morning and I still feel the need to use it again. My face is all red and there's beads of sweat coming down my forehead so idk what to do now. All the walk-in clinics are closed and tomorrow is Labour Day so they probs won't be open again. I'm just gonna go take a nap and hope it's easier to breathe when I wake up.

that sounds awful, i’m so sorry. i really hope you start to feel better soon!

 

[TillyGoesMeow]

Im just kinda lonely lmao idk. I use to talk to my best friend of 11 years daily & we’ve kind of teetered off & I miss talking to her often. University just keeps us both so busy. Idk I need to get back into online gaming & maybe meet new people. I’m just also super shy & awkward. Ugh.

 

[Moritz]

I accidentally flayed my thumbs while digging up bushes. Got them wrapped up to try and keep the skin on.
Not too painful now but my thumbs are kinda useless now. Makes gaming and typing hard.

Update: I have now lost skin on my middle finger.
The finger I want to show the the garden and all forms of physical labor.
My hips are killing me. And my whole weekend is gone.
I'm not even able to work in my own bed as there is work being done to that room.

This Weekend was the absolute worst.
And it's work tomorrow

 

[Foreverfox]

My so called "best friend" seems to be giving zero ****s about my wellbeing and that makes me actually pretty sad. Actually non of the small amount of friends that I have ever seemed to bother asking how I am or just in general send a message. Like okay.. I was always there for them and as always that's what I get back, I guess.. idk, I feel like just cutting them out completely currently. They probably wouldn't even notice, as I'm apparently a ghost to them anyways.. unless they need to rent about something of course..

Ugh, that sucks I'm so sorry to hear that. I hate to say this, but I'd go ahead and plan on not talking to them much or not being friends with them anymore. After having a baby, you'd be surprised at the number of "friends" that suddenly drop off of the planet, just because of a baby. I haven't heard from tons of people I used to be extremely close with after having my son. And if they're already doing this BEFORE you have a baby? They may pop back in to say congratulations, but I would t expect much more than that.

That being said, I'm here for you!! As I said before, I would have loved to have had a "mom friend" to ask questions to or vent to or just be supportive of me. Fortunately for me, my husband is amazing and was and is all of that and more, but even so, that's just never the same as having a friend who's had a baby themselves.

 

[Dunquixote]

Spoiler

My sister’s dog is apparently eating my cats’ food and my dad says it is on my cat; i heard him tell her that. Uh what is she supposed to do? guard her bowl? it is his job to watch the dog yet…

also when i was taking a bath he asks if someone is in there, uh the door is shut and locked. my cat that used to get locked in there doesn’t go there anymore so he can’t use that as an excuse

still anxious for that cat outside.

 

[Midoriya]

Im just kinda lonely lmao idk. I use to talk to my best friend of 11 years daily & we’ve kind of teetered off & I miss talking to her often. University just keeps us both so busy. Idk I need to get back into online gaming & maybe meet new people. I’m just also super shy & awkward. Ugh.

If it helps any, I definitely consider you a friend already, and I wouldn't mind talking to you more! You seem like a really cool person. I definitely understand the feeling of being shy and awkward though (this is Riley/Midoriya btw).

 

[Midoriya]

Just got done watching a 9/11 documentary and cried for a bit.

 

[jiny]

my throat hurts, my nose is burning and i keep sneezing every 5 seconds i hate being sick sm.

 

[ali.di.magix]

I've always supported and seen the logic behind decisions my government has made when it comes to the COVID response, but man they're really going overkill with some of these rules. Like mask mandates across the country where there's only been transmission in 2 cities? It seems very unnecessary. I guess it's better to be safe than sorry.

 

[Alienfish]

Dear site: please admit you just didn't update the status of my thing, jeez LOL.

Post automatically merged: Sep 6, 2021

my throat hurts, my nose is burning and i keep sneezing every 5 seconds i hate being sick sm.

Oh noo, did it get worse? Luckily I'm more or less recovered but I'll stay home today and maybe tomorrow for safety measures, I basically know why I got my **** but it's also my own fault so, lol :/

 

[Chris]

Education is stressful. I've spent all afternoon either on hold on the phone or waiting for online chat service people to get back to me. Done as much as I can for today. Head hurts just at the prospect of having to continue with it tomorrow.

 

[jiny]

Dear site: please admit you just didn't update the status of my thing, jeez LOL.

Post automatically merged: Sep 6, 2021

Oh noo, did it get worse? Luckily I'm more or less recovered but I'll stay home today and maybe tomorrow for safety measures, I basically know why I got my **** but it's also my own fault so, lol :/

it got worse !!! but my test results came back in and it just says i have a common cold but the doctor said i should be better by tomorrow, so i’m hoping he’s right

 

[moo_nieu]

steam cleaners came and all the past tenants cat pee is now out of the carpet... just in time for me to realize the smell has been absorbed by the bottom of our mattress hopefully fabric spray will help