What's Bothering You?

i started crying last night because of a discord im in. my gf just kept playing her game and not trying to ask what was wrong but thats okay

there is a user on the discord who was in vent talking about how they think everyone hates them because they deleted important things without anyones consent and got backlash for it (rightfully so) and people were there for them when theyve hurt me really bad in the past but nobody but my gf ever seems to care that theyve hurt me, like i dont matter

basically what they did was i was venting about not getting any attention for my art but everyone else who posted art got tons of attention and they flat out told me "it isnt fair for everyone to get attention" "if everyone gets attention it feels fake" easy for you to say since youre a mod, how do you think it feels for someone who keeps trying to talk to others and gets ignored and everyone just knows me as my gfs gf
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i stopped posting my art everywhere but toyhouse after that because its just not worth it if im really the one that needs to be shafted for everyone else to get attention

Is this is the same person you were mentioning a while ago about how they were angry that POC artists were getting more attention so they made a poc character to get more attention as well? Cuz if so, that's really pathetic and laughably stupid.
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Also to add on, I totally get not posting your art anymore, but I'm sure you're an amazing artist and that there will be a time when it truly gets the attention it deserves. I really get that because I have friends with acquaintances that have art that gets around ~100 likes for their art while mine will get like 1 or 2 likes. I've stopped posting them online because I really don't think anyone would care, but also mainly to focus on myself!
 
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sick of everyone getting on my case and rushing me all the time i wish they'd all just go away and let me do things at my own pace for once! 😡

just like what geri says in toy story 2 "u can't rush art"
 
So the dry skin I was previously complaining about got much worse, but I have an appointment with the dermatologist today and the nerves are now hitting me.
I’m glad I’m going, to see what’s wrong, but my pessimistic anxious mind is jumping to the worse conclusion. Especially with the biggest breakout being on my face.
I don’t care if my face gets scars, but I just hope it doesn’t end up being some kind of medical problem in the long run. 💀
 
I don't know but I just wanted to say feel you on every level about feeling temporary to people you thought you could count on and how they treat you in their lives. I've had so many friends drop me for other people and never look back or don't realise the hurt they cause to those of us who just want someone to be loyal to.

Sending you a big virtual hug. 💙
thank you so much. and i'm SO sorry you've unfortunately been a victim to experiencing this hurt as well. sending you a hug in return dear
 
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The physical distance between my partner and I. I can't travel due to corona and we live a sea away she in the Netherlands and I in the UK. I can't wait for the real gates to open back up so I can be with her and feel wholesome again. Some days are just ridiculously hard and I know if I were with her I'd be 100%. We both work, but always find time for each other every night and day and play games together to break up the lack of being physically together.

We spent a lovely valentines together and I sent her AC chocolates and flowers in the mail.
 
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Woke-up at 3am with a stomachache and couldn't get back to sleep. Coming up 5am so I'm officially giving up and playing Spiderman until meetings start (when I no doubt will suddenly become sleepy). :sleep:
 
Feeling down in the dumps about a lot of things. Stressed out. Tired. I also wish someone would make me a Valentine’s Day card for the TBT event, but then I would have to make one for them as well, and I’m the least artistic person in the world. No use complaining though, as that’s not going to change anything.
 
I didn’t realize the valentines cards had to be Animal Crossing themed. I’m not sure how I’m going to incorporate that into my current card, and I really don’t have much time to make a new one from scratch, and I really wanted the purple feather. I’ve been busy and stressed with so many assignments.
 
I didn’t realize the valentines cards had to be Animal Crossing themed. I’m not sure how I’m going to incorporate that into my current card, and I really don’t have much time to make a new one from scratch, and I really wanted the purple feather. I’ve been busy and stressed with so many assignments.
Puns? Rooney is a boxer Kangaroo. The term knock-out at least used to a romantic compliment.
 

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