What's Bothering You?

[moo_nieu]

Sorry you’re going through that and you absolutely shouldn’t have to.

If you haven’t already, you need to keep a very detailed record of everything wrong preferably with pictures and dates and make sure you have proof that you didn’t damage these things because they could possibly try to blame these things on you. You can send these things in writing to them that they need to be fixed and I think they have a certain amount of time to comply before you can report them, but it needs to be in writing for proof that you have asked them. at the very least though make sure you have that proof because they don’t sound very reliable or trustworthy to me.

thanks yeah were kind of expecting that to happen but we have a ton of photos and submitted everything in the first few days thankfully. nothing we can do now but suck it up and try our best to make it clean i guess.

at least now that were in the state we like we can visit places in person next time instead of having to rely on photos

 

[Millysaurusrexjr]

it's small and petty but I am annoyed at how expensive cork fabric is. $1.52 by the INCH,

 

[xSuperMario64x]

not as much of a bother now but I was woken up at 4:55am cause my dog was whining really softly and sparsely and it scared me so I got up and HE WEDGED HIMSELF UNDER MY BED AND WAS STUCK, EVERYTHING EXCEPT FOR HIS HEAD WAS UNDER THERE. I honestly have no clue how the **** he got himself stuck but I had to get up and lift up the bed so he could wiggle himself out. what an idiot lol.

anyways now it's 5am and I'm wide awake

 

[Orius]

Pretty annoyed by this shopkeeper at the game store today. I bought my Pokémon Sword and Shield today at two different game stores (same company, different chains/locations), only to find out that it's region locked! To Australia! That means I'd have to create a new account and change my region in order to purchase the DLC! What a hassle. Moreover, I was afraid that my Switch would be bricked if I change my region, so I refused to buy Pokémon Sword at the second store and had to now find a buyer for my bought Pokémon Shield.

Thankfully, the first shopkeeper at the first store was much more professional and knowledgeable, and he informed me that my Switch would be safe from bricking even if I change region because it's an official method approved by Nintendo... or something. Anyway, so I went back to the second store and criticized the shopkeeper for not knowing this stuff. I told him, "You need to know this stuff, or you'd risk losing your customers. I almost walked out and refused to buy the game." I'm someone who's very principled when it comes to customer service. If I pay money for your goods, I expect a certain level of service. I'm not an a-hole demanding servitude, but the least one could do is be knowledgeable about the crap you're selling. It's called "professionalism." We have a little tax in Singapore, by the way, called the GST - goods and SERVICES tax. SERVICE is in the name!

Anyway, more trouble brews at home when I came home to find out that my mum messed around with my drawers, "organizing" it so that I can't find anything. She even threw away one of the protective casings of my joy-con! What the heck?! Christ, I swear, she keeps pulling crap like that. I like my stuff disorganized! I like it messy in the places where I would remember where to find them!!!

Sigh. What a crappy day. And after I was happy too about buying my 3DS.

 

[GuerreraD]

really tough time dealing with anxiety lately. it was manageable for a while, but it feels like i'm back to square one. it hurts not having friends, but for the most part i'm not sure i even have it in me to maintain friendships in my current state lol. it feels like i wake up nervous and stay nervous until i go to sleep. there's a constant pit in my stomach and i just wish i could do something about it. doctors are booked out for months. everything seems pointless.

For what I've been reading lately in this thread, you're not alone in your anxiety. Several other people seem to be dealing with it, so first of all, don't be afraid of expressing your feelings about it, because at least some people will be able to relate

I've never suffered from anxiety, but I've been through depression a few times. I know it's not the same, but what I mean, I understand when you're feeling "back to square one". Wanting/needing friends but feeling unable of keeping them is a frightening inside thing!

I don't know if this will help you any, but you can always come here and let your voice out. You can keep it light with the other members, so not to feel pressured; yet others will read or reply to you, so hopefully you won't feel so alone. You're always welcome.

 

[moo_nieu]

well scratch what i said about the ac either blowing really hot or really cold. we cant seem to get heat at all no matter what we do. set the dial to 76 last night hoping for it to be warmer and its 67/68 this morning D: each night gets colder so dunno what were gonna do. im not sure its even doing anything.. phone call scheduled with landlord today so hopefully they will fix it. this is such crap i think we really should be getting a discount. this has to be illegal, right?

nevermind, i should just stop complaining and focus on other things. no use in bothering myself more

 

[_Rainy_]

well scratch what i said about the ac either blowing really hot or really cold. we cant seem to get heat at all no matter what we do. set the dial to 76 last night hoping for it to be warmer and its 67/68 this morning D: each night gets colder so dunno what were gonna do. im not sure its even doing anything.. phone call scheduled with landlord today so hopefully they will fix it. this is such crap i think we really should be getting a discount. this has to be illegal, right?

nevermind, i should just stop complaining and focus on other things. no use in bothering myself more

I don’t think that’s legal.

 

[xSuperMario64x]

I have so much I want to do yet so little time/energy to do it :,,,,,)

maybe I need to just take it easy for a day, like actually do nothing, and then jump back into my work so I can get my energy back.

 

[moo_nieu]

I don’t think that’s legal.

yeah i agree. i dont know what to do though besides talk to our landlord and try to have her resolve it or just deal with it as best we can. its only a 6 month lease so it could be worse

at least we found a way to turn the ac off and its made it less cold inside without the cold air blowing constantly. theres a switch nearby that says high low and we found if you put it in the middle the ac turns off so thats an improvement at least. im not sure if its supposed to do that but whatever works. i also realized that if the ac wont heat, i can just buy plug-in heaters for the winter to not freeze. it wont affect our utilities since we pay a flat rate. the ad for the place said central heat and air so im confused but it doesnt really seem worth the energy to fight it. honestly i should probably just stop complaining and move on

 

[Soigne]

concerned about my safety. i was followed around while i was at target and i had to sprint for my life as i left the store. i thought i lost the guy but he snuck up on me and was trying to attack me. in broad daylight. i’m already having problems with my anxiety, the last thing i need is to deal with this trauma on top of it.

 

[_Rainy_]

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That’s really awful and you have a right to be upset. Not the easiest decision if you want to remain on good terms, but at the same time it really isn’t ok. Either way I would definitely put your needs to them in writing just so you have proof of it.The sooner the better because I think they have a certain amount of time to fix it before you can report it and you may change your mind later. At the very least you’ll have written proof that you’ve asked them for later on.

 

[DaCoSim]

Welp, I had my C7 (neck- cervical) disc replacement yday. Things went very well, but it feels like anything I swallow has to go over a walnut that’s stuck in my throat. At least my pain is bearable and I’m on loads of meds that help. I ended up being able to order a couple of animal Crossing coloring books from Amazon so I’ve been coloring some playing my game son I’m watching a show with my mom. Hopefully I’ll sleep better tonight though. Sleep hasn’t been easy.

 

[VanitasFan26]

Trading in Animal Crossing is like trying to wait patiently to get stuff done and when you feel like hours and hours have been passed it seems like no one is responding to you when you're trying to sell stuff or get stuff you really want. I can only be patient for so long up until I have to do important life stuff and when the day is done I have to go to bed. I know people have stuff to do their life and I understand that so well, but what really bothers me is that when they have their status set to "Online" you would assume they would respond, but for whatever reason they take forever to respond.

Usually when they do its always "Sorry for the late response and thanks for being super patient" I mean okay but you could just set your status if you were "Busy" doing other stuff while online, but if you were to set it to "Offline" it would make much sense. This would not bother me so much if people on (certain site that must not be named) do that more often so that way it would be easier to tell who is online and who is not.

No offense to anyone out there who has busy lives and they have important stuff to do. I understand that being patient is important, but when you have to wait like 6 to 10 hours for someone to get to you while you're trading it can be a time waster and the worst thing can happen if the seller or buyer gets to you while you're a sleep due to the issue of different time zones. I just have to get this off my chest because ever since I started back trading this is the issue I have to deal with most of the time. I try my best not to let bother me but man it puts me in a really sour mood.

 

[a potato]

Trading in Animal Crossing is like trying to wait patiently to get stuff done and when you feel like hours and hours have been passed it seems like no one is responding to you when you're trying to sell stuff or get stuff you really want. I can only be patient for so long up until I have to do important life stuff and when the day is done I have to go to bed. I know people have stuff to do their life and I understand that so well, but what really bothers me is that when they have their status set to "Online" you would assume they would respond, but for whatever reason they take forever to respond.

Usually when they do its always "Sorry for the late response and thanks for being super patient" I mean okay but you could just set your status if you were "Busy" doing other stuff while online, but if you were to set it to "Offline" it would make much sense. This would not bother me so much if people on (certain site that must not be named) do that more often so that way it would be easier to tell who is online and who is not.

No offense to anyone out there who has busy lives and they have important stuff to do. I understand that being patient is important, but when you have to wait like 6 to 10 hours for someone to get to you while you're trading it can be a time waster and the worst thing can happen if the seller or buyer gets to you while you're a sleep due to the issue of different time zones. I just have to get this off my chest because ever since I started back trading this is the issue I have to deal with most of the time. I try my best not to let bother me but man it puts me in a really sour mood.

Have you tried trading on the forum? Maybe you’ll have better experiences in this community. I’ve had overwhelmingly positive trading experiences here. People generally answer quickly here, too.

 

[_Rainy_]

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[Reginald Fairfield]

James Corden.

 

[DinosaurDumpster]

The tip of my left thumb has been numb all day.. I guess its what I get for having my instrument rest entirely on that thumb all day as well.

 

[Orius]

The 3DS I bought second-hand didn't come with the NFC reader, so I couldn't read my Amiibo cards in New Leaf... Had to buy one on eBay. Doesn't arrive 'till Oct 17th...

Sigh. Should've just bought a new 3DS. I mean, they're rare now and expensive, practically nowhere available in Singapore so I have to purchase from Amazon (which means massive shipping fee), but still... would've probably saved me the trouble.

 

[Millysaurusrexjr]

Trading in Animal Crossing is like trying to wait patiently to get stuff done and when you feel like hours and hours have been passed it seems like no one is responding to you when you're trying to sell stuff or get stuff you really want. I can only be patient for so long up until I have to do important life stuff and when the day is done I have to go to bed. I know people have stuff to do their life and I understand that so well, but what really bothers me is that when they have their status set to "Online" you would assume they would respond, but for whatever reason they take forever to respond.

Usually when they do its always "Sorry for the late response and thanks for being super patient" I mean okay but you could just set your status if you were "Busy" doing other stuff while online, but if you were to set it to "Offline" it would make much sense. This would not bother me so much if people on (certain site that must not be named) do that more often so that way it would be easier to tell who is online and who is not.

No offense to anyone out there who has busy lives and they have important stuff to do. I understand that being patient is important, but when you have to wait like 6 to 10 hours for someone to get to you while you're trading it can be a time waster and the worst thing can happen if the seller or buyer gets to you while you're a sleep due to the issue of different time zones. I just have to get this off my chest because ever since I started back trading this is the issue I have to deal with most of the time. I try my best not to let bother me but man it puts me in a really sour mood.

Like potato said, you should definitely consider trading on here! I've done over 100 trades and I've only had one iffy experience and that was partly my own fault. Most people on here are very nice and very quick to respond. It's also really cheap trading on TBT with the forum currency.. a little TBT can go a long way when it comes to buying or cataloging items

 

[Alienfish]

The 3DS I bought second-hand didn't come with the NFC reader, so I couldn't read my Amiibo cards in New Leaf... Had to buy one on eBay. Doesn't arrive 'till Oct 17th...

Sigh. Should've just bought a new 3DS. I mean, they're rare now and expensive, practically nowhere available in Singapore so I have to purchase from Amazon (which means massive shipping fee), but still... would've probably saved me the trouble.

Ugh yeah I feel you, I think a lot of 2nd hand 3ds consoles are expensive everywhere, I assume cause a lot are also LE ones as well. Hope you get it sooner, though!